給各位失落於面試的03年家長

kaifu

I believe the majority of parents have been disappointed by the latest interview results.  I could not sleep all night after learning at the midnight of Oct 8 that our son was not successful with the Ying Wa application.
But I want to bring you all back to the collective memory which is unique to all of us.  Five years ago, when the whole city was under the attack of SARS, a disease not even understood by the doctors, no one was more scared and concerned than those who were expecting their babies throughout that year.  Did you wear an N95 mask to the clinic for checkup?  How did you feel when you were about to deliver your baby at the hospitals, places where all SARS cases orginated.  No hosptial visits were allowed and your husbands were not allowed to go to the labor room with you.  No friends or relatives dared to visit the baby after he/she returned home, and no 1-month celebrations for most of us.  Thinking about the scares and worries at those times, what we experience right now is really nothing.  In fact we should be very thankful that our kids are growing up happily and now this is only a small milestone in their lives, although it seems like a huge challenge for the parents.  
After watching our son going to all those interviews, we noticed that he has grown up a lot.  This is perhaps the biggest prize we'd ever had so far!  
Cheer up, all parents of "SARS" babies.  Let's move on and help our kids go through the remaining interviews happily!

[ 本帖最後由 kaifu 於 08-10-11 10:15 編輯 ]

youma

原帖由 kaifu 於 08-10-11 10:12 發表
I believe the majority of parents have been disappointed by the latest interview results.  I could not sleep all night after learning at the midnight of Oct 8 that our son was not successful with the  ...

Thank you. Really encouraging.

BBMHM

真係好鼓舞! 多謝! 近期個心都幾失落, 睇完後, 突然幾滴眼淚流出來! 同佢哋齊成長中的苦與樂, 自己個心,個腦不段变!現唯有時間怏D 過, 令心情快快平伏便好了!

AgnesHimMa

你寫得好好,
令我回想起當年, 好在我決定提早開刀係浸會生, 如果唔係, 我就可能遇上浸會爆發的sars.



Thank you.

MENDELMON

多謝 ! 其實一早都預左結果落空, 但知道 result 後難免都有點失落, 因為每個父母都認為自己的小朋友是得的, 其實佢地係 interview 已經做得好好 ... 大家要努力加油不要放棄 !!

BabyLincoln

Dear All,

Don't worry, be happy!

bblaw

03 Sars ma ma, Your kids are proud of u . Don't be dissappointed. I believed God will lead  kids toward light and will choose the best way for them

rtam

我不是一定要讀DSS學校, 但自己的孩子被拒絕時真的會好難受, 他這樣差嗎？不會吧!!! 在任何情況下, 即使他真的包尾, 媽媽也是一樣欣賞他的,媽媽是孩子們最大的精神支柱, 相信他們最害怕是媽媽不再欣賞他愛他, 大家不要忘記讚讚孩子順利完成了面試已很了不起。

原帖由 kaifu 於 08-10-11 10:12 發表
I believe the majority of parents have been disappointed by the latest interview results.  I could not sleep all night after learning at the midnight of Oct 8 that our son was not successful with the  ...

chrwan

Very touching.  Me also, if not 開刀
I might be 1 of the SARS in the Baptist hospital.  After we go home for a week, 1st SARS in Baptist hospital!

原帖由 AgnesHimMa 於 08-10-11 11:17 發表
你寫得好好,
令我回想起當年, 好在我決定提早開刀係浸會生, 如果唔係, 我就可能遇上浸會爆發的sars.



Thank you.

chitheipama

Thanks for your sharing with heart.  Yes, those memories are treasured and unique.  Cheer up for all parents.

Ben2003

努力！加油！

Vinyny

03' kids and parents are best of the best!!

Carmen2004

Even though I am not 03 mama, it is a very good sharing!!

Wish you all the bests for all the03 mama.

hannah616

原帖由 kaifu 於 08-10-11 10:12 發表
I believe the majority of parents have been disappointed by the latest interview results.  I could not sleep all night after learning at the midnight of Oct 8 that our son was not successful with the  ...

好感動!我差點流淚了!
回想起sars 當時返工好似同死神博鬥咁,
後來政府下令某些機構不需大肚婆返工
天天留在家中都好驚!!,
我好慶幸囝囝出世那天是sars零感染,
大家都開心到痺!!

其實只要我們好好培養子女,
讀那一間學校都有出色!
我們要相信他們的能力及尊重他們的獨特性,
不要在他們身上加上我們的...期望,
這樣他們才能愉快地學習,健康地成長!

希望各位03父母及子女,
個個都人健康開心!
小一選校呢個遊戲大家玩得太大,太投入了,
我們的子女會受不起的,
大家都是輕鬆去面對好些!!

喧嘩

係喎, 俾你提返我tim, sara有bb係一個好大的考驗, 而我就冇去政府醫院做產檢, 不過日日就去醫院返工, 我同囡囡原來都好叻

502

一時間也勾起當時的情景-----細仔因為要留院照燈, 我想念大仔之下先行出院, 就在晚上跟丈夫回院送奶時, 在車上聽到浸會爆發SARS的新聞報導!

當時車子儘管已停在醫院門口, 我們也不敢上去看小B, 萬一中途中招點算? 記得當晚一面眼淚的開車離開醫院, 馬上通知醫生安排翌日接小B出院! 夫妻倆皆一夜無眠!
因此我們給小B起的名字中有一個仁字, 好讓他將來記得自己出生時各位謹守崗位的醫護人員的無私精神, 他們的仁心仁術!

這樣一想, 今天我們父母僅僅在面試過程中的一點挫敗又算什麼? 對比起在眼前的金融危機/經濟困難, 我們的失落好比星際間的一粒沙塵, 殊不足道!

願以此與各位SARS時期的爸爸媽媽互勉, 大家繼續努力!

原帖由 AgnesHimMa 於 08-10-11 11:17 發表
你寫得好好,
令我回想起當年, 好在我決定提早開刀係浸會生, 如果唔係, 我就可能遇上浸會爆發的sars.



Thank you.

small_cc

題外話，
為什麼很多人喜歡說03年是因為sars而出生率下降，所以考試一定容易很多，其實03年出生的bb大多數是媽咪在02年有口左bb的 (懷孕不是要9個月又7天嗎?)

誰能預料03年會爆發sars?如果早知的話，也沒有人會選在此年冒險去生bb的

樹熊

雖然失落但不等於失敗我們要相信我們小朋友係得架終會等到好消息

gracechung

你唔咁講啦，小朋友只不過唔適應面試這種遊戲規則，並唔代表被拒絕。唔代表佢差。人生流流長，每個人都會經歷失意，加油！

小朋友仍然係有佢自已既價值，唔單只父母眼中是珍貴的，係天父眼中都係寶貴既。

原帖由 rtam 於 08-10-11 12:35 發表
我不是一定要讀DSS學校, 但自己的孩子被拒絕時真的會好難受, 他這樣差嗎？不會吧!!! 在任何情況下, 即使他真的包尾, 媽媽也是一樣欣賞他的,媽媽是孩子們最大的精神支柱, 相信他們最害怕是媽媽不再欣賞他愛他, 大家不要 ...

gracechung

各位家長，
加油！

若于年回頭，小學面試只係人生小插曲。當然，我明白此刻心情比自已考大學更緊張，因為你地都十分愛你地既小朋友，比愛自已更甚！

記得要微笑。加油，從容面對挑戰！