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2littlemonkey,

攪錯tim.
我都係忙大仔小一interview, 細仔PN interview.
大細仔都係向讀新界英文kg, 無kv 咁大競爭.
只係覺得仔大可以出去讀小一, 就apply 市區dss.
得閒交流下啦, 做個開心的全職mama.

原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-11-1 16:20 發表
很佩服全職 mama 的耐性和愛心, 我想我而家要好好開始學習, 做個有耐性既mami, tune o下自己D心理先得 !!

p.s. 我有兩個小朋友, 一個5歲, 一個2歲, 同你D小朋友差唔多!

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感同身受，阿仔又係所謂名幼稚園。
已經收左3封 reject信，第4封今晚放工返去收

1封 2nd in 都冇.........

原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-11-1 17:17 發表
亞哥讀緊o個間就係"所謂"名幼稚園, 爭崩頭個隻, 知道上年好多弟弟妹妹答o岩晒都唔收, 所以都打定輸數!!!

加上亞哥都落得如此下場, 讀邊間幼稚園都同考小一無 'mud' 太大關係 ....

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今晚我已經收第5間學校REJECT LETTER, 好沮喪...........

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2LittleMonkey,

我個囝早產，大小肌弱過人，又有外斜視(已做了兩次手術，將做第三次)，手眼協調差，佢已經有training跟緊，但佢英數好，劍橋考到15個盾，但就體能差，佢曾經同我講某間直資英小要行平衡木，佢行唔晒，跌左落黎......而家考小學不單是考狀元，要全能。

我都是去年才轉全職媽媽，還有個細既，好彩只是幾個月大，可以全力搞掂阿哥先。

你懷疑小朋友專注力有問題，快d去check.

原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-11-1 17:17 發表
亞哥讀緊o個間就係"所謂"名幼稚園, 爭崩頭個隻, 知道上年好多弟弟妹妹答o岩晒都唔收, 所以都打定輸數!!!

加上亞哥都落得如此下場, 讀邊間幼稚園都同考小一無 'mud' 太大關係 ....

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我都係呀, 其實我好想問睇唔睇家底&家庭狀況&父母職業架???

我已經衰左三間啦, 個心好灰呀......

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down

i am quite down too. I am thinking if I have done something wrong during the interview time, like filling in wrong questionnaires, wearing in wrong dress codes, answering badly, so that I could not receive 2nd in letters from my ideal schools...

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回覆 42# 2lovelykids 的文章

thanks for your sharing

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原帖由 2lovelykids 於 10-11-1 16:04 發表
我係過路人, 兩年前經歷過一樣嘅失落... 我女兒很痴身, 很多個面試都係喊住考, (因為我唔可以陪佢入課室).., 當然冇一間好學校收啦. 我好唔開心, 做咗咁多嘢, portfolio, 小一面試班, 課外活動等等都做到足, 她卻不 ...

多謝你的分享. 我也十分同意, 為迫使子女"學習"而傷害母子/女感情, 一萬個不值.

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thanks for your sharing

原帖由 2lovelykids 於 10-11-1 16:04 發表
我係過路人, 兩年前經歷過一樣嘅失落... 我女兒很痴身, 很多個面試都係喊住考, (因為我唔可以陪佢入課室).., 當然冇一間好學校收啦. 我好唔開心, 做咗咁多嘢, portfolio, 小一面試班, 課外活動等等都做到足, 她卻不 ...

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做父母既都唔撐住，仲有邊個會撐你地既仔女呀？！頂住呀老友

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Add Oil!! Don't give up!!

原帖由 VKwan 於 10-11-2 02:18 發表
做父母既都唔撐住，仲有邊個會撐你地既仔女呀？！頂住呀老友

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Your "guess only".... the reality is not that, there are lots of factors affecting the interview process. The system itself at the begining already exclude some "groups" of kids..

So do not blame yourself to create these negative energy.... keep going and there are other opportunities that are waiting for you and your kids...

Finding new perspectives on your child's education in addition to the playing of this "game"...

原帖由 ahkeunggor 於 10-11-1 23:20 發表
i am quite down too. I am thinking if I have done something wrong during the interview time, like filling in wrong questionnaires, wearing in wrong dress codes, answering badly, so that I could not re ...

