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發表於 11-1-24 07:00 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印
Hi all, my son is 26 months but still not spoken yet.  He can only say 'dad dad' or 'ba ba ba' but I don't think he really understands what it means. I already made an appointment with the doctors/specialists for evaulation.  

He has eye contacts but not very well, he loves to play with other kids and likes to come to me for hugs and kisses.  He is definitely slow in many other things/activities such as eating alone, 'fly kiss', still diaper, still need pacifier.....

A social worker has seen him and said he is not autism but of course need to see doctor/specialist for final evaulation.... I'm very down as other kids like my brother and sister's kids are very smart.... Need support ah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks ~~~~~~
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發表於 11-1-24 11:26 |只看該作者

回覆 1# bebebettyw 的文章

遇到這種事情多數都有會經歷以下5個階段:

1. 悲傷
2. 難以至信
3. 怨天尤人
4. 無奈接受
5. 加緊訓練

同其他苦難 (例如嚴重疾病/ 家人離世 / 男友跑掉) 大致相同, 希望時間可以幫一把手吧!

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發表於 11-1-24 15:14 |只看該作者

support

It's a really worrying situation. Have you gone ahead to sort out any services? Be calm and find out the suitable services.

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發表於 11-1-24 23:51 |只看該作者
人生長路漫漫, 咁小挫折又算得係乜, 小朋友只係26個月大, 就算慢左又如何, 只要努力, 慢些小到步, 總好過唔到, 努力左唔得將來都唔會後悔, 加油

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發表於 11-1-25 10:37 |只看該作者
bebebettyw,

Please don't be too sad that overtakes the reality. Yes, you found your son many insufficiencies comparied to other toddlers. But the reality is that kids can grow very different even in only half year time. Some may progress but some may retrogress. Be hopeful, your son could overtakes the others somedays. I understand your sadness, but please wipe your tears and then start to sow. The more you sow the more you reap.

An example, friend of my friend, he is not very smart in his childhood, he ofter 考得唔好. But one day, when he was in F.4-F.6, he suddenly 開竅 and found himself very interested in Physics. Now he is PhD in Physics by the age of 30.

Also, if your son doesn't seems to be Autistic, it is already another good news. He may be only speech delay.

My kid has slight Autistic features. He also has obvious speech delay when he was 3. Now after 9 months, the Speech Therapist said his speech level went back to the right track.

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發表於 11-1-25 10:41 |只看該作者
bebebettyw,

By the way, have you read this post?

http://forum.edu-kingdom.com/vie ... &extra=page%3D1

The link posted in this post is very touching. The father is a very very good learning model.

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發表於 11-1-26 13:38 |只看該作者
你唔好灰心呀,真實你已經好醒目咁快察覺小朋友嘅問題。(唔似我,到個仔4歲先知!)
只要好好把握時間,相信你個小朋友嘅問題會有改善!加油!

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發表於 11-1-28 07:08 |只看該作者
Thank you for all your support and nice words.  I will do my best to help my son to get back on the right track.  I (we) should not give up!!!

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發表於 11-1-28 17:02 |只看該作者
唔好唔開心, my son didn't have eye contact until 6.  He was identified (By few doctors/psychologists) when he was 2.  He didn't speak at all that time until 3.  Not noticed you are present or away.  We went to many many training etc... Now, he is 10, he is just like a normal child.  Even more, he is top no1 for all studies in school.  School will arrange him to skip P5 directly to P6 next year. :)  things may change, always has hope, although I don't know how good/bad is your kid!

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發表於 11-1-29 00:20 |只看該作者

回復 9# StayOne 的帖子

StayOne,

WOW~Your case is so wonderful, could you share with us more that how did you train your son? And what was your son look like when he was at the age of 2 and 3? Good in speech, SI, attention, obedience, social skill and intelligence?

Your case is so so so miraculous, hope to learn more from you. Thank you.

[ 本帖最後由 charisma07 於 11-1-29 00:22 編輯 ]
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