一條龍 vs 程度深

MoJoJoJo

好頭痛, 請大家分享吓睇法.

option 1) 一條龍 (幼稚園 + 小學, 中學係聠系, band 1 尾, band 2 頭, 校風好). 幼稚園程度淺. 校風好, but may be also 嚴.

option 2) 程度深既幼稚園. 有自己小學. 已係學校讀 n1, 小朋友好鐘意番學.

两間都係 am (我地 prefer 既). 點簡好?

好似 option 1 家長開心 d, 因為唔洗煩中小學.  option 2 小朋友開心 d. 不過要煩中學 (& 某程度上, 小學 too).

oooray

我覺得大部份讀緊一條龍o既家長一樣會心思思煩吓考間更好更出名o既小學/中學；
妳個case好明顯已經係幾滿意現在讀緊個間；小學已經唔使煩；好似一動不如一靜好d。
個人意見；唔o岩聽當冇聽過。

MoJoJoJo

>一動不如一靜
我都有咁啱法. option 2 番得開心. but 我個係細 b. 小學冇信心可以考到間好既 (我 aim 有好既中學聯系 or 真升)... 所以先煩好唔好轉去 option 1 果間. 果間中小學都好好....

elmolly

我既處境同你差唔多, 最後因為小朋友性格問題, 揀左一條龍果間學校

sheffield

如果我冇搞錯，你個option 1仲未必一定得，試左先啦，成功左再煩都唔遲…
PN好不等如K好，K就認真好多，而小朋友越大的性格就越"出"，等佢返住option2的K一路再觀察佢性格，如option1有offer再按當時一刻情況決定啦！依加唔好煩住啦！

原帖由 MoJoJoJo 於 10-7-28 14:32 發表
>一動不如一靜
我都有咁啱法. option 2 番得開心. but 我個係細 b. 小學冇信心可以考到間好既 (我 aim 有好既中學聯系 or 真升)... 所以先煩好唔好轉去 option 1 果間. 果間中小學都好好.... ...

oooray

原帖由 MoJoJoJo 於 10-7-28 14:32 發表
>一動不如一靜
我都有咁啱法. option 2 番得開心. but 我個係細 b. 小學冇信心可以考到間好既 (我 aim 有好既中學聯系 or 真升)... 所以先煩好唔好轉去 option 1 果間. 果間中小學都好好.... ...

呢個世界係咪乜都同大b細b有關?
細b有好多好smart；大b又有一舊飯(我家都有一舊)；
萬一進度唔理想；一條龍又點?大b細b一樣有機會"勸"妳轉校；
都係個句:有$人有有$人o既煩惱；窮人有窮人o既煩惱；今時今日，為人父母，讀邊間都要煩落去。
如果真係覺得第間比現在個間好d；咪轉囉!
如果只係心理上覺得隔黎屋d飯香d；小心連自己個碗俾老鼠食埋...

MoJoJoJo

就係 option 1 今朝啱啱得左... 之前我都唔想諗住架. 一心交晒 d 野比 option 2 (讀開 pn) 果間...

原帖由 sheffield 於 10-7-28 15:27 發表
如果我冇搞錯，你個option 1仲未必一定得，試左先啦，成功左再煩都唔遲…
PN好不等如K好，K就認真好多，而小朋友越大的性格就越"出"，等佢返住option2的K一路再觀察佢性格，如option1有offer再按當時一刻情況決定啦！依加唔好煩住啦！: ...

MoJoJoJo

hmm 因為你覺得一條龍果間啱你小朋友既性格多 d?
我既情況係, 一條龍果間嚴 d, 我亞囡係坐唔定果隻. 都唔知比一條龍嚴 d 果間令佢乖 d, 定係比佢開開心心讀埋個 k 好

原帖由 elmolly 於 10-7-28 15:02 發表
我既處境同你差唔多, 最後因為小朋友性格問題, 揀左一條龍果間學校

MoJoJoJo

>呢個世界係咪乜都同大b細b有關?
我諗呢句說話係有細 b 既家長先真正體會到!
我亞 b 係細 b, 但成熟型. 佢 1 歲介左片, 表達能力好, 外向, 自發, 唔怕羞. 但係考 k1 見到真係好 tough 哩! 一 d 好好既學校真係見到收大比例既大 b.
好怕考 p1 情況又係一樣! 所以先會左諗右諗姐.

原帖由 oooray 於 10-7-28 15:33 發表

呢個世界係咪乜都同大b細b有關?
細b有好多好smart；大b又有一舊飯(我家都有一舊)；
萬一進度唔理想；一條龍又點?大b細b一樣有機會"勸"妳轉校；
都係個句:有$人有有$人o既煩惱；窮人有窮人o既煩惱；今時今日，為人父母，讀邊間都要煩 ...

elmolly

原帖由 MoJoJoJo 於 10-7-28 15:44 發表
hmm 因為你覺得一條龍果間啱你小朋友既性格多 d?
我既情況係, 一條龍果間嚴 d, 我亞囡係坐唔定果隻. 都唔知比一條龍嚴 d 果間令佢乖 d, 定係比佢開開心心讀埋個 k 好

...

