國際學校如何處理小朋友既自理問題???

pollybell

我其實已經有心理準備國際幼稚園唔會好似本地既咁好服侍.
1.國際無如厠時間有需要自己出聲.
2.點心時間你要食自己黎拿,唔食無人會迫你食.呢兩點我都接受.

但呢幾日有一個問題發生,我小朋友三歲因為鼻敏感有鼻水,睇左醫生食左抗敏藥但此終都有流,我已同校車褓姆講書包有口罩同紙巾,(如有需要幫小朋友帶上),佢話會同老師講,上車時我已幫仔仔帶左.但呢幾日接佢放學都滿面已乾涸既鼻水.其實呢個問題係咪都係文化既唔同所以處理有所不同.


請指教因為可能重有更多我無法想像既事要接受,真係想知多些希望多點心理準備.

twinsstar

if this happens in local KGs .... I'm sure that the parents will complain about the school, saying that the janitors and teachers are not caring and "sai sum" enough!

One of my colleagues' (who's a foreigner) kids is studying in an IS primary school and he discovered that his son was "bullied" by his classmates so he "complained" to the teachers and the teachers said, "let the kids solve by themselves"

Kids are spoilt nowadays .... it's good to let them learn to handle things themselves :), no matter studying in local / IS schools ...

原帖由 丫頭 於 10-7-31 23:54 發表
小朋友既自理問題.......

記得我對子女讀k1時每日都是齊齊整整出門口，放學時總是狼狼狽狽的背著書包，頸掛圖書袋甩甩漏漏的，一手拿勞作，一手拿外套披頭散髮的落校車，有時還發現回家時左右鞋是調轉了穿。   

見到佢地這樣 ...

[ 本帖最後由 twinsstar 於 10-8-8 00:42 編輯 ]

Mighty

香港大部分人都被D　HELPERS「種」壊晒、小朋友就是小朋友、点会成人可以整整斉斉AH,有時見到D小朋友６、７歳都要HELPER同擦汗、小朋友企住係到、成個儍瓜GUM,真係眼火爆！！　其実都只是一D基本問題、同是否国際学校無関係。　在家提点一下、漸漸応該OK　GE,不用太緊張。

[ 本帖最後由 Mighty 於 10-8-1 13:19 編輯 ]

pollybell

睇見你既回應真係笑左出黎,好有同感,我個仔落校車都係甩甩漏漏,底褲同面褲卷埋一住,衫又有顏色筆,真係成個街童咁款.

原帖由 丫頭 於 10-7-31 23:54 發表
小朋友既自理問題.......

記得我對子女讀k1時每日都是齊齊整整出門口，放學時總是狼狼狽狽的背著書包，頸掛圖書袋甩甩漏漏的，一手拿勞作，一手拿外套披頭散髮的落校車，有時還發現回家時左右鞋是調轉了穿。   

見到佢地這樣 ...

丫頭

小朋友既自理問題.......

記得我對子女讀k1時每日都是齊齊整整出門口，放學時總是狼狼狽狽的背著書包，頸掛圖書袋甩甩漏漏的，一手拿勞作，一手拿外套披頭散髮的落校車，有時還發現回家時左右鞋是調轉了穿。   

見到佢地這樣子起初都會在想究竟學校有沒有老師or姨姨會幫忙整理一下他們，但諗深一層靠老師不如自己多訓練他們自理，多番提點相信問題好快可以解決的。

pollybell

謝謝erichkl 意見,可能小朋友第一年讀,所以唔太了解國際學校既背後理念,其實我唔係要求老師幫我個仔抹,無咁大想頭,心想俾提示佢就可以,但經其他媽咪既指教,我完全明白,佢背後既用意,我開心添,因為真係可以訓練佢獨立些唔太依賴其實係好事.

原帖由 erichkl 於 10-7-29 23:21 發表
我個女也是在國際幼稚園念書，現準備升讀小一，也是國際學校。 外國人對小朋友的自理能力要求比香港傳統學校高，但我覺得很正常，小朋友年在幼稚園年紀的變化很大，每一個月都可以看到明顯成長，如果只是流鼻涕不干凈，我覺得不用 ...

[ 本帖最後由 pollybell 於 10-7-30 11:43 編輯 ]

erichkl

我個女也是在國際幼稚園念書，現準備升讀小一，也是國際學校。 外國人對小朋友的自理能力要求比香港傳統學校高，但我覺得很正常，小朋友年在幼稚園年紀的變化很大，每一個月都可以看到明顯成長，如果只是流鼻涕不干凈，我覺得不用太緊張，你看老外帶他們小朋友去公園玩都不會很管他們，不難看到就算小朋友在地上打滾和爬高、爬低，他們都不會管。  我覺得最重要是你的小朋友在幼稚園念書有沒有進步，他自己喜歡上學還是很怕上學，在定期家長會裏，你通過問老師問題就可以知道他們究竟有沒有留意你的小朋友，這才是最重要。
如你真的很在意老師有沒有替你的小鵬擦鼻涕的話，你可以寫在手冊裏，不過我覺得99% 他們都不會這樣做，這是衛生問題，試想如老師幫A 同學擦完後又跟 B同學擦，然後又跟C同學擦，你會否覺得有無問題嗎？ 就算他們擦完後洗手，一天花在擦鼻涕的時間可以很多！ 在感冒高峰的季節超過半數同學都帶傷風、感冒上學一點都不奇怪，無理由老師要這樣做。 最實際都是教小朋友自理，不用擔心，他們很快會學好的，這就是人生，不同階段要應付不同的問題。

原帖由 pollybell 於 10-7-28 21:06 發表
我個仔識抹但此終好求其,抹一兩下就算,有時顧住玩流都唔理,有時又順手用手抹,一抹咪成面都係羅,我都有放條毛巾在褲袋叫佢自己抹,但此終要提羅.

