讀書與運動員真能兼顧

annie40

睇吓想做到甚么水平, 入港队不难, 参加奥运会的资格就要在学业和运动双方面加倍努力, 如要达到有机会拿取奥运会金牌的水平,就要停学,接受全天候训练!

annie40

回復 yumommom 的帖子

I also have to struggle between whether she has to focus on her study and pursue her talent in badminton. The really is that only a very few can handle both. If she has to excel in the badminton field, she has to receive training for 6 days a week, each time for 3-4 hours. In this situation, hoe can she perform well in her study(if I target the 3 most prestigious universities in HK) ? So the coach always pushes me to choose either  pursue "study" or "badminton". For me, of course "study" is the priority but my daughter is very naive, she wants to handle both. However, she is not the one with good discipline and determination to manage these two challenge tasks.
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两者兼得的关键在于孩子有否强大的意志和discipline.  这点你和孩子要非常清晰!

真心关怀孩子的coach 唔会逼父母二择其一, 反而应该鼓励 女女更用功地读书: 如果读书成绩下滑, 我就唔派你出线嘞! D 国际赛周街有, 边去得甘多!

阿Sir! 请要搅清楚, 我生个女出呢, 唔系帮你拿奖牌的, 你全天侯打badminton都未达标, 就叫我个女十五六岁,一定要'任择其一' 想靠害乎??  如果我是你, 一定会愈逼我就愈走得快!

刚看完'Racing Secret' by Tailor Hamilton, 讲Armstrong 和环法单车的食药黑幕, 其中提到一群一级单车手, 有本事有读书的, 遇到人生交叉点, 话未食就唔食, 退出回家开始人生的另一个chapter, 永远当一个干净的人, 其余的没读好书, 唔做单车手就唔知做物好, 唯有吸毒, 换血, 运毒, 惨过做道友!  

如有空可以睇吓呢本'运动员堕落史', 讲比阿女知道人性的黑暗面, 人生苦短, 一定要有選择!

annie40

回復 ANChan59 的帖子

在IS内 能两者兼顾的孩子很多,也许是他们年幼时的日常工课比较少, 待到年长, 个人努力做到是出于自己的真心意愿, 完全是: work hard, play hard.  生活中学会取舍, 没想过甚么是sacrifice. You want it, you make it.  不是甚么大不了.

annie40

回復 Obiepapa 的帖子

一般人來說是學有餘力方以重體育吧。
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所见是以下:

1) 學有餘力方以重體育
2) 學 + 體育 ,同步进步
3) 體育高时, 学业就是一般
4) 因为好體育,  學习反而专心, 成绩是出奇地进步.
5) 全情90%投放于體育,根本没时间读书. 成绩愈见退步, 慢慢便自我放弃了.

在运动圈子内, 以上五类学生也有, 同常是 2) 类的, 因为各方面出色, 被误解为本1) 类而已..............