上小學後變得好無自信!!自覺樣樣及不上!!!

ve111

現在好怕站出來說話.....想喊!!其他小朋友覺佢好BB, 因喊!!
鼓勵又試過!佢話真係好驚!!駡又試過!
都唔知點做!!現在報了口才COURSE , 希望幫到佢!!

Meikin

我咁大個都怕在其他人面前站出來說話, 何況是初小學生呢.

俾孩子多些豉勵, 但不要強迫佢; 又或帶佢多參加一些群體活動, 等佢習慣吓多人, 多點與不同的人相處和溝通, 等佢慢慢建立多些自信,   又或者豉勵佢怕或唔想出來說話, instead of 喊, 佢可以直接話俾老師知佢怕或佢唔想.

記得阿仔小一開學初期, 學校有一星期是可以容許父母到課室陪食飯的, 我即使要返工, 也在食lunch時由公司趕去了一次, 留了10分鐘.  期間見到一位長得又高又肥的男仔, 突然由座位走出去抱著班主任, 然後高聲痛哭說:"我媽咪今日沒有來".  其實那時大半班學生都有家長陪, 那男仔也是同我個仔同一幼稚園升上來的, 所以記憶很深......之後聽阿仔講, 個位肥仔成日都好易喊, 不過到二年級就好咗好多了, 可能熟習了環境和同學呢.

ve111

She is p2 now!!最慘1、2年级同一班同學，他們認定她是喊！！

Haz-mama

呀女K1時都有d怕醜, 自從(K2時)幫佢報讀咗d乜乜訓練班, 可能接觸人多咗, 到了K2下學期已經變得好多嘢講, 依家學埋話劇, 已經不再害羞了!!

ve111

最大件事佢從小都大胆的，上了小學自卑了！可否介紹什麼course

huba

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Don't bother to look for any course, please find out the cause of change first. There should be reason(s) for your daughter losing confidence.

hoihoima

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ve111, have you evaluated what is the route cause for her losing self-confidence?  E.g.

- Did you provide sufficient support to her in adapting to the primary school life?  
- Does she always get low marks in school work?  If yes, what is the reason?  Did you accompany her doing revision and teach her all the skills (e.g. understand question, check after finish doing homework, etc.)?  
- Does she always forget to bring things to school and so she has poor self-image at school?  If yes, can she write her handbook and pack school bag properly?  
etc.

No one can suggest any "course" or solution to you until you know what is the route cause of the issue.

Happie

How about to discuss with the class teacher to understand more about her situation in school

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原帖由 ve111 於 12-09-21 發表
She is p2 now!!最慘1、2年级同一班同學，他們認定她是喊！！

可能就係家長同同學仔都成日話佢喊話佢細膽，所以佢就會認定自己係細膽、比人弱。你試下多啲鼓勵佢，溫柔地同佢講信任佢，同佢洗腦，等佢喺你身上搵番啲安全感同自信。暫時唔好特登要佢企出嚟說話，或者搵course比佢上啦，否則只係更加強調佢嘅弱點。

micky06

我的女兒都是這樣,好細膽.天生諗野好負面.即使鼓勵都無信心!我最近用祈禱的方法..求天父賜佢力量...都可以喎!(我本身無宗教信仰)