試升小二或留班？

MrsFung

我仔讀私校小一，有發展遲緩問題(遲6-9個月發展),剛考完試，主科 中、英 得約40分，數學6x分。
而其他科成績都係緊緊合格。因主科2科不合格，學校比我考慮佢留班或試升，但學校話如我選試升小二，到小二時主科還是2科不合格就一定要留班。
我好矛盾，究竟我繼續每月交差不多$6000學費比佢試讀還是如果我轉津校升小二，將果幾千蚊用作私人補習及報讀有關語文課程好。 大家有無意見比我？

生氣

你囝囝真是有發展遲緩問題，你不如找一間合適他的小學 P.2，因為私校很少(十卜)給你的孩子。

daisy17772

Did you take your child for diagnosis and from that you knew he had delay?  If this piece of info is confirmed, you should really consider to switch him to another school or keep him at P1.  Furthermore, apart from development delay, have you further looked into details if there're any other factors hinder him?  e.g. the teaching approach, the language etc.?  
It's not just about HKD6000 tuition fee, it's about whether the school fits his development.  No matter how famous or good is the school, your child's development is more important than staying at a school just for fame.  I always believe, more important is if a child has been given a fit environment for him/her to develop talents.

Before you switch him to another school, you may need to understand how that particular school supports students with development delay.  IT's important.  Some schools don't deal with these cases, so don't waste your time there.

Last, try to understand what cause him the delay, it's environment related factors, or factors that relates to his mentality or physical development.  These should help you to understand how you could support him, e.g. the necessary exercises and activities that deal with his problems.

MrsFung

我仔K2時做過評估，係言語及理解力遲緩。佢無過度活躍，只係有專注力不足。
現在KEEP住在政府上語言治療。
我會明天試搵屋企附近合適的學校。 我會搵老師受特殊訓練比率高的學校。

原帖由 daisy17772 於 11-6-28 21:41 發表
Did you take your child for diagnosis and from that you knew he had delay?  If this piece of info is confirmed, you should really consider to switch him to another school or keep him at P1.  Furthermo ...

easybring

方向正確. support!

原帖由 MrsFung 於 11-6-28 22:04 發表
我仔K2時做過評估，係言語及理解力遲緩。佢無過度活躍，只係有專注力不足。
現在KEEP住在政府上語言治療。
我會明天試搵屋企附近合適的學校。 我會搵老師受特殊訓練比率高的學校。


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MrsFung

今日問左屋企附近幾間學校都無位,叫我年尾再問, 佢地未睇我仔成績表，連殺校都話無位,點算？

kikiboy

原帖由 MrsFung 於 11-6-29 11:47 發表
今日問左屋企附近幾間學校都無位,叫我年尾再問, 佢地未睇我仔成績表，連殺校都話無位,點算？

唔好放棄, 繼續搵, 你小朋友私校都入到證明佢係唔差, 可能係唔適合佢讀啫, 必要時跨區.
或者你講吓邊區, 睇呢度有冇媽咪幫到你?

[ 本帖最後由 kikiboy 於 11-6-29 13:07 編輯 ]

瑩瑩老豆

那當初為何報讀該私校 ?

原帖由 MrsFung 於 11-6-28 19:11 發表
我仔讀私校小一，有發展遲緩問題(遲6-9個月發展),剛考完試，主科 中、英 得約40分，數學http://adex.baby-kingdom.com/www ... d=581&cb=11106x分。
而其他科成績都係緊緊合格。因主科2科不合格，學校 ...

MrsFung

條路行錯左？ 諗唔到我仔上到小學會咁差。
我唔覺學校有問題，係我仔資質有問題。

原帖由 瑩瑩老豆 於 11-6-29 15:09 發表
那當初為何報讀該私校 ?

virginia2004

你個問題同我個女一樣,佢小二時老師給她試升,唉!又如何, 她科科唔合格,個人無晒自信,結果小三終於留班, 個年我自己都好唔開心. 其實經過一年時間, 比個小朋友有番自信心, 她科科都有70-80分, 今年小四, 我見佢成績大有進步,有番自信心, 佢成績都有70分以上,我都好開心,
所以留班都未必唔好, 如你經濟許可, 應原校就讀.

