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樓主: angeljojo	go 仲未有好消息, 心情好沉重, 好難過 [複製鏈接]

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原帖由 X'mas2002 於 11-10-26 09:17 發表
我都係一個"新鮮"過來人 (我個女今年小一) 我都好明白你心情, 不過, 而家先係遊戲既剛開始, 你已經搞到自己咁大壓力, 仲要俾個女知道你點樣緊張/失望添...唔好咁啦! 上天一定會安排最好既俾你!
我剛過去既暑假都好似 ...

唔明點解香港人太過深信一間學校好無會完全決定子女的成敗
搞到社會開始愈來愈病態
到有offers係手, 又左諗右諗, hold起晒, 等到last min才做決定....全因為無安全感, 怕做決定.....
放開點手吧~
當初我都諗住入唔到直資, 咪讀津校囉
地區津校一定差嗎? 當然不是!
有時間精力, 等子女讀到全級TOP 10, 你怕無好中學?

對我來講, 學術成就真係其次
最重要係性格eq, 加埋熱愛學習和積極生活的心
佢有呢D特質, 那怕英文普通話都唔係話叻過人, 樂器又唔精, 但懂得開心生活, 我就放心!

[ 本帖最後由莎莎莉莉於 11-10-26 09:30 編輯 ]

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Dear angeljojo,

I understand your feeling. Maybe you feel so much pressure because you have high expectation on your daughter. Try to think broader. P1 is only a very little part of life. If your daughter is smart, there will be many chances for her to excel ...... There will surely be a good school for her, and even though she is not lucky this time, she can insert to your dream school next year. There are many many chances. Don't worry. Add oil.

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發表於 11-10-26 09:38 |只看該作者

回復 1# 莎莎莉莉的帖子

Many thanks for everyone.

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回覆 1# angeljojo 的文章

Hi Angeljojo,
我都已經有3間失敗了！最初都百感交習，覺得自己lazy，無別人那麼谷，無cert，無比賽，無Cambridge英…這樣那樣的，但由我交自行那份表開始，就決定信神會給最好的學校給祂的小天使！記住兒女是耶和華的產業！兒女是神給我們在世的小天使！共勉！

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發表於 11-10-26 10:00 |只看該作者

回復 5# myac 的帖子

Hi, myac: 好同意妳的講法！請問妳的女兒在那裡上read write inc呢？這課程好嗎？可否pm資料給我？

謝謝！

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發表於 11-10-26 10:09 |只看該作者

幾年前, 我仔考小一, 有班家長都一齊傾下

其中一個家長, 有日打電話俾我, 喊晒話好驚佢個仔一個offer都無, 好擔心好擔心

結果佢仔同我考既同一間學校, 佢有offer, 我top waitlist, 佢唔敢話我知我

(傻豬), 直到之後佢知我ok佢至敢講
佢放晒心, 但估唔到之後又有另一間都幾好既男校收, 我話, 係咪呢, 俾d credit自己個仔啦! 唔好咁早白白擔心呀, 打油

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發表於 11-10-26 10:13 |只看該作者

Angeljojo,

I am exactly the same feeling and situation as you.

My daughter is great and she tried very best on every task.

I always felt she did very good on the interview but so far no response for 2nd interview.

I was very desparate yesterday when I kept seeing parent happily told us that their angels received the 2nd interview letter.  I started to question if she is really so smart as I thought?  Do I put too much pressure on her and myslef?  After praying to GOD HE gave me a wisdom: you just need to love her, to nuture her with confidence and happiness rather than measured her by academic performance.

I am a bit relief today and I liked some parents said below: if she is smart and brillant she can perform very well though in common school.  Now we need to build her English skill, presentation, PTH..... These are very inspiring.

Keep it up.  Again, your situation is very resemble to me.

Once you have any good news pls share and I will be very happy with you.  I will do it also.

Keep up all great parents.  GOD will lead our way.

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你地無需咁自責..我個仔都無OFFER但我一D壓力都無..因為遊戲規則唔只係睇小朋友表現..仲其他因素既...例如佢年紀屋企背景...隨緣吧..

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發表於 11-10-26 11:34 |只看該作者

Angeljojo,
我的case同你一樣,你有乖女,我有乖仔,每日心情都好差,好矛盾,仲要收埋憂慮表情,唔好被仔睇出,佢始終信心暴膨,間間都表現好好,但已3間失敗,我每日都系度唸,萬一...萬一....我要怎樣同仔講又唔會佢打擊到佢的自信心?對我來講真是內憂外患,我唔知依家我仲可以做乜?除了暗自落淚

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發表於 11-10-26 12:18 |只看該作者

Hope "神會給最好的學校給祂的小天使". Very good.

原帖由 c1234 於 11-10-26 09:57 發表
Hi Angeljojo,
我都已經有3間失敗了！最初都百感交習，覺得自己lazy，無別人那麼谷，無cert，無比賽，無Cambridge英…這樣那樣的，但由我交自行那份表開始，就決定信神會給最好的學校給祂的小天使！記住兒女是耶和華的產業！兒女是神給我 ...

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發表於 11-10-26 13:15 |只看該作者

I got a small good news: I received our first 2nd interview call just now.

Keep it up. GOD will lead our way.


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原帖由 Chansautung 於 11-10-28 23:22 發表
Please accept what your child is, even he/she is clever, smart or not, they are our kids. Do not put pressure on them, they are just 5 years old. They should deserve to have a happy childhood. Do as m ...

whenever you see their happiness or exitement from their new toys, you always wish the scene remain forever.....

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原帖由 jonahlee 於 11-10-26 10:13 發表
Angeljojo,

I am exactly the same feeling and situation as you.

My daughter is great and she tried very best on every task.

I always felt she did very good on the interview but so far no response ...

My girl got an offer from EC. Finally some good news!

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發表於 11-10-29 01:27 |只看該作者

Can't sleep till now, but nothing to do except waiting, keep telling myself "平常心＂，I decide not to speak with my son anything about result of interview, as he is so confidence with his performance every interview...ha ha

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發表於 11-10-29 06:37 |只看該作者

這是個理性和感性的交戰...頭腦上我知道女兒一定會有書讀, 上帝也一定有祂的祝福; 但心裡總不免擔心... 不過人生就是這樣, 見步行步, 繼續禱告~

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其實read write inc 是 phonics + reading，我以前個仔都有讀過類似，叫 Alphie's Lagoon Phonics and reading program。read write inc 好似係英國的，而 alphie's lagoon phonics and reading program 是美加的，4-5年前浸會都有course。其實是以 phonics 為主，reading 書的編排是加強作用，內容比較多是當下所教的發音。

我覺得如果你己讀緊phonics 又幾好就唔好轉，然後再加d類似 cambridge english 加強英文字彙或其他英文grammar或oral 會好d。因那些reading 主要是偏向在phonics加強方面，對字彙認識幫助不大。

原帖由 c1234 於 11-10-26 10:00 發表
Hi, myac: 好同意妳的講法！請問妳的女兒在那裡上read write inc呢？這課程好嗎？可否pm資料給我？謝謝！

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發表於 11-10-29 12:53 |只看該作者

My child took RWI. I think the course is okay as he could read a lot of words without difficulty. I am not so sure if the write part will help in the unseen as he is still in K3

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