國際學校如何處理小朋友既自理問題???

gardenwoods

無錯，國際學校就是這樣教育的....我囝讀了一年，我還在適應當中...其實無話誰對誰錯的...只不過既然我們選了國際學校的教學方式，同時亦要接受他們在其他方面的教導方法...我想，你小朋友的學校跟我囝的差不多...老師一般要求孩子獨立....最初一兩次可能會口手並用 (同口提點 + 動手幫忙)...但之後便會變成只用口提點...再之後便不理會了....我囝學校 case 係：nursery 開學初，孩子如要玩水，必須先行穿上圍裙...囝囝最初有人提點 & 幫忙...但兩星期後，囝囝每日放學都換了衫 (因為校服濕左)....我知是因他玩水前忘記穿圍裙....一星期後，囝囝放學沒有換衫了，只是校服少少濕濕的 (原以為洗手或飲水時弄濕)....下一星期後，TA (香港人) 靜靜跟我說，叫我同囝囝傾下玩水前要穿圍裙一事...到那時我才知囝囝沒有換衫的上星期，原來不是囝囝學乖了，而是老師為令囝囝自己明白，所以故意不幫囝囝換衫..任由他濕透的校服在他身上自行風乾....另一case係：囝囝一入學不久便病了很久...好了回校後又病...我跟醫生討論過後，懷疑學校的戶外沙池不太乾淨 (囝囝每次回家也似 spiderman 電影中的那個 sandman 一樣，全身連鞋襪也能流出一堆沙的)，所以回校跟老師說暫時不要讓囝囝玩沙吧...怎知老師回說那沙池很乾淨的，而且玩沙也是學習環節之一，不能減除，最多今個星期不玩，但下星期開始還是要繼續的！其他類似的例子還有很多...我選擇了這間學校，因為它是一間好學校，所以我亦選擇了自己 & 囝囝作出改變....

你的case，我想還是好好教導一下小朋友，他自己多加抹擦鼻水吧...

Good luck!

原帖由 pollybell 於 10-7-28 15:14 發表
我其實已經有心理準備國際幼稚園唔會好似本地既咁好服侍.
1.國際無如厠時間有需要自己出聲.
2.點心時間你要食自己黎拿,唔食無人會迫你食.呢兩點我都接受.

但呢幾日有一個問題發生,我小朋友三歲因為鼻敏感有鼻水,睇 ...

[ 本帖最後由 gardenwoods 於 10-7-28 19:51 編輯 ]

pollybell

謝謝kakaya : 資料好有用.

原帖由 KaKaYa 於 10-7-28 17:46 發表
Dear pollybell,
My kid also have Nasal Allergies inborn. So try to keep good health for him.
I try to give 華潤堂(淮安冬虫草粉) with milk from baby to now. But you may used long times.
Now he better a ...

KaKaYa

I'm afraid the school would be complaint me about this flu.
So I'll write down the handbook and clarify this is not flu is Nasal Allgeries only.
And ask them " ....give you inconverience caused......!
Sometimes, you can take about doctor certify to identification.
Because most of parent afraid the kid's classmates have sick at kindergarten or primary school.

原帖由 pollybell 於 10-7-28 17:26 發表
如果咁好多時都唔洗返學都似,我個仔黎講一起親就十幾日,冬天可能重跨張,無可能等好返.

想請教下大家應該點寫???係咪話有鼻敏感問題如有需要請協助佢????可否俾個sample我,我唔係好知點寫.請大家盡快幫忙,因為我想今 ...

KaKaYa

Dear pollybell,
My kid also have Nasal Allergies inborn. So try to keep good health for him.
I try to give 華潤堂(淮安冬虫草粉) with milk from baby to now. But you may used long times.
Now he better around 2-3 years. So you can try.
I don't expect to take more western medicine for the kids.
If you prefer faster , you can try this http://www.lamkamsang.com/
But you must see the instruction for the child.
My child only under 8, he take only 1 pill when he need. (like the weather is not very good 1- 2 times only.)

pollybell

如果咁好多時都唔洗返學都似,我個仔黎講一起親就十幾日,冬天可能重跨張,無可能等好返.

想請教下大家應該點寫???係咪話有鼻敏感問題如有需要請協助佢????可否俾個sample我,我唔係好知點寫.請大家盡快幫忙,因為我想今日send e-mail去學校,等明天返黎唔好似之前咁.

原帖由 KaKaYa 於 10-7-28 17:07 發表
The teacher will advice your son to stay at home to take a rest until better.
Usually, we can write down the handbook about this problem, ask them to take care/ observe the further problem.
Some stude ...

KaKaYa

The teacher will advice your son to stay at home to take a rest until better.
Usually, we can write down the handbook about this problem, ask them to take care/ observe the further problem.
Some student prefer take medicine for long term. They'll keep in office to help the student.

原帖由 pollybell 於 10-7-28 15:14 發表
我其實已經有心理準備國際幼稚園唔會好似本地既咁好服侍.
1.國際無如厠時間有需要自己出聲.
2.點心時間你要食自己黎拿,唔食無人會迫你食.呢兩點我都接受.

但呢幾日有一個問題發生,我小朋友三歲因為鼻敏感有鼻水,睇 ...

pollybell

謝謝你回應,其實我自己諗就算褓姆無同老師講,老師都眼見啦,當睇唔倒還是要小朋友要求先幫佢呢???如果我聯絡老師唔係問題,問題會唔會俾老師既感覺我唔係你個仔個工人,自己攪掂啦.,又怕老師誤會我投訴,所以上黎問下各位如何.可能個個都係咁,我再同學校講好似好多餘.

原帖由 oooray 於 10-7-28 15:57 發表
Have u discussed with your class teacher? What did she say?
There are thousand possible reasons to explain the situation but the best way is to ask your class teacher.
BTW, most probably school bus au ...

oooray

Have u discussed with your class teacher? What did she say?
There are thousand possible reasons to explain the situation but the best way is to ask your class teacher.
BTW, most probably school bus auntie only works for the out-sourcing school bus company; not for the school.
As a parent, if you cannot communicate with the school, how can you expect a school bus auntie can do it for you efficiently.
Sorry for being directed but that is what i feel.