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There is nothing much I can say except to share with you my own thought.
I am currently undergoing the same P1 process. So far news have been disappointing. I applied 5 schools and so far only one accepted my son and that that one was originally a back up. I tried to tell myself to take it easy thru out the process but it is really not easy. It was just like a coach seeing his player performing really bad during a big event when he could have finished first. (I am biased of coz.)
Yet, the more I understand the game, the more I think getting to whatever school have plus and minus. In longer run, which outrun which is still hard to tell.
Good famous schools nowadays are all DSS or private and demands high tuition. They did not turn DSS until recent years. The tuition part, I am very please to pay if they accept me. Yet, I sometimes do feel odd with the upbring of my kid in such environment. For instance, my dream school will cost probably $10k per month. To be able to avoid this tuition will mean whole class will be from middle class or up. Will this create an distortion of what the real world is during their upbring? (For this same reason, I did not apply for one of the most famous school around.)
In addition, most famous schools are competitive in learning but at the same time try to achieve fun learning. Many of them have lesser homework and try to keep "studying" fun. Yet, when I saw the pupils' work, the level of output and input does not match. This implies parents have to actually teach themselves and do the "dirty work". Will this be too much pressure for me to handle? I am not sure.
Yet, again, I am not saying famous schools are bad. If my dream school now accept my kid, I will be celebrating with fireworks. However, I just hope to point out that what seems good now may not be really good in longer run. What seems bad now may be good in future. Only time can tell.
Now, I really leave the destiny of my son to who ever up there. The more I look into current system, the more I know there is no black/white answer.
I am hoping for the best and if the best don't come, it may be a blessing.
Take it easy.
Cheers.
原帖由 leavetogod 於 09-10-20 16:03 發表 
My kid is now going through the P1 admission process and this makes me very tense and stress.
My kid is smart and bright in the eyes of others (school teachers, friends, and some others people that w ... |
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