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發表於 05-9-30 01:47 |只看該作者

Re: 自動自覺做功課

其實我都好明白小朋友由幼稚園上小學係有好多嘢要慢慢適應,但呢個深明大義既媽媽每日只會出現喺自己返工時間或者個仔瞓咗好似依家咁。可能真係自己喺不知不覺中俾自己同個仔無形的壓力,所以佢唯一舒壓的方式可能就係同你作對或者大吵大鬧。

佢有時都做得好好架,但唔夠兩日就打回原形,不過唔好話啲小朋友,就算係身為母親既我都唔係吓吓都做得咁完美,但挑剔人就好易(尤其係每個母親必定對個仔有一定的期望)。記得曾經聽過一個講座,個講者話如果你個小朋友喺公共場所大發脾氣,你通常第一時間安撫佢係因為關心佢定係怕佢失禮呢?個講者仲話好多時都係啲家長俾當時的環境做咗主導。所以有時都好想體諒佢,但最後都係忍唔到(其實理論同實踐真係兩回事)。

所以唯有不停咁提醒自己要 "忍"。

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發表於 05-9-30 09:22 |只看該作者

Re: 自動自覺做功課

好想忍, 但有時就係迫不得意, 叫極都唔做, 懶到死, 次次都係我急過佢, 晚晚攪到好夜先訓.

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發表於 05-9-30 10:34 |只看該作者

Re: 自動自覺做功課

My nephew suddenly doesn't like to do homework after he jumped to primary 3.  Instead of scolding him, my sister-in-law tried to understand why.  After a bit of struggle, he voiced out that his new teacher-in-charge is too fierced to him and picked on his mistake.

There may be a lot of reason why kids don't do homework, other than being lazy.  We will never know the reason if we don't try to dig out.  Sometimes we are the "reason".  And even if they are lazy, in their eyes they may not think they are lazy because they don't have the concept of hardworking, or they don't realize their role, etc.

In the Proverbs of the Bible, it says even the ants are hard-working to find food and take care of themselves.  I told this to my daughter and challenged her whether she is smarter than ants.  (of course the answer is positive).  Then she suddenly became more hard-working in completing her homework.  it is because there is an incentive for her to prove that she is better than an ant.

hope it works for your kids too.

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發表於 05-9-30 13:15 |只看該作者

Re: 自動自覺做功課

Thank you. I try to do my best.
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