德望 Interview 结果

YiChingMaMi

got it. your daughter told u she didn't know how to answer, maybe she forgot the questions, don't give up if you like the school and trust your girl she did her best already!!  

原帖由 Vinyny 於 08-10-4 11:08 PM 發表
I guess we failed on today's interview coz she told me that she didn't answer their questions...

:cry:

[ 本帖最後由 YiChingMaMi 於 08-10-4 23:54 編輯 ]

YiChingMaMi

今日嘅interview有件頗不愉快經歷,   令我對此校的老師有一個好壞的印象. 呢得in就梗係想讀, otherwise, don't need to waste time for making portfolio & preparation of interview. But now, I have to re-consider....  

話說在校外排完隊入hall度攞#時, 老師問有無文件要後補. 我就俾咗近期才取到的一張獎狀, 佢一手接過就夾咗喺我之前已經交咗嘅portfolio裡面, 跟着示意我去排隊上課室. 填完問卷接埋個女先知家長不用interview, 就問課室裡的老師, 我可否拿回剛才給樓下老師的獎狀, 因那是正本. 但她(有禮貌地說): 我不知, 你問樓下嗰d老師. 咁我就照做.

當向一位年紀較大的老師詳述後, 她即時變臉, 黑面及表露極度煩厭. 多次跟我說 "我校老師絕不收取家長任何正本文件, 佢哋知道晒架", 當我再問可否拿回, 因我剛下來, 又知道幾樓同邊個課室, 要攞返其實好易. 但佢又唔俾我自己上, 又唔揾其它老師上, 只係不停重覆佢之前嘅答案 --> their teacher will not accept any original documents from parents.  

俾我覺得唔信我之餘又無解決方法, 只係雙方爭持了數分鐘, 最後我已有點不耐煩, 再給她解釋那是由北京頒發的, 故不可補領, 再次"央求"她. 換來的只是冷冷的: 你等下啦, 等到就等啦, 佢哋好忙架, 等佢哋做完嘢至幫你揾, 不過唔知等幾耐架. 我聽完就話咁算啦, 不用揾啦, 即時黑咗好耐嘅面嘅佢即刻面露笑容同我說bye bye.    

in this case, i feel a lot that how can I send my girl to here??  teacher is stubborn, not helpful and being difficult; (if she allow me to go upstair immediately and back to that room, it's very easy to take my portfolio out at that time & I believe that it will be very hard to find after few hours) not understandable. I can't imagine how they will treat the students here.  Thing happen but no solution, only give the same answer: we'll not accpet original.  (oh my God, why I need to tell lie to you, non-sense...)  Extremely disappointed to this school

YiChingMaMi

em. you are a really good mother...   trust our girl did the best is enough.  the most important is her feeling, right?

原帖由 cheukyingma 於 08-10-5 12:39 AM 發表
我諗我哋都會fail, 事關佢畫又未畫晒, 又講唔出老師問乜, 講到的我又覺佢答得唔好/唔啱, 不過, 佢已盡力了, 那便算了, 而且佢有進步的, 就是她說她有大聲回答老師問題呢 (以前她是沒信心到好似蚊滋咁細聲的), 所以in ...

YiChingMaMi

第一: 我不是故意批評呢間學校, 此校亦是心儀之一, 否則唔會去考; (在下文,我亦有讚2樓的老師很有禮貌)

第二: 俾咗正本佢只怪自己大意, 一心以為會in家長, 但唔代表校方在此事做得對; (試想, 若女兒將來入咗去但欠帶東西回校, 老師只重覆池問你為什麼不帶, 叫咗你帶架啦. 但沒有解決方法, 覺得對嗎?)

第三: 我覺得說聲"再見"只是基本禮貌.

Goodmama2003, I think you are also a good mother, otherwise, you won't have a name as "good mama".  I believe that you quite not understand my feeling, I feel very sorry to my daughter as this is the award that she likes the most. she shows to grandpa & grandma everytimes when they come. Why I was so angry because I can't ask the Beijing U to send me another one, otherwise, I don't like to make thing complicated.  Although I made a careless mistake but trust this can be fixed if teacher is helpful.   As a point of view from a mother, you know how guilty I am.  

我在此只是抒發一下, 不是無中生有, 惡意評擊. 沒想到得來你這樣的評擊! "是人都只是彩色影印架啦. 你連最基本的野都不懂". 我之前俾的所有都是copies, 咁我究竟係唔係人呢?

