in 到有d氣餒

sophiamok1024

每一次interview我都好明白唔到我控制，係好睇小朋友心情，所以都叫自己用平常心面對，但係每一次見完，明明所有嘢都識，但係就唔肯表現於人前，真係覺得氣餒。
我冇對我小朋友黑面，仲要笑住同佢講，好叻喎，下次再努力。但係其實個心都實晒，又唔可以表現俾個囝睇...唯有上嚟呻下

ALMENNG511

我唸好多家長都有同様經驗,您不用氣餒,因為小朋友就係咁,我地以前細個咪仲成舊蕃薯咁,我亞媽而家都以我為榮....哈哈哈

rookie_mama

Interview 只是一時，最重要係保持小朋友開心和自信心!! 加油!!

karen0128

小朋友當天嘅表現好唔好, 我當佢自己都選擇他所喜歡嘅學校, 佢鐘意同唔鐘意, 我相信他係會識分嘅! 等同大人見工一樣, 唔鐘意請你都唔做! 唔多唔少同緣有點關係! 隨心~~而我只心急想知結果啫!

winifred102

其實小朋友跟大人一樣，總有怯場時候，唯有不斷練習累積經驗，才可克服。現在，就以平常心，當汲取經驗，下次再努力！

coeychung0406

我小朋友由上年In N既時候到現在都係咁 但係作為父母的只可以這樣!結果就算真的沒有心儀的學校收;我們都一樣愛他,因他是我們最愛的(包括他的一切)

02413124

因為已經有N經驗,K1時我會咁睇,因為太多人IN,太多因素......就算唔收我囝都唔等於佢能力比其他人稍弱
INTERVIEW基本上要天時地利人和,缺一不可

LL222

每一次interview乜都答哂, 乜都做哂, 歌都唱埋, 早晨拜拜都有講, 媽咪自已張櫈都推埋, 因為細B都唔收, 呢D先最最最氣餒!!!

siden

LL222,
This year your child is super big b, and so smart, should have lots of offer!

hangyodon

我自己覺得大部份小朋友都識interview裏面啲野....
(你地有冇example覺得你地小朋友識既野, 其他小朋友未必識?)


所以我覺得interview就係想考個小朋友/家長可唔可以係interview嗰咁tight既時間show off 到出黎....如果小朋友就算識但真係唔出聲...我只會覺得技不如人....

Anyway, don't give up; 盡咗做父母既責任, 就算入唔到名校, 到個B大個可能有另一返出路.....你去買本steve jobs自傳睇吓佢既經歷啦~~~~

LL222

原帖由 siden 於 11-11-4 17:12 發表
LL222,
This year your child is super big b, and so smart, should have lots of offer!

My daughter is 0808, can't be super big b.  Only b born after Sept 2 can be a super big b.  Otherwise, no 10 point in P1 admission.

d-ma

agreed!! my son had K1 interviews last year.  He will perform good when he likes the kinder, as he is happy (even when he was sick).  When he don't like the kinder, he will not answer the question and turn his face when teacher asked him question.  He even told me "I don't like this school" after the interview.  Finally he entered a kinder which suitable for him and he is very happy and loves to go to school everyday.

Good Luck to all kids and wishing you find the suitable kinder!!

atmtran

原帖由 sophiamok1024 於 11-11-4 16:09 發表
每一次interview我都好明白唔到我控制，係好睇小朋友心情，所以都叫自己用平常心面對，但係每一次見完，明明所有嘢都識，但係就唔肯表現於人前，真係覺得氣餒。
我冇對我小朋友黑面，仲要笑住同佢講，好叻喎，下次再努力。但係其實個心 ...

Actually no matter what, I think 小朋友 is 好叻 for every interview.  The kid is only 2 years old, needs to face so many strange people in a very strange setup and sometimes the pressure fr parents.  They didn't give up and break down are already very 叻.  If  I have so many job interviews within a short period of time and under this competitive environment, I may not be able to perform as well as the kid.

So don't give up and should praise your kid.

siden

原帖由 LL222 於 11-11-4 17:22 發表


My daughter is 0808, can't be super big b.  Only b born after Sept 2 can be a super big b.  Otherwise, no 10 point in P1 admission.

LL222,

Sympathize x 10

August b is the most embarrassing.

Mine is July, obvious difference from those born in Jan.

nataliemamamia

睇完各位mama留言，有d想喊嘅感覺

tania0324

唔好氣餒!明白小朋友心理發展嘅人都知小朋友面對陌生人和環境大多會表現怕羞, 越問越唔出聲架啦. 而家只不過因為出生率高咗, 多咗小朋友報幼兒/稚園, 學校唔夠學位才要攔收小朋友, 加上有啲小朋友又係幾間學校留位, 令到學位好似好緊張咁. 先幾年出生率無咁高時, 我嘅小朋友咪又係唔答老師問題, 但學校一樣收咗佢, 返學之後咪開籠雀咁. 你要對自己同小朋友有信心, 總有欣賞你小朋友嘅學校!

marie貓

為人母盡左力已可
你盡過全力去搵一間好學校已經無晦喇
如果係人才，有你既用心培育必定成才
好學校只係附加既
我囡係細b,已經有一間村校收左
我仲會去in其他，不過會用陪跑心態去in
咁當然有間更好既就最好，不過冇都冇所謂，最後有書讀咪得囉
吾好比自己太大壓力，幼稚已經咁，小學中學點搞？比d正能量你喇！

kartsoi2000

I think many of us share similar feeling.  The good news is that it is just the start of the marathon of our child.  They have lots of chance to prove themselves.

fc1111

我個女系細B（11月中個只），到今天已經In左5家，其中2家收她，我自己的心已經比較定下來。反而阿女，她好似對In開始失去新鮮感，今早in九龍靈糧堂，已經不再集中注意力回答老師的問題，老師問她眼耳口鼻位置，她就嘟嘴、皺鼻、眨眼和將頭靠在我手臂擦她的耳朵來回答老師，好像不想跟老師說話一樣。。。都不知道應不應該讓她繼續in其他的kinders，覺得自己是不是太進取了，阿女挺可憐的。