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支持你們

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I keep crying when I am reading this blog. My elder son is only K2 but I can imagine when it would be like next year. I have quitted my job last year for my younger daughter who has gone through the painful process of applying PN and finally she was admitted to her brother's school only. Now I am busy at K1 application but I remind myself not to put too much pressure on her and myself. I will try my best but prepare for the worst. The most important thing is not to hurt the relationship with your children.

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聽到妳以過來人身份的肺腑之言，真是令自己放鬆了很多，謝謝妳！

剛剛兒子病了一個星期，發燒了數晚，自己也患了感冒，那幾天真是身心疲乏，一方面要照顧孩子，另一面又等待著面試的結果。然而，那刻才真正發現，身體健康至為重要。希望各位媽咪要保重身子！加油呀！

原帖由 2lovelykids 於 10-11-1 16:04 發表
我係過路人, 兩年前經歷過一樣嘅失落... 我女兒很痴身, 很多個面試都係喊住考, (因為我唔可以陪佢入課室).., 當然冇一間好學校收啦. 我好唔開心, 做咗咁多嘢, portfolio, 小一面試班, 課外活動等等都做到足, 她卻不 ...

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唔係架, 有不錯的家底&家庭狀況&父母職業都一樣always rejected, 小朋友成績好, 名幼稚園出身的一樣rejected. 真係唔知小學想收咩學生, 可能佢地睇得出小朋友性格合唔合自己學校. "夾"係最重要. 所以, 大家隨緣. interview之後, 耐心等result. 又可能抽到個大獎, 安慰獎也不錯了.

加油加油!!!

原帖由 戀仔狂 於 10-11-1 21:39 發表
我都係呀, 其實我好想問睇唔睇家底&家庭狀況&父母職業架???
我已經衰左三間啦, 個心好灰呀......

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你過早擔憂了. 一步一步來. 多d同小朋友講故事, 有時反過來, 要小朋友講故事比你聽. 說話能力是首要的.

原帖由 rc_ac 於 10-11-2 10:58 發表
I keep crying when I am reading this blog. My elder son is only K2 but I can imagine when it would be like next year. I have quitted my job last year for my younger daughter who has gone through the p ...

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When my child was born, I made a wish that she could be happy forever. I did not eager to apply Nursery. Thus, I did not feel the pressure. While in K1 application, I started to feel the competition and started to "correct" the path. Now, she has a few medals and a few certs. P1 application is even more cut-throat. Up to now, we had not received any firm offer from any of our targeted schools. We are nervous. We couldn't sleep either. We pray and we think again. The Lord said: I have fulfilled your wish already. She could be happy but you parent chose the other way.

Our act should be the same as our wish.

原帖由 rc_ac 於 10-11-2 10:58 發表
I keep crying when I am reading this blog. My elder son is only K2 but I can imagine when it would be like next year. I have quitted my job last year for my younger daughter who has gone through the p ...

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olima, 唔好灰心, 每個小朋友都有自己既長處 & 短處, 你個仔 acedemic 叻, 你應該好安慰至真, 好多醫生律師都唔會係叻既運動員啦!

而家考小學, 面試時要目不斜視, 講野有信心而唔造作, 又要考體能、畫畫、處境問題、計算、英文, 對於一個5歲既小朋友, 真係唔簡單.

我地做 MAMI 既一定要為D仔女努力, 好好栽培佢, 問心無愧已足夠.

Add oil!!!

原帖由 olima 於 10-11-1 19:18 發表
2LittleMonkey,

我個囝早產，大小肌弱過人，又有外斜視(已做了兩次手術，將做第三次)，手眼協調差，佢已經有training跟緊，但佢英數好，劍橋考到15個盾，但就體能差，佢曾經同我講某間直資英小要行平衡木，佢行唔晒，跌左落黎......而家考 ...

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"唔係架, 有不錯的家底&家庭狀況&父母職業都一樣always rejected, 小朋友成績好, 名幼稚園出身的一樣rejected." ..... 贊同

"說話能力是首要的" ... 絕對贊同

原帖由 CHP 於 10-11-2 11:10 發表
唔係架, 有不錯的家底&家庭狀況&父母職業都一樣always rejected, 小朋友成績好, 名幼稚園出身的一樣rejected. 真係唔知小學想收咩學生, 可能佢地睇得出小朋友性格合唔合自己學校. "夾"係最重要. 所以, 大家隨緣. ...