其實嚴唔一定=唔開心bor, 好多小朋友返kv都返得好開心.

我個女本身好慢熱唔睬人, 佢既性格考小一好蝕底, 而且好好受人影響, 嚴反而會train到佢,所以我揀左我既option 1. 我都好鍾意我既option 2, 好明白你而家既苦惱.

oooray

原帖由 MoJoJoJo 於 10-7-28 15:50 發表
>呢個世界係咪乜都同大b細b有關?
我諗呢句說話係有細 b 既家長先真正體會到!
我亞 b 係細 b, 但成熟型. 佢 1 歲介左片, 表達能力好, 外向, 自發, 唔怕羞. 但係考 k1 見到真係好 tough 哩! 一 d 好好既學校真係見到收 ...

點tough法可否補充吓?
如果覺得好學校只收大b；而考到專收大b o既好學校係好重要；不妨加入"重讀一年變大b"o既行列....雖然個人唔建議...但有遊戲規則係咁...

MoJoJoJo

Must have been tough for you to make the decision, but I think you've made the right choice!  :)  thanks for sharing!

Logically, I know I should choose option 1, but emotionally, option 2 is appealing because my daughter is happy there now....

原帖由 elmolly 於 10-7-28 15:56 發表


其實嚴唔一定=唔開心bor, 好多小朋友返kv都返得好開心.

我個女本身好慢熱唔睬人, 佢既性格考小一好蝕底, 而且好好受人影響, 嚴反而會train到佢,所以我揀左我既option 1. 我都好鍾意我既option 2, 好明白你而家既 ...

MoJoJoJo

> 點tough法可否補充吓?
take SPK's admission stats as an example - mostly big bs.  small bs have chances, but relatively much smaller.

> 不妨加入"重讀一年變大b"o既行列
will certainly try that too.  but still need to make decision for K1 school now....

原帖由 oooray 於 10-7-28 16:10 發表

點tough法可否補充吓?
如果覺得好學校只收大b；而考到專收大b o既好學校係好重要；不妨加入"重讀一年變大b"o既行列....雖然個人唔建議...但有遊戲規則係咁... ...

[ 本帖最後由 MoJoJoJo 於 10-7-28 16:17 編輯 ]

oooray

原帖由 MoJoJoJo 於 10-7-28 16:14 發表
> 點tough法可否補充吓?
take SPK's admission stats as an example - mostly big bs.  small bs have chances, but relatively much smaller.

> 不妨加入"重讀一年變大b"o既行列
will certainly try that too.  bu ...

Maybe more and more repeaters competing places in famous schools that made the big b ratio much higher than before.
Hope you would make the right decision!

elmolly

原帖由 MoJoJoJo 於 10-7-28 16:12 發表
Must have been tough for you to make the decision, but I think you've made the right choice!  :)  thanks for sharing!

Logically, I know I should choose option 1, but emotionally, option 2 is appealin ...

I felt the exact same, actually still wonder if I've made a right choice as I love my option 2 very much. but maybe option 1 is better in the long run even you plan to repeat, coz there's still no guarantee for admission to "good" school, especially the competition for p1 is really keen.

sheffield

congratulations!! you have been waiting for a long time ah!!!
why don't you let everyone know your option 1 and option 2, mommies would give more comments which may help you make your decision ah!!

原帖由 MoJoJoJo 於 10-7-28 15:41 發表
就係 option 1 今朝啱啱得左... 之前我都唔想諗住架. 一心交晒 d 野比 option 2 (讀開 pn) 果間...

MoJoJoJo

yeah, especially since 2007, the birth rate has gone up & up...  :S

原帖由 oooray 於 10-7-28 16:21 發表

Maybe more and more repeaters competing places in famous schools that made the big b ratio much higher than before.
Hope you would make the right decision!

MoJoJoJo

yep, know how you feel!  especially for our 2007b!

my parents (the grandparents) think we should place our kid's happiness in the first place. so they support option 2.  arrrrgh headache

原帖由 elmolly 於 10-7-28 16:38 發表


I felt the exact same, actually still wonder if I've made a right choice as I love my option 2 very much. but maybe option 1 is better in the long run even you plan to repeat, coz there's still no g ...

MoJoJoJo

unfortunately my option 1 here is not the one your daughter is going to.  i'm still sending letters... but no luck yet.  :(

原帖由 sheffield 於 10-7-28 17:11 發表
congratulations!! you have been waiting for a long time ah!!!
why don't you let everyone know your option 1 and option 2, mommies would give more comments which may help you make your decision ah!!

easybring

I just gave up option 1 last week and pick a one-dragon kg.