心裏很不寧靜

RRbb

希望各位媽媽用平常心去等待結果

日子會過得舒服ｄ

godbaby

after reading all posts, i think there is a few points i wanna say about:

First of all, Don't let ANY school disappoints you. Especially those so called famous school. Really, everytime i go to these famous school interviews, i dun really know why they are famous.  Bc these schools never show us their teaching philosophy, what they are good at, etc.....No matter what, i don't agree that a KINDERGARTEN can change one's life and future. It is just a starting point. And as a parents, we can do much more to help our kids to be a better person. Do you see even those "kindergarten " teachers go for "Super singers" on TVB?..I"m sure we can do a better job than those kindergarten teachers, believe it!

Secondly, there are more things to overcome in the near future. I'm more concern about our kids' overall development, other than just academic result.  Isn't that more important to motivate our kid's active learning, than by forcing them to learn.  it is US, the parents who force our students to be unhappy always!! So let us all relax abit and share the happy baby AGE with our girl and boy!!  If they have to face these when they are only 2-3. I can't imagine how difficult their life will be afterall...

ADD OIL, all mommies!!! CHEERS!

isakwok_1

Can't agree more with 樓主. The PN interview experience was a tough one. My boy could bearly speak and he was asked to answer questions already last year. We got two offers and one waiting back then. I was really upset why that school did not give us an offer as I did well in the interview. Looking back, I am quite naive but I learned from the experience. I think I deal with the situation better this time when apply for KG.

I only received the letter from KV today despite I learned about the news from the other moms over the weekend. There was no peace in my mind during the past 2-3 days. But I educated myself that no matter how the result is, my son is still very good by my standard. Other schools can still provide him good education and we, as his parents, can do our part too.

In fact, starting from 4-5 months ago, we rolled out new plan with our kid. It works really out for all three of us. Hence, I deeply believe that WE CAN DEFINITELY teach our kids and help them develop into a better person.

Add oil!

Rickylama

校長就好似賭馬般衡量小朋友入名小學的可能性（世襲，宗教，父母與名小學關係，家境，居住校網）•••

原帖由 cclemon2009 於 11-11-28 07:03 發表
有人間間都收，真是靠運氣嗎?!
我相信主因是家長背景多，尤其家長是畢業於私立小學，或有哥哥姐姐讀緊有名氣小學。
我問過名幼稚園老師，佢話老師只比面試分數，最終結果在校長手中，面試100分可最後waiting. ，相反50分都見過有of ...

Jeanfamily

Hard to bear with the inferior education system in HK. Who, Henry Tang or CY Leung, will bring a make over to the education system? Or it has never been their policy address?

maomaochoi

原帖由 hangyodon 於 11-11-28 14:23 發表


點解你仔仔面試不願意?
我女女而家成日同我講"去interview, 去interview"
因為去interview通常有得玩, 有禮物, 有野食
我地每次都陪佢去, 又鼓勵佢, 之後又同佢玩又同佢食野; 佢做得好唔好, 就算一句聲都唔出我每 ...

我諗媽咪冇話做左啲乜令自己小朋友唔願意interview, 可能小朋友唔想轉校呢! 個個小朋友諗乜都唔同

好似我阿仔咁, 我同佢講一陣返學呀, 有好多老師同學仔, 佢開頭都好開心, 但一入到去見到唔係自己間學校就話要走

到老師問佢叫乜名, 佢答人"我叫O仔呀!" 我估佢係特登

lebon

看了那麼多回應，更不明白幼稚園的面試評核標準。有小朋友哭哭鬧鬧，最終有offer, 有小朋友甚麼問題也回答了，沒offer。回想起來，這真是「得啖笑」！

我們成人很多時會以理性角度分析事情，但這場面試又豈能用理性角度去分析成敗得失？只能處之泰然，一笑置之。

Lenatsang

是的, 相信作為家長, 永世都不知道, 獲得學校取錄是基於什麼的標準, 這個永遠都是個迷.

而且我也想說句公道話, 作為學校有幾千人, 只收取幾百人, 那很可能當中會有一千人, 都可以同時回答到問題, 有禮貌, 很淡定. 那學校是怎樣去再取錄學生呢?

所以有些家長會失望, 可能我們就是那些一千人裡而又被不獲分配的人, 只可以講句, 我們認為自己小孩不錯的同時, 其實有些小朋友可能真係識上天同下海, 而我們不知道呢?

lebon

我相信總有些事情是有客觀標準的，只是現階段不能套用而已！但我深信，好好培養孩子，堅持原則，這一天定會來臨。良好的語文基礎是成功的關鍵，是有目共睹的基本原則，騙不了人。繼續裝備孩子，總有成功的一天。

jerrycynthia

totally Agree with what you say

TiTiTiTi

原帖由 lebon 於 11-11-28 10:44 發表
還有一點想抒發，小學派位制度又是令人沮喪。首先是自行收生，即是世襲制。跟著，竟是與學習能力無關的大抽獎。我真的很難相信學生是學業前程不是靠實力，而是靠世襲和抽獎運氣。於是，不服這遊戲規則的家長們又要繼續為兒女們 ...

咁考番一個公開試就最公平勒！

3bsmom

Re: "咁考番一個公開試就最公平勒！"

You should know better that it is impossible to happen in our lifetime."

godbaby

Totally agree!!

godbaby

原帖由 lebon 於 11-11-29 10:56 發表
我相信總有些事情是有客觀標準的，只是現階段不能套用而已！但我深信，好好培養孩子，堅持原則，這一天定會來臨。良好的語文基礎是成功的關鍵，是有目共睹的基本原則，騙不了人。繼續裝備孩子，總有成功的一天。 ...

Totally AGREE!!

chubbychu

非常同意呀!

原帖由 lebon 於 11-11-29 10:56 發表
我相信總有些事情是有客觀標準的，只是現階段不能套用而已！但我深信，好好培養孩子，堅持原則，這一天定會來臨。良好的語文基礎是成功的關鍵，是有目共睹的基本原則，騙不了人。繼續裝備孩子，總有成功的一天。 ...

heidys

impossible for 2-yr old BB to sit for open exam la

heidys

到大小小考通識(到時唔知仲有無),d答案都可以好主觀

反而好多時入職試o既aptitude test, 就可以客觀D, 但到時又可以機械式操練.
其實無得話點樣先可以FAIR

開心小花

原帖由 lebon 於 11-11-29 10:56 發表
我相信總有些事情是有客觀標準的，只是現階段不能套用而已！但我深信，好好培養孩子，堅持原則，這一天定會來臨。良好的語文基礎是成功的關鍵，是有目共睹的基本原則，騙不了人。繼續裝備孩子，總有成功的一天。 ...

非常認同.

trintrin

前兩年競爭無咁激烈, 遲兩年出世個世界已經好唔同, 唔好唔開心, 因為三年後仲有小學派位, 前面還有很多很多等緊過.. 香港的教育制度   少D毅力都唔得, 互勉