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羊咩咩太太

別墅

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發表於 08-3-17 17:17 |只看該作者

我兩公婆也要返工,老公信唔過,叫佢睇下亞囡,佢可以去左睇報紙或叫埋亞囡去整野食,都係留番d優差比佢,同亞囡排毒算吧(玩和食).

另外講,我非常好彩有個好99每天幫我接囡囡放學和就我地好早食晚飯,我放工就立刻回到家7:00食飯,然後幫囡囡check功課,要默書和quiz的話就要在星期六或日預早溫左先,咁平日會輕鬆d,有些小朋友還要琴棋書畫呢,好彩我得琴ja.;有時間既話就問番囡囡當日學左d乜,佢講得出我就放佢一馬,講唔出的,就有時間再follow一下.

我做過實驗了,原來迫同唔迫(我指溫習),分數唔差得太遠;迫囡囡-我同囡囡都唔開心,相反開開心心咁溫習-大家都開心;過得去就算吧!

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cameo

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發表於 08-3-20 23:23 |只看該作者

其實每人都係每日24小時,夠唔夠用都係咁過,我個女迫唔嚟,我迫過唔work,決定唔會再迫...
我時間唔會比其他人好得去邊,我工作時間剛同小女相反,我3:00前返工(個女都未放學,見唔到面),我12點幾放工返到屋企(阿女已經瞓左覺,只見到熟睡o既佢....
我女已小三,功課量亦多,每日功課佢自己做,唔識就打電話問同學,or打電話問我,到夜晚收工我會睇佢功課,喺有問題的地方我用stickers點上題示教佢,佢朝早起身返學時,就喺校車上面改好功課,若我夜晚發現佢功課上有大問題(多數是新教課程),我會頂住唔瞓等到阿女天光起身,親身講解(當然呢種情況唔多,否則我日日唔夠瞓都遲早死得)
平時默書佢自己溫習,大多成績都唔錯,只係間中亦會有失手(但若要我每次默書都坐喺佢隔離溫習係為左次次100分,當然可以,但我唔會,佢自己亦有能力及責任了)
測考我會幫佢,但唔會全部,英文要串字就留俾佢自己串,中文生字亦佢自己溫習,寫作佢會自己睇完notes就作一篇俾我睇(我水評未可以去到批改作文,佢小女係話希望我可以俾d意見佢,我絕對樂意),數學我會精華佢平時d工作紙,選出佢錯的類別,自己出d同類題目比佢試做,唔明再解再教,就當係溫數學科!
我女亦一樣有課外活動,但全部都無壓力的活動,佢參加左有6個,fri籃球,sat體操+柔道,sun中作+英作+書法,全部都無需特別做功課or練習,書法係要練字,但由第一日上堂我已主動每次入課室一同參與,亦已同導師傾好,小女練字只可以做到重質不能重量,而每星期我與小女的假期亦有好豐富的親子活動,我地一齊練字(我同時預備書法文具一齊練字,大家互相睇大家的"功課"),一齊去圖書館睇書一小時,一齊玩NDS,佢過唔到版就由我幫佢"打大佬".....
唔好再為左時間上夠唔夠用而煩嘞,時間每日都真係有限,我只可以選擇"重質",好好運用同小朋友相處的小小时間,我而家係要返工,但我亦知做全職家庭主婦都唔代表小朋友成績可以有乜大改進,當你試諗一屋大小事交到自己手上,真係可以有更多時間同小朋友溫習嗎?當你24小時唔洗出外工作,可以保證自己日日對住小朋友EQ一樣嗎??我做過全職家庭主婦幾年,發覺只係各有好壞吧了....
反正覺得時間唔夠用,不如再plan好時間表

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readers

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發表於 08-3-21 01:11 |只看該作者

I normally go back home at about 8pm. Then have dinner (kids' dinner time is earlier) and check their homework. My son is K2, so I only need to spend a few mins on his homework. My daughter is at P1 but she finishes most of her homework in school (there is a homework session in school in the afternoon). I usually spend about 15-30min on her homework. Not much difference even when there is dictation. The dictations are frequent but usually a few words or sentences for Eng. The longer Chi dictations are always held on Mon so that u can do revision in weekend. So I can play for about 1 hr with her and her brother (play, read books, eat ice cream/snacks, to to playground....) before she goes to sleep at 9:30-10. My husband comes back around the same time and has trips from time to time. He also focuses on playing with them. In addition, my daugher can play for at least 1-2 hrs with her brother before I/my husband come home.

