駛唔駛咁呀, 老師!?

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My view point is : No problem la.  Let the school train him to be responsible and be tough.  It's absolutely good for him in long term when he has to encounter difficulties in the society.

By the way, you should never complain the school in front of your son otherwise he will think that he's always right and the school is wrong and will be supported whatever he's done.

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If this marking scheme is carried in the whole school to everyone, I dont think it's  a problem.  Every student will be more aware of their responsiblities and will try to do better to reach a higher standard.  I will treat it as a training to the "quality" of the students.

My daughter is studying in a school with similar systems.  She's very well trained by the school in this way (only tough in her homework or projects, not the same to people as the school will provide moral teaching at the same time, so I don't agree that they will become mean persons under such school system).

I disagree that it's a 極刑.  If parents or students cannot afford it, they should change to some other "free style" schools.

原帖由 wingsma 於 10-4-9 21:15 發表

當然不可以無要求，但是要有分寸，不能動輒便施以極刑，這也是一種分辨輕重的教育，使小朋友懂得分辨輕重。

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其實不同類型的學校有不同的教育方針, 有些較為傳統,有些可以十分寬鬆, 如果家長把小朋友送進某一間學校, 應該信任和配合學校,就由學校教育他們吧. 不是說隨便不喜歡便叫人轉校,我的意思是說若家長不能認同或忍受一些嚴謹的學校, 那應該選一些很自由風的學校. 可能入到去才知道咁嚴的，咁亦真係可以考慮轉．不過我真的並不認同此topic所提及的學校是在用重典．我從我小朋友身上看見她從學校中的得著，是正面的，並不是如某些網友所言的可怕．我的小朋友一向是大小姐一名，做事有頭冇尾，得過且過，但學校的一套方法令她改變，至少對功課認真，對自己有交待． 細路有好多種，有些好易教，有些好多問題，好多野可以兩面睇，你話亂世用重典，我話嚴師出高徒．用耐心，用讚的方法固然可取，亦討好，但不是唯一的誡律．我相信校方所用的方法背後的動機都是想教好學生．我亦相信學校除了這些關於"罰"的規條外，佢地亦有其他關於"奬賞"的制度去誘導學生．以逹致其教育目的．所以不應將"罰"的一方面無限放大，只看到負面的．學校當然不是懲教處．其實真的有些老師是變態的，故意玩學生．但這是個別問題，不在此討論． 社會的自由風太多太濫了，學校真幫了我小朋友一把．

原帖由 eviepa 於 10-4-12 22:31 發表


我不希望學校如實反映現實社會。我希望學校對學生多愛心、多耐性、多教導、多稱讚、多鼓勵，少some demanding, some unreasonable、少責備、少處罰。

學校不是懲教署，重點是教，不是懲。

學校生涯是要學生認識到人間 ...

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Hi eviepa,

I just want to emphasis that, yes, my kid's school is quite tough to students' behavior and homework, but at the same time, the school itself and the teachers are full of love and concerns to children.  My kid loves her school and she is being taught to be responsible to what she's doing.  Of course she must obey the school rules but at the same time, she will be praised and get small prizes if she can complete her work.  Moral teaching is emphasised too.

A child can be tough to herself but nice to other people.  Parents can request their kids to do things in a perfect way but at the same they show their forgiveness to kids' faults.  

Yes, I remembered the primary school that you chose for your daughter. It's a "free style" school.  Maybe you have not experienced what I experienced.  

Also I am not afraid that the school will deduct marks in my girl's school report, though I will feel painful in my heart.  If she's wrong, then marks should be deducted under the school rules.  Everyone is treated fairly there. She has to learn from faults and find her ways to improve herself.  This is what education is (I emphasis it's my point of view only).  Just let the school work it out!

原帖由 eviepa 於 10-4-13 01:00 發表


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1. 我從來未聞說過任何一間小學，數学幾十題練習, 做漏一題, 要當欠交。而且欠交纪碌會寫在成x表上，會影響中學選校。這種懲罰如果不是重典我就無話可說了。

2. 學校或是家長要求小朋友事事都這樣嚴格，缺乏包容， ...