宜家d家長太保護自己的小朋友了!

ycmcns

今日我帶我個小朋友去上bb班時,我見到有個bb一開始唱歌就喊,然後直頭要出去添,其實我覺得個課程几好,但點解有d bb會咁,我問個度的社工,佢話宜家d 媽咪太錫bb了,家中盡可能好靜,其實咁樣會令到bb好難適應現實環境,所以好易喊.我聽完好認同.

winchoy16888

明事非，辨善惡，好簡短‧但很實用‧唏望Ｄ家長明白

cutiebebe

係呀, 我都見唔少呢d家長同小朋友, 我個女在校車都比人打過2次啦, 其中一次仲成face損哂, 我除左投訴(個家長都無道歉, 係另一間學校的), 就只可以教個女學下保護自己啦!!仲有千萬不可以做野蠻人呀

nicoleNtrinma

唔止睇, 仲喺小朋友面前打開隻蛋俾佢哋睇wo. 當然playgroup / even 學校都唔係萬能啦! And of course I'm not that stupid to WAIT for others to teach my kids. But you pointed out that some kids thought eggs had no shells and bananas had no skin was a worrying phenomenon, wasn't it? I agree 平日exposure都好重要. 但係而家都真係好多kids因為家長驚kitchen危險冇俾小朋友入去...唉...外國的細路又不一定是more independent la, right? 都係睇父母點做啦.

原帖由 bbJP 於 10-6-17 20:39 發表

唔係呀化.雞蛋都要等playgroup show 比小朋友睇??
而家d parents真係以為playgroup萬能,咩都等人教.其實日常生活多d參與,小朋友自然學識,以前响美國,只有play day(你去我屋企玩or我去你屋企玩足一日),唔興playgroup ...

[ 本帖最後由 nicoleNtrinma 於 10-6-18 13:11 編輯 ]

bbJP

原帖由 nicoleNtrinma 於 10-6-17 14:08 發表
嘩!咁真係唔掂wo. 我個就四歲嘅女尋晚食cherry都自己吐核啦.仲有佢一定知道雞蛋有殼. 佢返嗰間playgroup教egg會show隻真蛋俾d students 睇. 返屋企佢就見親我煮雞蛋都話要幫我crack the egg. 我都有俾佢打蛋. messy  ...

唔係呀化.雞蛋都要等playgroup show 比小朋友睇??
而家d parents真係以為playgroup萬能,咩都等人教.其實日常生活多d參與,小朋友自然學識,以前响美國,只有play day(你去我屋企玩or我去你屋企玩足一日),唔興playgroup,d 小朋友獨立好多.

nicoleNtrinma

Really? 咁人哋都可能只係想話bb要d時間適應, 因為屋企同playgroup嘅environment差得太遠la.當然, 如果小朋友聽某d歌or做某d actions 會好驚的話, 咁咪話聲俾teacher聽. 人哋未必就哂你個細路, 但至少understand or 會等小朋友慢慢適應 ah. 完全一驚就停, 又好似唔係辦法wo.

原帖由 bbJP 於 10-6-16 03:09 發表

我覺得個社工不太專業.想當年我仔bb細上playgroup時都係咁,對某些歌仲一聽就喊,好驚好驚.我好担心返幼稚園時都一樣.咁返左幼稚園好耐都冇事,有次同佢老師傾開先知,佢原來仲係聽到某些歌会驚,老師会暫停或轉歌.佢話 ...

nicoleNtrinma

嘩!咁真係唔掂wo. 我個就四歲嘅女尋晚食cherry都自己吐核啦.仲有佢一定知道雞蛋有殼. 佢返嗰間playgroup教egg會show隻真蛋俾d students 睇. 返屋企佢就見親我煮雞蛋都話要幫我crack the egg. 我都有俾佢打蛋. messy d 冇所謂.

咩都幫佢做哂, 真係會累死佢哋ga.

原帖由 bbJP 於 10-6-17 03:15 發表

仲有.....
雞蛋係冇殼,
香蕉係冇皮既.......

bbJP

原帖由 Charlotte_mom 於 10-6-14 20:36 發表
部分小朋友, 已經k3, 竟然話蘋果係無核的, 因為佢地從來只見蘋果肉, 未試過真正自己去咬一個蘋果

仲有.....
雞蛋係冇殼,
香蕉係冇皮既.......

sara09

我鐘意呢句:
".......千幾個小朋友, 個個都係咁上, 你果個矜貴d定脆弱d?"

其實家長太保護自己小朋友, 令到佢甚麼也自我中心, 不顧別人感受, 第時父母自己受番.

bbJP

原帖由 ycmcns 於 10-6-12 23:25 發表
今日我帶我個小朋友去上bb班時,我見到有個bb一開始唱歌就喊,然後直頭要出去添,其實我覺得個課程几好,但點解有d bb會咁,我問個度的社工,佢話宜家d 媽咪太錫bb了,家中盡可能好靜,其實咁樣會令到bb好難適應現實環境,所 ...

我覺得個社工不太專業.想當年我仔bb細上playgroup時都係咁,對某些歌仲一聽就喊,好驚好驚.我好担心返幼稚園時都一樣.咁返左幼稚園好耐都冇事,有次同佢老師傾開先知,佢原來仲係聽到某些歌会驚,老師会暫停或轉歌.佢話其實好常見,班中亦有其他幾個小朋友係咁,老師一般会就一就,唔会迫佢地,大d就ok.

sarahx00x

I agree...Can't be too protective! So I also continue to bring my child to playgroup despite the crying for the first two lessons. Mine also have different activities, then kids can have wider exposure.

ycmcns

我絶對認同大家的講法,所以我個小朋友好細我已經比佢去bb班,因為我只得一個小朋友,我想佢多些同其他小朋友接觸,同可以透過上堂有多些其他刺激,唔佑咁有無錯,所以我上緊個班,music, exercise, language都有d,唔知你地小朋友係咪都係玩差唔多都課程.

musicien

我好贊成所有人的講法,但我好想問邊個bb班係由社工教咁勁!我想去試下!!!!

Jackielee

嘩，咁都得？
真係替呢個囡囡擔心，第日會變成幾野蠻。

原帖由 mshung 於 10-6-14 17:07 發表
我絕對認同宜家有部份既家長太保護自己的小朋友!!
雖然睇你個case就未必一定係既, 上面幾位家長講得都岩, 可能係BB唔慣咁嘈姐...
但我呢個case,哈!!就絕對反映到太過保護只造成小朋友變得野蠻><
話說有日同女女去XX ...

Mrs_Obama

所以我成日都開住收音機或者CD﹐ 緊時都開架

原帖由 miffy 於 10-6-15 10:03 發表
我仔細個我屋企都好靜, 得我同佢兩丁友, 邊個會嘈??

daisy17772

原帖由 mat媽 於 10-6-14 14:06 發表
都唔係既... 有d bb 天生對聲音敏感, 少少聲都覺刺耳!!

I also think that it would be more due to the character of a child and yes some kids are more sensitive to noise than others, that they would refrain from participating, this is not uncommon.  Therefore if parents don't help their kids by using the right method and overly protect their kids, the problems will become even worse.

[ 本帖最後由 daisy17772 於 10-6-14 21:07 編輯 ]