JOYFXL 員工打BB事件

yesmammy

I am really angry when I heard that incident, its better to let the kid join the playgroup alone only when they can express themselves clearly like around 3 yrs old, or else you cant get a clue how they treat your kid at school. hope you can find other good playgroup for your bb later on!

LPN

太過份啦, 你可以考慮下同壹仔講下, 睇下佢會唔會受理, 等多D 媽咪知道..

而家阿B 有冇好D? 可能帶佢去同其他小朋友玩多D 會有幫助

sonsonc

thanks for sharing. Originally, wanna to take the trial class.......after hear that, I won't take risk and it;s not really safe to leave my son in this playgroup. Hope your son will get well soon.

anita_yps

點解個清潔阿嬸可以教d學生?

佢只係清潔阿嬸, 唔係老師又唔係助教?? 乜而家d playgroup係用清潔阿嬸做埋助教?

仲有, 個miss同清潔阿嬸唔即時俾返bb你, 樓主你有冇喝佢地要即時交返bb俾你, 其實當時bb應該受驚, 唔應該再任由佢地想點就點囉。

salpaut

其實不論是playgroup定興趣班, 都好係教果個導師得唔得o架! 如果唔好彩, 真係會有樓主的經歷發生, 有陣時唔好話打人o甘大件事, 有d導師無心機教, 有d導師唔識安排時間, 上課的內容安排得唔好, 小朋友都會學唔到野! 我地又唔可以指明要上那位導師的課堂, 真慘!

原帖由 ccssww22 於 10-6-17 17:34 發表
我仔仔之前都跟過Miss H, 覺得她好才介紹比人! 可是之後轉到另一班, 返每日3小時個班就出事了! 除了MISS H有心機教外, 其他MISS好求其!

man2

聽到都心痛!希望你bb快d無事,近排多些抱他,開些music比佢聽下,等佢快d開心返!!

wendy126

唔係嘛, 咁都有! 真係唔好貪平

Cheeriohero

原帖由 ccssww22 於 10-6-17 13:26 發表
(五) 事後感:

事件對我小朋友、我及家人有好大影響, 除了很多個晚上大家冇覺好訓, 食唔落飯, 兩公婆對事件睇法唔同吵架, 仲有要重新搵過PLAYGROUP及幼兒園, 又擔心小朋友會否留下童年陰影. 0個種心痛及壓力真係冇人會明白, 正所謂針唔拮到肉唔知痛…..我從來冇諗過會有D咁既事發生係我仔仔身上. 唔知點做好, 好無助, 亦好自責沒有好好保護仔仔, 更心痛是自己親手送羊入虎口....

I totally understand how you feel because I have the same experience.
The only difference was my child was bullied by his teacher psychologically for over 6 months before the true came out.
Luckily the other class teacher was willing to be the witness, but harm has been done!


[ 本帖最後由 Cheeriohero 於 10-6-21 00:55 編輯 ]

smartmatt

原帖由 ccssww22 於 10-6-20 08:23 發表
報案室啊SIR話如果冇表面傷勢, 又冇親眼見到, 警方只會紀錄在案, 沒有証據展開調查..........

不過如果案發時即時報警, 係會有警察到場問話既.....可以警惕下間中心! 只是咁做的話, 我同BB就要留係現場好耐好耐.... ...

There is little you can do now about the incident.   The police wouldn't do much unless there is sign of physical injury.  

Much better to focus on helping your kid.   Being positive is the key.  I would suggest you can try  attending a playgroup / activity where you are present and participating with your kid for an hour or two.   

Good luck!

snoopymom

Really sorry to hear that! These people really don't understand toddlers' psychology. how can they treat him like a 12 years old boy?, he is just 21 month....
Be tough, hug him more and give him more positive and friendly experience about school. I believe he will overcome soon!

WingBB-222

ccssww22,

Sorry to hear that and I hope your family and your son will get out from this issue soon.....

After reading your experience, I would like to share my feeling.  Actually I started sending my son to playgroup since his 6months old......  But after these years, he is 3 now, I thought the only benefit for joining playgroup is provide some / a little bit social life to him.  And all those languages, music, development.... are only gimmicks from some commercial organizations.  Believe me a kid of 21 months old only needs mami and 安全感 is the most essential part to build his character in the following years.....

Sorry if you do not agree what I thought, but this is just my feeling and would like to share.....  

Really hope your son will rebuild the trust soon, but don't let him go to this playgroup / school again la.  Give him more 安全感 and love, and he will forget this issue la....  Add oil!!

Christi

我覺得:

1.報警,別管入罪機會幾大,警方自有方法.就算最終無法舉証,當是給學校一個警愓(這類事情會鬧上警局),也很好.

2.我替你兒子難過.小朋友就算扯人頭髮,只是不懂得處理事件的表現.我關注的是,在這件事上,不單出現[打];還有[威嚇],即:帶小朋友入洗手間教訓佢(幾恐怖!);還有再多的[威嚇],1.先叫阿媽走開,2.在阿媽面前分離兩人,要一位已經好驚好驚既小朋友收聲先可以給阿媽抱抱.換個小朋友的角度看,成件事真係好恐怖.你兒子呢幾晚晚上有無喊?有無更加頑皮或者突然好靜?我估你要好多時間去幫佢疏導今次不快經歷.

3.要求校方道歉(因為在校內發生,也正正是因為他們辭退了女工,即反映他們同意事件處理得不好,才有員工要被罰.這是要求他們道歉的充份理由....反過來說,如果校方覺得無問題,又何須炒人?)

4.退學.

PS.想問清楚,係咪荃灣那間ｊｏｙｆｕｌ?

helenli

就算打手都可以報警架, 我認為你可以向傳媒爆料, 雖然小朋友所受傷害已於事無補, 但交由傳媒調查報道後可向JOYFXL施壓, 要佢回應, 然後交由讀者自行判斷.