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Dear "flostangraphy" & "2046"
Thanks a lot for all your replies to my wife’s messages and the information for helping us. She is now “pushing“our son to finish his dinner.. I may take a chance to make a response for her.
Luckily, my son finished the 2nd round of interview offered by TSL and YW. He answered all questions well at YW (in presence of parents last week) and TSL (as what he told me after the interview today). We hope to have a chance to make a decision among YW and TSL. We 'll try 九龍塘宣小 next month. Though we may have nothing at all in the last minute, we are still silly to think which school should be most appropriate for our son even at this stage. Silly enough ?
After the 2nd round of interview in YW, our son asked "which school will offer him a place". We tried to explain to him that we were already proud of his performance in the interviews regardless of the ultimate outcome because he already tried his best in these interview "processes"
(we emphasized on the importance of the process in front of him) though the ultimate outcomes are really our concerns - Sorry, we are a liar, technically.). I believe that he may not understand my tactics using "postive encouragement" at his age of 59 months because he further asked us where he should go in the next round in case he couldn't get any offer. We started to feel that he put pressure on his own shoulders. Perhaps, we shouldn’t have let him try such a lot of schools ( 5 schools). However, being the parents like others, we got no choice even it was definitely a dilemma of applying for more schools or leaving him happily under a normal childhood.
I guess many parents will face the same dilemma though they are not willing to do that. Believe or not, we didn’t face so much problems about "schools" in our old days. If the education system ran well in Hong Kong, all parents would not spend so much effort on seeking DSS or private schools for their kids. When Donald Tsang’s successor comes, it is possible that he may change the education policy again to please someone, taking our kids’ fate for his favor but at our own risk. Honestly, I and my wife don’t trust the ‘Government or Aided’ schools as learnt from the past 11 years. Sorry, please ignore the above if you consider my view silly. Being a parent is not an easy job, especially for mummy !
原帖由 2046 於 08-11-8 10:26 發表
Among the three schools, I believe that many people will select Ying Wah. But if you have no confidence in the school and its philosophy, you may need to re-consider it. Have you attended the second i ...
[ 本帖最後由 timtim852 於 08-11-8 20:37 編輯 ] |
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