I ask her to do revision by herself when there is assessment or examinations. When I go home, I will ask her if she wants me to go through the materials with her. If she wants, I will go through those main points with her. If she does not want, I will leave it. Afterall she is only P1 and I can afford any low scores she may have. She should learn to be independent and be responsible for her own study. So far it works. She is a bit lazy in the first exam though her marks are above average. In the second exam, she works a bit harder as she knows this is the only way she can get higher marks. And she really did and she feels very proud of herself. I did not take any annual leave to do revision with her.

Both my kids had 1 piano class and 1 Eng class on weekdays. On Sat, they have arts and crafts and drama activities which they enjoy most. Sunday - we go to church only.

I want to enjoy the time with my kids and do not want to scold at them because of homework. Afterall, we only got a very little time with them everyday and very soon they will grow up and have their own social circle. To me, it is more important to build up a good relationship than to chase for academic results. I guess only in this way they will enjoy learning and have time to explore the world in their own way. Don't forget: kids can learn through playing an d 'playing' is every child's human right.

[ 本文章最後由 readers 於 08-3-21 01:15 編輯 ]

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NormalGuy

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發表於 08-3-25 22:20 |只看該作者

爸爸媽媽要上班, 孩子要上學, 各有各的職責, 我們無需因為要上班而不能替孩子温習而難過啊!

我很早已預計到沒有太多的時間陪太子讀書, 而且覺得學習是人生長跑, 不爭朝夕, 只爭長遠, 所以我選擇了一條龍的學校, 不用為升中而過早催谷, 而且學校功課不多, 因為多不等於好.

校長和老師都是太忙人, 校長傳授他的教子之道是讓孩子在小學開始時已自己靠自己, 弄得一塌糊塗就讓老師來教訓他, 今天校長的一雙子女都入讀英國的頂級大學了.

成長過程是很漫長的, 培養自學能力也如是. 大家放開懷抱, 讓生活過得簡單些, (包括孩子的學習生活也要簡單), 多休息, 保持腦活神通, 只在必要時才施予援手, 將來入大學也不難, 因為大學學額正在增加.

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pattymom

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發表於 08-3-26 10:20 |只看該作者

有了BB後, 我和丈夫先計劃搬近婆婆爺爺到, 因為有照應, 將來由菲傭主力照顧, 婆婆爺爺定時"巡查", 以確保仔仔能夠得到妥善照顧, 但當小朋友一歲時, 慢慢每天放工返到家中, 見到他一味只懂親親菲傭, 對父母較"生保", 心裡真是滿不是味兒。

我想這就是雙職父母要付出的代價吧? 朋友說, 等孩子長大"懂性"後, 這種情況便會改善, 希望吧! 現在除了假日一定湊仔仔行假外, 每日我和丈夫都會致電家中, 和小朋友問候幾句, 希望他能感受我們父母對他的關懷。未能在兒子成長時時刻陪伴在側, 將會是我終身遺憾, 要上班的爸爸媽媽, 萬般無奈呀!

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Asian

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發表於 08-3-29 14:11 |只看該作者

完全同意你的看法和意見。

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複式洋房

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發表於 08-3-30 00:19 |只看該作者

pattymon, don't be upset. I had the same experience before. When kids grow up a little bit more, they will 'stick' to their moms (and dads) again. Of course, you need to spend time to play and talk with them everyday even they did not prefer u much now. I always comfort my friends who complained about kids sticking to maids in this way: Your kids like the maid, that means your maid treats your kids well. At least you do not need to worry about your maid hitting or starving your kids. Thinking in this way will make you feel more peaceful.