好Down，好似跌左落深淵 ...

fotk

don't worry. the primary school speech training is very simple... the most difficult part is the P1 admission interview, they created lots of hurdles for young kids on this aspect that these tests are really unreasonable for most kids that their social and speech development is still developing...


Let's give more allowance for small kids and love them with our understanding...

原帖由 CHP 於 10-11-2 12:32 發表
我囡上了小學, 以為唔洗再訓練說話技巧, 放鬆之際, 原來小學有中文說話能力評估, 你地話讀書的路是否漫長?  考小學只是一件事, 時間過了便有結果, 只是呢段時間唔知"得唔得"的心情真考起父母EQ.  家長當上了人生一課 ...

CHP

Thanks for your encouragement.  People need care and support, both parents and child.

原帖由 fotk 於 10-11-4 07:53 發表
don't worry. the primary school speech training is very simple... the most difficult part is the P1 admission interview, they created lots of hurdles for young kids on this aspect that these tests are ...

fotk

You are welcome. As parents, we believe that we are clever, smart and with good independent thinking. If we are not strong enough to resist this kind of "crazy" culture, how could we be able to love our kids.

Love need energy and love need understanding..and your belief in what is a good education.

原帖由 CHP 於 10-11-4 10:29 發表
Thanks for your encouragement.  People need care and support, both parents and child.

gabeparent

*sigh*

The process is really twisted in Hong Kong, but we all have to play along.....

Believe in your child. There is nothing worse than affecting the kids with our sense of despair.

Remember the society is full of late bloomers. What is the percentage of naturally talented and gifted kids in the society? Single digit, I bet.

Sometimes I wonder, are we just manufacturing future employees of ibanks, lawyers, doctors, etc? What about other equally admirable aspirations?

ggoo

未到最好唔知結果會點,津校都有好多好學校,希望大家未好咁快就down.

[ 本帖最後由 ggoo 於 10-11-4 12:07 編輯 ]

aiyah

"late bloomers" - give these two words a LIKE!
unfortunate the society and education field now is looking for early bloomers.

原帖由 gabeparent 於 10-11-4 11:00 發表
*sigh*

The process is really twisted in Hong Kong, but we all have to play along.....

Believe in your child. There is nothing worse than affecting the kids with our sense of despair.

Remember the  ...

motherotk

agree...but the teachers have not been well trained to understand late bloomers...

even a lots of DSS schools do not have qualified teachers to understand the realities of child development, but they claim that they have trained teachers, loving teachers...

原帖由 ggoo 於 10-11-4 11:25 發表
未到最好唔知結果會點,津校都有好多好學校,希望大家未好咁快就down.

[ 本帖最後由 motherotk 於 10-11-4 16:47 編輯 ]

motherotk

Dear working moms,

Keep up spirit. Don't be defeated or blamed. You are extraordinary mums that balancing your lives between family and children, appreciate our  spirit and persistences...!!

Cheers!!

原帖由 hohowong 於 10-11-4 00:33 發表
Hi,

Thanks for all mum's sharing and encouragement.
My son was rejected last week by a first choice school. I felt very dissapointed and depressed a few days as my husband and I paid a lot of effort ...

motherotk

Agree..

原帖由 Zata 於 10-11-3 21:55 發表
請各位家長不要灰心，可能有更適合的學校在後面等著你的小朋友。這是一條很漫長的道路，有人起步快，有人慢…但一步一步會走到終點。快的人不敢沾沾自喜，慢的也不要氣餒，不要懷疑自己當初的信念，小孩是很敏感的，不要嚇怕他們。 ...

danielmama

我都好灰, 未有着落, 仲要俾人怪我唔報好多課外活動同埋面試班, 話因為我嘅睇法而嘥咗個小朋友

戀仔狂

各位加油呀!! 千其唔好失信心呀, 我家下都未有offer, 我之前收左三封reject信先出現一個2nd in既機會, 雖然未知成功與否, 但都己經好開心!!
祝各位快d有好消息啦!!!! good luck!!!