[ 本帖最後由 virginia2004 於 11-6-29 16:14 編輯 ]

itbaby

你小朋友可以搵間小學係參加了"融合教育"的學校,令小朋友一樣可入讀一般的小學,而在校的老師更有部份會有這方面的知識.

你睇吓以下條 link 幫唔幫到你,或者搵學校社工幫手都可以的.

http://www.edb.gov.hk/index.aspx?nodeid=2524&langno=2

easybring

無話錯唔錯, 要睇學校有幾多支援. 如果唔夾學校方向, 都要再搵.

原帖由 MrsFung 於 11-6-29 15:15 發表
條路行錯左？ 諗唔到我仔上到小學會咁差。
我唔覺學校有問題，係我仔資質有問題。

AAma

私校無support, 小朋友讀上去都好辛苦,我有朋友仔仔都係咁, 讀私校, 成績差, 但好難找學校, 或者要跨區.  不過事在人為, 唔好放棄.

Namson

我小朋友同妳小朋友一樣大,同樣有言語及理解問題,所以我k1已經比佢留左一年班,因為我驚佢跟唔上同齡的小朋友,雖然依家言語同理解都唔係話好好,但成績每科都可以考到八九十分.由於我讀津校,所以政府轉介返係學校上言語治療咁就方便好多.所以留一年其實都唔係壞事. 另外如果妳搵唔到津校有學位,妳可以打去教育署幫妳查下有邊間學校有位喎.

原帖由 MrsFung 於 11-6-28 22:04 發表
我仔K2時做過評估，係言語及理解力遲緩。佢無過度活躍，只係有專注力不足。
現在KEEP住在政府上語言治療。
我會明天試搵屋企附近合適的學校。 我會搵老師受特殊訓練比率高的學校。


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MrsFung

如果咁情況，津校會有什麼支援這類小朋友？
我仔其實每月在政府上一次言語治療，我沒有再報其他訓練課程，因為每小時計錢，好貴。

原帖由 Namson 於 11-6-29 17:22 發表
我小朋友同妳小朋友一樣大,同樣有言語及理解問題,所以我k1已經比佢留左一年班,因為我驚佢跟唔上同齡的小朋友,雖然依家言語同理解都唔係話好好,但成績每科都可以考到八九十分.由於我讀津校,所以政府轉介返係學校上言 ...

mamee

原帖由 MrsFung 於 11-6-29 18:25 發表
如果咁情況，津校會有什麼支援這類小朋友？
我仔其實每月在政府上一次言語治療，我沒有再報其他訓練課程，因為每小時計錢，好貴。

我覺得轉去津校好, 一來你可以用私校那$6,000去上堂, 二來照計津校課程應該比私校淺一些. 加油, 希望你早日找到學校.

daisy17772

If the tuition fee paid to your private school doesn't actually help your child in the study, it's not worth the money.  You could make well use of that HKD6000 for your son's private speech therapist (once every month may be inadequate), therapist on reading and writing. All in all, make good use of your money on things that really help your son.  
Why don't you first search around on which schools' syllabus may be a bit easier, and offer assistance and support for your case.  So you need to change your topic to:  Which schools offer support to........ blah blah..is more appropriate now in your case.  Take actions!

Namson

情況跟政府一樣,有一個言語治療師每個月同小朋友訓練一次. 我都冇報其他訓練架!

原帖由 MrsFung 於 11-6-29 18:25 發表
如果咁情況，津校會有什麼支援這類小朋友？
我仔其實每月在政府上一次言語治療，我沒有再報其他訓練課程，因為每小時計錢，好貴。

cornelius

It seems a right decision to look for a place in government aided schools for your kid.  Go and get help from the Education Bureau and see what they can offer you.

God bless your family!

原帖由 MrsFung 於 11-6-28 19:11 發表
我仔讀私校小一，有發展遲緩問題(遲6-9個月發展),剛考完試，主科 中、英 得約40分，數學http://adex.baby-kingdom.com/www/delivery/avw.php?bannerid=581&cb=11106x分。
而其他科成績都係緊緊合格。因主科2科不合格，學校 ...

pocoyo123

你住邊區呢, 我小朋友明年上小一, 問題差不多, 手上已有些學校資料, 比你睇下OK 唔OK