男仔數感好, 想學多D, 應該學咩數? - 小學雜談

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我覺得就好似見到自己個小朋友有心機畫畫, 做父母既觀察到, 自然會想搵個好課程俾佢
我仔唔畫畫, 佢興趣係計數, 自己challenge自己(特登唔用筆算)仲好proud咁同我講唔駛睇鐘都知無超過時間, 會睇d我覺得悶死人既數學漫畫, 我希望培養佢興趣, 我唔係想佢學快一步去學學校d野, 咁樣無意思
(蒲得ek耐都知我係咩人, 揀咩學校, 點會俾壓力小朋友丫

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My son also very good in mind Maths, but in senior high, steps are equally important as the final answer （he lost 1/3 marks due to steps even the answers are correct.). From F1 onward, you may need to explain to him steps are important. I spent 2 yr to convince my son.
I explained to him the teacher and examiners are not gifted in Maths, you need to show clearly all steps for two reasons:
1. No steps, they may think you copy other's answer in the exam (he thinks those questions are very easy and straight forward, why steps, waste of time.)
2. They can appreciate your greatness and giftedness...... In Maths. (高帽係幾有效.）

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Charlotte_mom 多謝賜教, 我個仔的確令人又愛又恨, 要花d心機發表於 12-3-30 10:33

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我个仔宜家P1数学都好好，仲同学校同P3，P4的同学PK数学。不过，我最近发现他做事不认真，连班主任都话佢就算识，上数学堂都要听老师讲书。同埋识同学校考试係两回事，评核一个细佬还是以考试为主。我宜家花多啲时间在中文和英文阅读上。

不过，如果真係想个仔再进一步，可以去读世界数学大赛的课程和考试。Good Luck!

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miffy 發表於 12-3-30 10:10
我回家睇過, 真係叫"巧算", 二年級教加減, 四年級教乘除, 我估樓主個仔有呢d功課, 即係學校都有教全班, 唔 ...

可能我女真係太"屎", 直到而家p6, 幾乎100/4都仲要用直式計(仲要計錯), 咩巧算對佢黎講, 簡直係天荒夜談 (學既時候過到果關唔fail已經萬幸)
我仔就相反, 立2眼已經知答案, 仲識自動搵最快既方法去計 (佢呢張工作紙唔係巧算, 係另一樣野)

所以我就知道, 一個人數感強, 同一個人數感弱, 程度可以差好遠...........哎, 個天係公平既, 我女數學要補底成績又一般, 但跳舞彈琴朗誦樣樣有獎, 我仔咩都學唔叻(咩彈琴朗誦咩都無學), 語文仲慘好似文盲咁, 唯獨是理科有興趣

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我知巧算........當我對住個女咁多年, 都未見過佢可以"靈活運用"學到既TECHNIQUE (包括巧算, 其實學時都已經唔多掂), 而我個仔可以(仲有好多例子, 有時人地無教佢已經識走精面), 我覺得佢可以更上一層樓LOR

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本帖最後由 lillymarie 於 12-3-30 11:19 編輯

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我都同妳一樣有種想法，就係見到小朋友似乎某處做得好，就想給他多點機會去發展，希望可以建立他的自信心。妳囝囝對數學有興趣，真的不妨樣樣都試下。
學校老師點睇？

我細囝的老師發現他和幾位同學數學遠遠拋離班上的同學, 佢就話佢會搵些難D的題目去考佢地。

for every one criticism, three positives must be given.

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Even your son gifted in Maths, but others like languages, science and arts also need to catch up. Too focus on Maths will widen his gap with others, Maths becomes his comfort zone. Drag him out asap, even his maths drop a bit.
I can see my son significant improved in languages in IB, and at certain stage his maths dropped. After some time, his maths also bounced back.

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motherotk excellent reminder, good point!! 發表於 12-3-30 22:51

motherotk Excellent point, vry good reminder!! 發表於 12-3-30 22:50

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我反而覺得, 小朋友有天賦, 係要鼓勵, 去滿足佢, 亦係自信心的來源.
只想按住佢, 怕佢數學太叻, 上堂無心機, 就變成遷就了填鴨教育.
我都有比仔仔去資優數學班, 佢有興趣, 就要比機會佢發揮.