CHP

經驗告訴我, 報好多課外活動同埋面試班都唔可以考到.

原帖由 danielmama 於 10-11-5 10:20 發表
我都好灰, 未有着落, 仲要俾人怪我唔報好多課外活動同埋面試班, 話因為我嘅睇法而嘥咗個小朋友

victorf

原帖由 danielmama 於 10-11-5 10:20 發表
我都好灰, 未有着落, 仲要俾人怪我唔報好多課外活動同埋面試班, 話因為我嘅睇法而嘥咗個小朋友

我覺得唔係, 適量既活動對小朋友成長的確係好....不過我就覺得對INTERVIEW無用LAW...

danielmama

原帖由 victorf 於 10-11-5 10:36 發表


我覺得唔係, 適量既活動對小朋友成長的確係好....不過我就覺得對INTERVIEW無用LAW...

我報課外活動只為小朋友開心而報, 所以只有幾樣, 而家比人話唔報多啲班, 攞多啲獎, 意思係我累咗個小朋友......
簡直雪上加霜

CHP

你唔好怪"話你"既人, 佢未明白.  考學校真係唔易, 有好多因素(可能係彩數), 宗教和與學校的關係, 夾唔夾等, 唔係識特異功能就一定考到架.

原帖由 danielmama 於 10-11-5 11:01 發表


我報課外活動只為小朋友開心而報, 所以只有幾樣, 而家比人話唔報多啲班, 攞多啲獎, 意思係我累咗個小朋友......
簡直雪上加霜

dlmcdlcl

同意, 好多學校收生準則都唔同.

有D學校, 重學術, 好睇重D CERT, 但有D學校就睇重個小朋友既對答啖吐係咪成熟有文有路.

見學校呢家野, 真係冇路捉. 我都好明白, 果種擔心. 我收2封REJECT 信時都跌到谷底. 有懷疑係咪真係唔識得步署, 係咪應該報D 多D 比賽既課外活動, 諗得好負面. 又胃痛.

我都成日提醒自己, 小朋友有冇OFFER 有冇2nd in 係咪只係在於向朋友交代呢? 其他人講一句唔洗負責任既說話幾容易, 但係聽既要用平常心真係好難.

仲有好多機會的, 去到出年又會大執位. good luck

2LittleMonkey

o尋晚返到屋企又收多兩個惡耗, 成晚個人傻左咁, 明明心情好返D, 而家又再跌低, 好似惡夢係咁纏繞又纏繞 ....

戀仔狂

原帖由 dlmcdlcl 於 10-11-5 11:26 發表
同意, 好多學校收生準則都唔同.

有D學校, 重學術, 好睇重D CERT, 但有D學校就睇重個小朋友既對答啖吐係咪成熟有文有路.

見學校呢家野, 真係冇路捉. 我都好明白, 果種擔心. 我收2封REJECT 信時都跌到谷底. 有懷疑係 ...

完全同意
之前我都係咁諗, 我都有埋怨自己冇報面試班同比仔學多d英文........
個人真係好徬徨, 不過千其好唔怪自己呀, 冇人知學校既收生準則, 同埋間間都唔同.....個遊戲一日未完都仲有機會, 加油呀, 唔好灰心呀!!!! good luck!!

danielmama

＂其他人講一句唔洗負責任既說話幾容易, 但係聽既要用平常心真係好難.＂

非常同意, 只有考過或考緊小一嘅家長至會明白

戀仔狂

原帖由 2LittleMonkey 於 10-11-5 11:34 發表
o尋晚返到屋企又收多兩個惡耗, 成晚個人傻左咁, 明明心情好返D, 而家又再跌低, 好似惡夢係咁纏繞又纏繞 ....

未到最後都未知結果, 騫翁失馬, 焉知非福!
仲有機會, good luck!!!