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One thing we should always remind ourselves - respect your kid. This is a very important issue I can tell u.
My son tonight turn down his friend's reqest to borrow his scooter to her. Even a thousand time request from her and me but still in vain, I respect his decision.
Pls remember, after you bought a toy to yr son, the toy already belongs to him, respect him how to use it if it is safe, legal & not affecting others' right.
Frequently ask him what he wants, and respect his decision if reasonable.
Materialistically, you will avoid lots of behavioural and emotional trouble when he is growing up. Humanitically, he is a person, he should decide in his own sake and bore its consequence. It is a life lesson.
My son seems not in trouble in sharing toys, lining up to play, kind of group responsibility. Food sharing is a bit behind since diet control in food separation, but at least not grabbing other people food even he likes.
I remember a parent asks that she need to closely monitor his kid in playground, otherwise, his son and herself will be in trouble. Basically, it is correct. However, try to allow him to do whatever he likes if safe EVEN YOU CLEARLY KNEW THAT HE WOULD COME INTO TROUBLE, sometimes it is necessary.At least 3 immediate benefits - He will be respected by you and himself and most importanly VICE VERSA. Gaining confidence coz he decidedand IT IS LIFE LESSON. All these are very difficult for a delayed kid to learn. But once respect part is done sufficiently, the gate is opened.
I knew it is a very difficult task. But I could tell u the benefit is beyond your imagination. |
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發表於 11-10-6 23:46
