13歲的反叛兒

Laputa

Dear parents,

I learnt a lot from you all here.  My daughters are just 2 and 5, but I think good habits must be nurtured from young.  13 may be too old to change.  IF you are given a chance going back to the history, what 3 things you would like remind the then you to teach your child? (well, not far back enough to stop the pregnacy )

Laputa

mattsmum,

Thanks a lot for your sharing.  What kind of good habits you referring to?

I tried
1. reading time
2. motivate her do homework herself after school so that we can play a lot of family games when I back home
3. everyday ask her "any interesting/unhappy things happened in kinder" and share some of mine
4. giving pocket money on monthly basis, but will ask her to put 50% into piggy bank for future use and let her decide how to spend the remaining 50%
5. planning to incorp Eviepa's X min revision every day when she starts primary school.

Anything else? 各位家長. 請多多指教

Laputa

我同意wunma 所講, eviepa 的行為是建基於 "他女兒能比到信心父母不去嚴管她也不會行差踏錯".自由與放縱只是一線之差, 想取得平衡又談何容易呢!

Laputa

明樂新書《港孩》，根據觀察，大部份「港孩」均有一個或數個以下特徵：

一、 外表早熟、心智遲熟。
二、 很喜歡玩，但無甚興趣。
三、 對大部份事情最普遍的反應是沒有反應。
四、 擅於「看見」，不擅「閱讀」；擅於「收聽」，但從不「理解」。
五、 渴望被注意，但又沒有面對群眾的信心。
六、 什麼都不在乎不介懷不思考不要求，典型答案是：不知道。
七、 沒有責任感、沒有自理能力，同時也沒什麼好奇心和慾望。
八、 不珍惜學習，不嚮往長大，不怕悶，只怕辛苦。
九、 精於計算結果，毫不享受過程。
十、 本性善良，不吃人間煙火，當然也未經任何苦楚及傷害。

How many points above are describing your children?