愛與痛的邊緣

123had

I love my son so I feel very pain and heartbreak every time when he was crying while entering an interview room.

I feel disappointed every time when I received a reject letter from the schools.

I avoid to see other parents as I am afraid of being asked of my son's situation in school interview.

I can't accept the failure of my son especially when I hear the success of other kids.

I can't concenrate on my work even I am a very tough person.

I feel very stressful to open the letters from schools although I always check my mailbox.

I can't control myself to force my son to perform well in coming school interview as I am very worried that he would fail again.

I had enrolled over 10 schools as I did not feel secure in this 'game'.

If you share same feelings with me, good luck to all of us and our beloved kids.

Ben2003

原帖由 123had 於 08-10-21 22:07 發表


Yes, I had already declined the offer from a private school.  I hope this chance could help another kid....

Heiyingleefamil

Dear 123had

"Yes, I had already declined the offer from a private school.  I hope this chance could help another kid...."

123had

原帖由 ononprincess 於 08-10-21 23:00 發表
Hi,

I am also facing a very great pressure during the recent interview process esp my child is a shy person. However, I don't think we, as a parent, need to tell our children the results of the inter ...

I totally agree with you.  Good luck to your kid...:

ononprincess

Hi,

I am also facing a very great pressure during the recent interview process esp my child is a shy person. However, I don't think we, as a parent, need to tell our children the results of the interviews.

All the pressure should be faced by the parents instead of the children. Try to buy a gift or bring him/her to a place where he/she likes to go or some other encouragement that should make your child to enjoy the interviews.

123had

最幸福的孩子不一定是在最好的學校中找到,
而是在一個溫暖快樂的家庭中生活及成長..

我們的孩子, 對不起....在這段時間中, 由於我們的問題 (希望你入名校), 使你們小小年紀便要接受壓力及失敗的滋味.....我們知道你們都和我們一樣不快樂及對自己失了信心...

其實你們每個都了不起, 每個都是我們的小天使, 好寶寶.......希望大家經歷這次體驗之後, 學會了珍惜每個學習機會....一生受用

[ 本帖最後由 123had 於 08-10-21 22:30 編輯 ]

123had

原帖由 Heiyingleefamil 於 08-10-21 00:38 發表
If you really don't like those 2 private schools, you should release at least 1 of them, many even more desparate parents/children are waiting for it.

Yes, I had already declined the offer from a private school.  I hope this chance could help another kid....

skygame

雖然小朋友只得五歲．但他已知道小學面試是學校選擇他與否．當他知道明天要面試時的前一個晚上．他睡著了都出現磨牙．我知道他是很緊張的，雖然面試日他都表現得很平常．早期，我們對失敗的結果十分不開心．但現在我們都以平常心看待．只要我們一家人已盡了力．

941媽咪

其實無必要報10間！唔通10間你都噤喜歡！
妳和妳的孩子也辛苦了！如果未如理想，不如等中央派位！政府和津貼的學校很多也有高質素呢！

loy211

我都要參與這個遊戲,呢幾個月人都顛,未來兩 個月還要in.

aniwong

You are welcome!!
Thanks!

原帖由 Heiyingleefamil 於 08-10-21 01:27 發表
Dear aniwong

Thanks for your correction.

Heiyingleefamil

Dear aniwong

Thanks for your correction.

ma90a31

香港的這個遊戲制度就是這樣在走
這個遊戲　已經無所謂公平或不公平了

但是　各位媽咪們
一定要對自己的孩子有信心
他們才五歲
一時的失敗　不代表孩子永遠失敗
妳的失望　孩子都會知曉
這樣對孩子的成長沒有幫助　只有害處
若是因為這樣讓孩子覺得全都是他的錯
那麼　他的成長還會有快樂嗎

他／她們才五歲呀

放輕鬆點

人人一定有學校唸的

aniwong

Heiyingleefamil

You need to quote refer to the post of 123had, not me. Thanks!

原帖由 Heiyingleefamil 於 08-10-21 00:38 發表
If you really don't like those 2 private schools, you should release at least 1 of them, many even more desparate parents/children are waiting for it.

Heiyingleefamil

原帖由 aniwong 於 08-10-20 22:58 發表
According to your first post, every parents are supporting & comfort you regarding your stressful feelings.  But I think it is unnecessary now.

If you really don't like those 2 private schools, you should release at least 1 of them, many even more desparate parents/children are waiting for it.

aniwong

According to your first post, every parents are supporting & comfort you regarding your stressful feelings.  But I think it is unnecessary now.

原帖由 123had 於 08-10-20 22:18 發表
Dear all,

Thank you for your whole-hearted support!
It is a harsh time to my family.  In fact, 2 private schools had accepted my son.  However, they are not our first or second choice.

After getting ...

123had

Dear all,

Thank you for your whole-hearted support!
It is a harsh time to my family.  In fact, 2 private schools had accepted my son.  However, they are not our first or second choice.

After getting your views, I need to adjust my cognition.  I regard the P.1 interview is a way to test out my son's ability and his talent.  Maybe, I am wrong.  The rules of game are actually unfavourable to those kids who are passive, shy and silent.  Therefore, I told myself that 'the interview could not clearly and correctly reflect my son's ability and this is only a chance for the schools to pick out those kids who are verbal, expressive and cheerful.... etc.'

There are still 2 interviews to go in coming Saturday (if I had good luck, I had 2nd interview??).  I think my family need to celebrate the success and braveness of my son during the past 2 months....

loy211

我報了8間私小和直資,已有2間衰左,係要d時間適應,不過機會總是有的,不要氣餒,互勉之.

LS+MCS

Believe majority of the parents share the similar feelings. Don't be too anxious or it will affect your normal daily life. There must always be the way out. Only sometimes it takes time for you to see.