[ 本帖最後由 erichkl 於 10-7-29 23:25 編輯 ]

pollybell

你咁講我就放心好多,唔該晒你.

原帖由 oooray 於 10-7-29 15:38 發表

我細個件都係G6PD。舊年(3歲)做過；冇異樣。今年又黎。第一劑做完亦冇異樣。
人人體質唔同，要自行評估風險。唔敢介紹做定唔做；自己就響仁濟(長沙灣政府合署)做；但佢地話有小量"麻黃"(定唔知乜野...唔記得左...總之係G6PD ...

Mighty

原帖由 oooray 於 10-7-29 05:07 發表
Hi pollybell,
Have u heard 天灸?. non-intrusive treatment, just stick some medicines on the back for 20 minutes for children (only itchy itchy itchy). I thought it was a silly treatment before but it  ...

今年就MISSED　左個TIMING,因第一次要在７月１９日！！　第２次就是今日AH！！

oooray

原帖由 pollybell 於 10-7-29 11:57 發表
謝謝oooray你好心呀,我有聽過,但我小朋友有蠶豆証(G6PD),中藥唔知得唔得,可否介紹你個中醫俾我,我想問清楚先試.

我細個件都係G6PD。舊年(3歲)做過；冇異樣。今年又黎。第一劑做完亦冇異樣。
人人體質唔同，要自行評估風險。唔敢介紹做定唔做；自己就響仁濟(長沙灣政府合署)做；但佢地話有小量"麻黃"(定唔知乜野...唔記得左...總之係G6PD要忌食o既野)；問d醫師一個話今年改左方一個又話冇改...唔知信邊個...但心諗又唔係食落肚咪博一博...加上個衰仔有asthma底...鼻水倒流又易引起支氣管炎再引發asthma...

Yau_Cheung

可考慮比小朋友keep住游水，對鼻敏感&氣管敏感好有幫助。

pollybell

謝謝oooray你好心呀,我有聽過,但我小朋友有蠶豆証(G6PD),中藥唔知得唔得,可否介紹你個中醫俾我,我想問清楚先試.

原帖由 oooray 於 10-7-29 10:07 發表
Hi pollybell,
Have u heard 天灸?. non-intrusive treatment, just stick some medicines on the back for 20 minutes for children (only itchy itchy itchy). I thought it was a silly treatment before but it  ...

oooray

Hi pollybell,
Have u heard 天灸?. non-intrusive treatment, just stick some medicines on the back for 20 minutes for children (only itchy itchy itchy). I thought it was a silly treatment before but it really works for my children. Runny nose symptom greatly improved.

pollybell

謝謝lottieclee你既意見,我會努力再訓練佢.

原帖由 lottieclee 於 10-7-28 21:45 發表


My son is the same way.  It's just a way to teach the child to be independent.  The school has asked to me keep him out of school for the first time and called my helper to take him home.  Then I to ...

lottieclee

原帖由 pollybell 於 10-7-28 21:06 發表
我個仔識抹但此終好求其,抹一兩下就算,有時顧住玩流都唔理,有時又順手用手抹,一抹咪成面都係羅,我都有放條毛巾在褲袋叫佢自己抹,但此終要提羅.

My son is the same way.  It's just a way to teach the child to be independent.  The school has asked to me keep him out of school for the first time and called my helper to take him home.  Then I told the class teacher that he's coughing because of the post-nasal drip caused by allergies.  But I have been treating him the same way at home, he has to ask for a tissue or tell us that he needs his nose wiped if he has a runny nose.  Otherwise it stays the same way at home.  If you want him to take the tissue out and wipe it at school, then you would have to stop doing it for him at home too.. and let him know that it's yukie to let it running down to the lips.

I know it's hard and doesn't seem to hygienic to begin with, but children don't really like their nose running either.. he will learn he would have to do it himself.

gardenwoods

另外仲有著衫多與少也是一個大考驗...無論夏天或冬天，除非你孩子很怕熱/大汗，一般本地人會寧願著多少少...因為夏天室內冷氣凍、冬天刮大風(室外)...但外國籍的老師一般認為小朋友要鍛鍊身體，不能動輒便穿厚/大衣...

原帖由 pollybell 於 10-7-28 21:01 發表
謝謝gardenwoods既分享,真係睇倒O晒嘴,你講得好0岩真係要適應下,有時真係估佢唔倒.

pollybell

我個仔識抹但此終好求其,抹一兩下就算,有時顧住玩流都唔理,有時又順手用手抹,一抹咪成面都係羅,我都有放條毛巾在褲袋叫佢自己抹,但此終要提羅.

原帖由 BabaTed 於 10-7-28 20:50 發表
恕我直言, 其實教2-3歲的小孩子抹鼻涕不會太難, 最初跟他一起試, 示範給他看, 也請他做, 做多幾次小孩子便會做到了........問題是通常家長貪快幫了他們, 又看不過眼他們抹不乾淨/ 不理, 所以孩子更加習慣了有鼻水也 ...

pollybell

謝謝gardenwoods既分享,真係睇倒O晒嘴,你講得好0岩真係要適應下,有時真係估佢唔倒.

原帖由 gardenwoods 於 10-7-28 19:44 發表
無錯，國際學校就是這樣教育的....我囝讀了一年，我還在適應當中...其實無話誰對誰錯的...只不過既然我們選了國際學校的教學方式，同時亦要接受他們在其他方面的教導方法...我想，你小朋友的學校跟我囝的差不多...老師一般要 ...