唔知你地有無咁既經驗, 係我自己的經歷, 諗番細個時某方面叫做有些"叻", 但我地父母的年代唔會offer興趣班, 甚至放學夜一點回家都不可以. 這樣過了幾十年, 真係好想細個時有得發揮. 唔望係咩成就, 但好想可以試多d...

Charlotte_mom, 想問佢識乘除數未? 如果未, 你教到的, 你可以先教佢. 如果佢在一兩個月內學識哂, 咁就好值得比佢去資優數學班. 我仔仔去epgy, 係美國stanford大學搞的資優課程, 要考試合格先可以讀, 值得學下, 等佢見識下.

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本帖最後由 ANChan59 於 12-3-31 12:29 編輯

As most parents shared their case are in primary, my sharing is more on secondary and may not fit your needs.

My last reminders:

1. Take a multiple intelligence approach more that just focus on narrow dimensions, like music or Maths;

2. Upto certain age, let him participate some external competitions, not just prove his giftedness, also make him balanced head. I still remembered his jaw dropped as a 8 years old boy walked into an exam hall housed 1100 participates of the competition. After the test, he told me that how come so many kids are good in Maths.

3. Get more exposures, online program, taught program, books, try some daily life example, university gifted program....

4. You may aware I didn't mentioned some very popular programs always shared in EK, those programs will kill their giftedness. If a boy get bored easily even for textbook questions, repetitive drilling even worse,...... Those Maths may fit kids' Maths too behind, not too advance.

5. Those kids emotionally sensitive, keep up the communication with them closely and understand his concerns and frustration in class and peer groups.

6. Help him to develop his positive attitude and value system. They are the valuable asset of the society, the right pathway and roadmap are critical...... Sunday school is an excellent option.

Sorry, may be too long.

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HaYi my son is not good in math, but I very agree with your point about the multi-dimentional learning . Most importantly, he hv to learn the Learning Skill so can self-help in the future learning, 發表於 12-3-31 20:16

peremum

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God grant me the serenity
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courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

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回覆：男仔數感好, 想學多D, 應該學咩數?

多謝你分享就真。今日拎成績表，問左班主任（數學老師）。老師同意，以佢能力係有potential更上一層樓，不過正如之前講，我仔集中力好飄忽有時好吾認真。老師提議我黎緊幾個月完全放手吾理佢d數，由佢自由發揮由佢錯，老師觀察下佢真正實力再俾意見我（老師叫我吾對數，我樂於做少樣

）

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同意要全人發展。

語文亦很重要。
我大囝數學好，但語文弱，結果數學科常被語文拉低。因為做到problem solving的題目就常因看不明題目或表達不清楚而扣分。所以我這幾年沒怎去理他數學，主力谷他語文，最近總算略見起色。

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ANChan59 Right move...

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for every one criticism, three positives must be given.

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本帖最後由 lillymarie 於 12-3-31 18:48 編輯

我以前有買兒童的科學和一本關於數學與科學的雜誌，放在家中，引大囝去閱讀。

我另外買了這本書給細囝，希望能夠讓他做多幾題problem solving之餘，又可以學好英文。那些笑話漫話都幾好笑架。

for every one criticism, three positives must be given.

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Hi evacalbee,

What level you son join the EPGY? My son just finished his 3 months training. What do you think about it?

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3 months training? do you mean Grade 1?

我仔仔讀緊Grade 3, 已經深咗好多.

我地唔打算太push仔仔, 因為老公八到其他小朋友讀到Grade 8會頂唔住考唔到. 所以只係諗住每年只讀一至兩個Grade

其實課程係怪怪地, 因為跟美國. 但佢真係stanford搞的, 所以我對個course有信心

有能力讀上去有大學學分, 都不錯.

同埋希望呢個course幫到佢第日考中學, 算叫做有D突出之處吧.

你覺得如何?

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我贊成要均衡發展，有能力的他自己自然會做多一點，其他方面反而要多平衡一下，讓佢眼光可以放遠一些

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To make it clear, my son joined John Hopkins CTY program. This program uses EPGY mateials so my son used EPGY website to login. Hope this clear.

I just bought 3-months time from 2-1-12 to end of April. So I just finished the period. My son finished Grade 3 and Grade 4 and he passed the exam. He loves it so much. However I will stop for this summer and when he joins P1 this Sep, we will decide how to "explore" his Math further. Besides it is not too cheap, so I have downloaded a e-book and plan teach him pre-algebra thsi summer. My partner STRONGLY aginat it, ha!