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原帖由 yanyan-mummy 於 11-3-3 00:14 發表
升上中學,很多東西都需要自學,如果吾主動讀書,成績一定吾好,上學期我用左扣零用錢制度,諗住咁佢會比心機讀書,一個學期下來,我或者錯了,佢成績仍原地踏步,但零用錢俾我扣哂,樣樣慳住,錢包很多時也只得很少錢,買零食也 ...
It should be the opposite. Give some rewards to him, just verbal appreciation will do. Punishment will make him think that studying is something not enjoyable. Let him realize the importance of his school work. Try to find out the reasons why he does not take the initiative to work, because there are too many distractions like electronic games or TV or internet, or the school work is too difficult for him etc. And try to help him from the root cause. If there are too many distractions, try to eliminate all the distractions. In the process of taking away the distractions, he'll argue with you, don't argue with him. It will hurt the relationship, just tell him the rules before you implement them and just implement them.
A friend of mine shut her son in his room for 2 hours everyday and asked him to do school works there only. There was no computer or other things in the room except school books. After two months her son had great improvement in the school tests. You may try this. I think it is a good start. |
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