信報月刋一篇使人反省及不安的文章

rtam

多謝推介此文章。
我保持清醒的看，明白只看到事情的一面，這家長很聰明，不僅懂得接觸各大重要機關，現在還透過公信力強的信報報導事件，公義的確重要，但教導孩子包容和寬恕卻更為重要，人生不公義的事許多，但若懂得包容和寬恕便可以克服許多內心的困惑。須知道這孩子的價值觀是取决於父母今日的行事為人，我不羨慕這孩子的聰敏天資，但卻擔心他日成長，他會如何對待別人？我想竭而不捨的精神不是用來對付人的。我真不知道這学生之前有否對老師有過很不敬的言行，弄至如此田地，但學校採取死不認錯/逃避的態度是肯定不對的；早一點安排一個出自真誠的會面便可以化解一切。
我現在已為人母，小學時期也屢被老師羞辱，如成績由好差變得突飛猛進，老師在派成績表的一刻，不但不讚賞鼓勵，還當眾表現討厭地說：「你這種人不是為趕升班都不會努力！」心中不是味兒，但若今日我還恨這老師，那對我又有什麼好處呢，反而我現在很著意要給我的孩子足夠的讚賞和鼓勵，令他們有正面的人生觀。
我們現今的教育工作者已經承受了不少工作壓力，這家長又何必這樣竭而不捨去「趕絕」他們呢！

原帖由 hogwarts 於 08-10-5 11:31 發表
信報月刋今期十月號有一篇有關小學教育的文章。
題為"何處有仁？何處有義？-香港资優教育服務的再思"
論及聖公會聖米迦勒小學如何處理一件原本為"小事"的過程，一期講唔完，還要下期再續，值得找來讀讀。
讀名校不容易啊！ ...

rtam

Hi hogwarts,

Yes, conduct is really a matter for a P5-6 student.  That makes me understand more this father.  

BTW, I felt so uneasy as well after I read this article.  Not because of the story itself, it's the hidden message that Prof. You wants to deliver via this story.  He described / disclosed eveything so detailed including the name of the teacher, what's his points?  I also look forward to seeing a happy ending with positive value and fair judgement.

原帖由 hogwarts 於 08-10-7 23:58 發表
Dear rtam,

非常同意你的看法，在現代這個人人都渴望能站在道德高地向"不公義"開火的年代，寬恕心的位置是真的不太在前。

我看要害還在升中要計 conduct 這部份，這可能是變成勢不兩立的主因，但在未知大结局(11月號才刋出 ...

rtam

hogwarts,

I am so disappointed with Prof. You after reading the 2nd part of the story.
Yes, there is no happy ending and even worse the 2nd part of the story is repugnant.

When I first read the story in early October, I felt uneasy and curious about the main objective of Prof. You.
I wonder if “反思香港資優教育的成效” is his only purpose?
So I wrote to him via HK Economic Journal Monthly and CityU and told him my concern about his 偏重一方的報導、只著眼正義是否恰當and what’s his main message behind this story.
I was expecting his more elaboration in this issue.
Of course, I also told him my stand point which seems to be different with Prof. You and this father. Then, finally Prof. You just further supported this father by quoting a reader Emilio who also felt the same that the school and teachers were both wrong, absolute wrong… something like this.
So I can confirm now that Prof. You and the main character father Wong are the same type and share the same stand point.
I thought I was reading Apple Daily, unfortunately, it is HKEJ.

In fact, Prof. You’s reporting style is not so skillful.
Under his description, this father seems to be repugnant because of his over-reaction. 說來說去只為討回兒子的自尊而已,公義真的這樣重要嗎?現在的經濟情況,可能好快會有許多公司倒閉,許多人沒有工作,包容及彼此尊重、團結及互相關愛才更可貴,更合「潮流」,可怕是Prof. You更在文中說”社會的成人不應以世故的態度去禁止,反而要加以鼓勵” 他的心意我真的看到了!!!
現在我反過來有點同情學校(even though I learnt from my friend’s daughter who study in this school that those teachers involved in this story are used to be cool and not approachable),因現任校長是很有誠意辦學的,現在真是要加倍努力挽回名聲了. Sigh…


quote]原帖由 hogwarts 於 08-11-2 13:11 發表
紅字部份不是文章一部份，但文章的確不單拉了阿牛落水，還用"generalization"的手法，拉埋 St. Joseph's College PS 落水。下次喺街見到阿牛，一定问问佢。

當然事情永遠可以好"羅生門"，這些不公平對侍學生的事，又真的可以無 ... [/quote]

[ 本帖最後由 rtam 於 08-11-3 00:16 編輯 ]

rtam

Professor of Marketing??  I see.  I have been working in Advertising and Marketing for years, I think I am qualified enough to remind him that "做個成功的出位廣告也得在背後傳遞正面的訊息,不要引人反感,以博取注意"

原帖由 hogwarts 於 08-11-2 22:44 發表
Hi rtam,

Ha ha, don't forget Prof You is a professor of Marketing.  There are other discussions on internet and one has praised Prof You as 一位媒體工作者願意不怕強權，將文章發表。  In my view, it is j ...