聖xx尼學校涉對三年級學生造成永久心理傷害

SimplyAbuse

仲有2012年2月11日我係學校做完義工，行路回家途中收到前夫sms話攞晒錢，叫我3月中前要搬走，兩個女自己諗掂佢！2012年2月26日發現右胸流血，2月27日到醫院檢查，再發現乳癌。亦因為咁到我而搵到錢希望盡量慳，因為我唔知我可以活多久，所以我盡量唔希望轉國際學校。我大女係資優生，用一個半月由第尾到第一，今日仍然第一。當上年12月發現妹妹出現問題亦只打算妹妹轉國際學校，家姐轉其他本地學校，12月已經自己寄信申請。而家家姐親眼睇住妹妹昏迷係地下，家姐根本承受唔到，你可以點？我地所有一切都係醫院有紀錄，我無需要作，亦唔會作。工作已經夠忙，身體亦唔好，根本唔希望為其他事浪費時間，但當自己的女係我三個月多次懇求校方處理，但老師依舊做同樣行為甚至故意製造更多傷害，我唔能夠唔出聲，而家係講緊lifetime damage，唔係一個月、一年或兩年。我到我死都唔會原諒所有傷害我兩個女的人及行為！我點我都會撐，但所有以傷害別人攻擊別人為樂的人，你需要上一堂，為你的行為你的說話負責。

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而我地屋企background 係入學時已經表明，班主任、社工、校長都知。我ex 是alcoholic，有事就打，全身傷晒去醫院死口話自己跌倒。細女兩歳扭計喊前夫就鎖佢一起入房，我同大女kept knocking on the door n begged him let her out 都唔比。所以細女好怕被人留係房入面，我亦有同學校社工講，到出事前一星期我仍然每日要求校方唔好再唔通知我留佢一個，出事前三日即考試周期間佢班主任每日放學執好書包排隊就叫佢攞筆袋出來做改正，佢又要怕改唔切自己留係課室，又怕老師拍抬，又怕老師大聲喝，終於頂到考試第二天，完成考試，13:10返到屋企，14:10昏迷地下。咁請問作為母親可以點？

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SimplyAbuse 發表於 15-5-16 10:59
一個痛心的經歷Purely sharing our experiences n feelings about the school.
There has been a lot of h ...

回覆 SimplyAbuse 的帖子 而我地屋企background 係入學時已經表明，班主任、社工、校長都知。我ex 是alcoholic，有事就打，全身傷晒去醫院死口話自己跌倒。細女兩歳扭計喊前夫就鎖佢一起入房，我同大女kept knocking on the door n begged him let her out 都唔比。所以細女好怕被人留係房入面，我亦有同學校社工講，到出事前一星期我仍然每日要求校方唔好再唔通知我留佢一個，出事前三日即考試周期間佢班主任每日放學執好書包排隊就叫佢攞筆袋出來做改正，佢又要怕改唔切自己留係課室，又怕老師拍抬，又怕老師大聲喝，終於頂到考試第二天，完成考試，13:10返到屋企，14:10昏迷地下。咁請問作為母親可以點？

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其實都無咩只係大女已經5日無返學，原本以為佢一直資優班，唔差在呢兩個月，但學校又因為一d事拖延，坤咗佢一個月有多又唔交代，佢咪唔想返law。我已經叫佢hea住返，反正每學期都第一，最後hea 住返2日放三日都頂埋佢，佢話諗諗。我決定由佢，有心理障礙，唔想佢出事，因為之前學校亦有留佢係學校超過2.5 hours 無通知我幾次，叫佢地解釋，又唔解釋。今日學校仲email我叫我辧公時間搵英文科陳主任，叫佢解釋。佢都傻，我唔駛返工咩，今日簽咗紙比兩間律師樓搞。等佢地辦公時間慢慢傾，上court時有需要我先出席。bar 話我地一家基本上可以豁免出席大部分。返埋6月放暑假去巴黎1個月學整蛋糕！ :)細女夢想係開bakery整唔同款式蛋糕比人，令所有人都開心。因為以前我FTM每次食我親手做的旦糕就係佢最開心的 moments...佢想比同樣的幸福感覺比其他人。:) 我地三個一齊學☺️7月尾做義工，8月開學。

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SimplyAbuse 發表於 15-5-16 10:59
一個痛心的經歷Purely sharing our experiences n feelings about the school.
There has been a lot of h ...

Like I said this was purely sharing our experiences and feelings about the school plus the local education system and local teachers' professional conduct.There is no doubt that my whole family is seriously sick as stated in a 26-page psycho-educational report, my younger one is diagnosed with 2 very serious diagnosis. Sadly it may also be life time damage. From the 30 hours assessment sessions, these are clearly triggered by the repeated incidents and non-considerate treatments by class teacher and poor school management. I post it here because I m having a major meltdown but I can't cry in front of my kids or at work. So I spill out my anger, my hatred and my fears here. U don't have to agree with what I have written in here but pls don't pour salt on our wounds.  You can open another 10 posts to criticise but not here. My elder one refused to go to school for 5 days already. I m clueless on how to convince her. And I definitely don't want her suffer like her lil sis. But what can I do? Life must go on.
This case will officially become a court case.,so I guess we all should stop here. Think if your kids have gone thru as much as my kids, what will u do? How do u feel. I just want my girls have a happy and healthy life. It's this simple!

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轉咗啦！係心理醫生協助下妹妹已經轉咗，因為損害太大醫生見到學校及教育局完全無心幫小朋友，或者在local school 制度，ranking才是最重要，醫生同我公司幫我即刻轉咗妹妹去國際學校。家姐8月轉，不過佢亦已經唔敢再返了。5日la，7日學校就需要報上教署，再交比社工跟進。報告指出由於老師及學校及社工的某些行為，已經在多方面做成長期甚至永久damage. Details唔講，律師處理學校及老師。我只專注小朋友生理心理健康及努力工作。

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其實唔係自願想佢英文為母語，我以前要返工架，佢日間時係工人姐姐湊，我工作關係大部分時間都是講英文，工人姐姐都講英文，佢daddy大部分時間係飲洒同唔講野。到9個月我resigned自己照顧佢，佢已經一睇中文電視節目就喊。而家d幼稚園playgroup都有好多外國人，佢嘅朋友又咁啱都係英文為母語，所以中文真係弱。