大家都是一條船, 經歷緊一個艱辛的過程, 為自己的子女著想. 若大家不能勉勵一下, 都請不要落井下石, 萬分感激!

原帖由 goodmama2003 於 08-10-5 01:41 PM 發表



但, 話明是作參考用途, 點會把正本的証書給老師呢?  是人都只是彩色影印架啦. 你連最基本的野都不懂, 就在度批評人地間學校.

另一方面, 我又覺得德望老師不差呀, 女女那天同爸爸入去interview, 我在外面等, 突 ...

YiChingMaMi

I agreed with your point that's why I said "央求" on below, "唔好意思, sorry, 對唔住, etc..." 已經不停地講, (都係慕求揾得番,道歉認衰又點會慳) 但結果都是這樣,才更覺得更無助.  

雖然你好幫學校諗,但有一點需要更正你. 那一張正本不是交表時交的. 而是interview當日亞女入班房之前才交, 到個女in完, 已即時問老師. 相隔時間就只是我行咗一層嘅樓梯時間, 因張嘢當時仲喺2樓. 所以並不是你所講"隔咗好耐".   As I said b/4, I also suggested I lead a teacher & go together as I know which classroom but she didn't allow and ask me just stand in the hall.  Trust I can get it back immediately before all the files mixed up together & don't need to waste the teacher's time afterwards.

無論如何,我只是覺得當日只有一位老師的態度及處理有問題. 問心吖, 當時11點幾, 企係hall度等佢哋做完晒嘢到下晝5點, 你會唔會等呀? 而且2點重有個interview, 所以期間我提議過留低姓名及電話,待校方有時間找到才call我, anytime is okay for me & I can fit in the assigned time from school. 但佢都係果句:老師唔會收你正本. 真吹賬!

多謝及希望大家能持平地看, 事件中我是大意. 但為何兩位家長都只是攻擊我, 難道此事校方真的做得對? 大家不用再回答, 問心便可以.

我明白在座各位家長都是喜歡此校的, 只是我天真, 不應在此講了個事實出嚟, 如影响到你們請見諒...

原帖由 喧嘩 於 08-10-5 11:32 PM 發表
其實大家都明白你唔係有意批評, 你個經歷真係好唔開心, 比起每一個人都會,  你作為家長會覺得如果將來亞女入到去冇帶功課......., 但係學校都會從佢地角度睇, 有冇攪錯, 從來冇人要收正本, 你就俾正本, 仲要隔咁耐先 ...

YiChingMaMi

Conniengor,

首先好多謝你咁明白事理及伸張正義, 聖人都有錯 (大人細路都會) 類似的事件我便沒有妳這麼幸運了, 但我相信公道自在人心. 為了亞女, 我會重新振作, 不會氣餒. 多謝妳的鼓勵!

Snoopy 校長講得好啱, 我相信學校在課程編制上是有監管的, 故不會有某些學校會特別差. 而我不是嗰D要個女飛黃騰達嘅亞媽, 我最注重就是亞女嘅身心發展, 佢嘅心靈同品德先至重要. 就算俾佢有幾好成績, 都不及有好嘅品德. 學校不單是傳授書本知識的地方, 德智體群美都同等重要.

老師及家長都是小朋友的模彷對象, 小朋友有無禮貌, 有無愛心, 都靠學校及家庭. 任何一方不配合, 都是徒勞無功.

真的希望盡力幫亞女揾到一所温暖的學校去渡過她的童年, 校長及老師都對孩子有愛心和耐性, 真的對辨學有熱誠的學校, 而不單只是為了賺錢.  

Conniengor, 希望妳都能如願以償!!   

原帖由 conniengor 於 08-10-6 11:54 AM 發表
YiChingMaMi,

其實好明白你嘅心情, 去interview已經好緊張架啦, 可能臨時漏左1張cert未影, 時 間又到唯有正本帶去! 這我也試過 在dbsp添, 果d老師好有礼貌叫我落一層樓影(要比錢同佢會來埋張紙比另些老師睇, 即通行 ...

YiChingMaMi

Conniengor,
我哋開個topic再傾, 為免在此阻住樓主

原帖由 conniengor 於 08-10-6 01:47 PM 發表
Snoopy 校長講嘅野真係好有道理, 可惜我無入form去英華, 听完佢講嘅野我都好讚同, 如果第時阿仔入到一間學校個校長係咁就好啦!

你有無考培僑呀? 個校長都係好好架會同d學生玩埋一齊架, 我女讀緊G3!

dbspd好想入但 ...