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The below message is purely to answer the questions iantsang asked in the other thread. It does not constitute any feedback or comments to any other threads or issues.
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Ian,
Thanks for your questions and sharing. However, I’m sorry to tell what you’ve done to wunma is not my advice, not even in the first place. Last night, I suggested you may consider do a “time-out” and stick a “STOP” sign to the suspected topic is something like that:
http://forum.edu-kingdom.com/vie ... &extra=page%3D1
By doing this, the topic is suspended but still available for review. But, what you’ve done to wunma, in the first place, is to remove the whole topic. That’s to “kill” the topic. For those who haven’t read wunma’s removed topic and the deleted message, you can refer to http://forum.edu-kingdom.com//vi ... page%3D1&page=3 #45 where I wholly quoted the content of wunma’s deleted message.
OK, you asked me “do you have other suggestion?” Here’s my suggestion. If I were you, I will do nothing to wunma’s thread and leave it open for further discussion.
In wunma’s removed thread, she just expressed she was addicted to BK some 8 years ago and enjoyed the chatting with many old friends. Along the years, many old friends dropped out and wunma became less addicted to BK. What pull wunma to BK these years is merely to meet the remaining couples of “old cake”. Now, the remaining “old cakes” have gone, so she can totally pull out.
What’s wrong with this sincere sharing? I can’t see any part of this violate BK forum’s rules and regulations. So, if I were you, I will do nothing with it. After all, under the current critical moment, to leave a topic for the “old cakes” to channel their feelings and emotion is utmost necessary, in my opinion.
Wunma then wrote a “hot” message at 11:14 this morning. Your reaction was to ban her account straight. Maybe you’re too young to know wunma is actually one of the modest members in BK. She never gets angry over the past 8 years. If I were you, I would in the first place think about what made her become “hot”?
That’s my answer and suggestion to your questions.
Tommy |
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