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CCHmama,
It's the first day I visited BK again. I'm upset today and need to get more support with mummys with similar situations.
My kid has visited hychilogists for 2 times already and trying medicine for ADHD, as the doctor felt him has obvious difficulties in sitting properly and concentrate. After the medicine, he was better in doing homework the first 3 days, and began to drag on again in the rest of the week.
In the 2nd week, the doctor thought he is more stable and a bit polite -> progress, but during their conversations, the doctor discovered his weakness in expressing himself, especially in emotion, even though he can seen him possessing very good language skills, so this reinforced the syptoms of Asperger.
The doctor increased the ADHD medicine dosage for the 2nd week, yet seemed that there was not much effect, rather he began to have feeling of vomitting which is one of the side effect.
Good thing is, I've learnt from the doctor that, for Aspergers, parents cannot expect daily or weekly progress, we need to focus on the OVERALL behaviour in months! There will definitely be sudden bad days, which we should not pay too much attention to or worry about.
Overall, my kid has been better over the last 2 weeks, but he still have some problem behaviour that he's aggressive towards me.
This has been a problem for a year, I was complained by my family that his bad behaviour is solely due to my technique in handling him. It was very difficult as I have pressure from family too. In recent 2 month, my family had become more understanding as they come to my place very often and can see or feel the difficulties in dealing with the boy.
However, in past 2 weeks the boy has some overall improvement, but be aggressive only to me. My family started to suspect again the boy is only playing trickd on me but not really have any problem etc.
I'm upset and confused. Yes that verytime to boy get very aggressive behaviour are mostly with me, like hit me, force to hold me, bite me, etc, although he has records beating and biting other in tutor centre which were without my presence, those were just a few occasions as compared to very frequent toward me.
CCHmama, based on your experience with your kid, do you think Aspergers can control their temper better in front of selective group of people?
This is annoyed. I'm confused, as the boy seems have better temper without me. And likes to do all behaviour to get me angry and fight with him, not the others.
I strongly feel the importance of supports from family. Without that, days are very difficult and the helpless feeling is very strong.
Thanks for reading. Hope I can be tuned up again in the morning.
原帖由 CCHmama 於 10-6-16 11:21 發表 
yes thanks for your sharing:) |
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