邊間大學愉快學習，活動教學，又唔谷? - 備戰大學

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你地好可愛......

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阿女咪做梗剩女

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vincher 自由! 發表於 12-9-30 23:40

Yanamami 我唔鍾意呢個term"剩女". 有學識, 有厚職, 有一大班朋友, 不知幾開心. 唔洗無稱搵個砣, 同人"湊仔". 發表於 12-9-26 20:47

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I always see these kind of funny questions like (less effort wanna become good achiever)in the other sub-forum. Those parents' kids age usually range from 3 to 12. Once their kids enter to secondary, they no longer trust on the "myth". THEN, they realise they find that out too late.............

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chunyatmama I agree that most if not all the parents of this type will find out that its too good to be true. 發表於 12-9-27 09:34

eviepa 我肯定是個例外。由女兒小學開始鼓吹愉快學習，到今天她讀中五，依然絕大部分課餘時間用作玩樂，但成績卻越來越好。愉快、有效並不一定排斥。發表於 12-9-26 23:10

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ZZdaphne 發表於 12-9-26 19:08
你地好可愛......

我地都想你做版主開心些，少些火藥味，多些人情味，無為而治。

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

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khmama 發表於 12-9-26 19:17
阿女咪做梗剩女

唔好咁講，女大十八變。

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courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

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希望阿仔做到3都唔錯........

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annie40 今天的女孩子好叻, 应该不难有位医生女友發表於 12-9-27 11:59

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Yanamami 我唔鍾意呢個term"剩女". 有學識, 有厚職, 有一大班朋友, 不知幾開心. 唔洗無稱搵個砣, 同人"湊仔". 發表於 21 分鐘前

希望D女仔唔好咁諗啦。係就慘了，我仔注定做＂剩男＂

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Yanamami

可以北上..... 發表於 12-9-26 22:03

快樂的家庭，孕育快樂的孩子；快樂的童年，成就幸福的人生。

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ANChan59 發表於 12-9-26 13:37
For Science stream, it's too board, you may need to consider Chemistry, Biology, Physics, Computing ...

AnChan, thanks. This is very informative.

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"Mixed" 既 BB 可爱的bor

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Yanamami 仲講生BB? 佢自己仲係BB. 發表於 12-9-27 07:36

快樂的家庭，孕育快樂的孩子；快樂的童年，成就幸福的人生。

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近排都有大學生頂唔順功課一死了之, 大學生可能都要爭取愉快學習, 不用做功課考試

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回覆：邊間大學愉快學習，活動教學，又唔谷

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想入就入，唔使考試！學好又得，學壞亦可！活動教學，谷唔谷，適隨尊便！

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Snakemama 唔想入都要入

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Yanamami 成世人為超人打工都上唔到車, 谷死呀~~~ 發表於 12-9-27 07:35

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Last night, I talked to my hubby about this topic. Both of us are U graduates. He graduated from the U in US and I graduated from HKU. Both of us agreed that in the old days, most of the parents were not really care about how and what we were studying. As long as we were on the right track, they were fine. Now, being a parent is such a challenging task. We got to be their friends; their education consultant; career development counsellor, etc.

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Match maker, financial adviser, fire fighter........ Finally, Monster or Helicopter parents.....

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Shootastar It is really true! 發表於 12-9-27 10:15

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ANChan59 發表於 12-9-27 10:02
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Match maker, financial adviser, fire fighter........ Finally, Monster or He ...

haha, that's why the second part of the conversation with my hubby was how to strike a balance and avoid to be a Monster or Helicopter parent

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Any conclusion or suggestion to share your second part of conversation?

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We actually keep reviewing our ways in raising our kids. As said, they are really young (just one at 5 and one at 3). We always discuss about the good and bad examples like those fighting on the starting line, coaching those at three to do spelling and those good parents how to hint their kids to review their lives and set targets when they are still young....

I am sure you will agree that there is no strict formular. We keep reviewing and reminding ourselves. You know what my hubby was a naughty kid when he was young. He failed two times in HKCEE. He started all over his life when he went to US for high school which changed his whole life. Thus, he has strong view on local education system. And he knows what the naughty kids are thinking

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annie40 my hubby was same. He was a little monster and got expelled 5 times in primary school stage. 發表於 12-9-27 12:56

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Let us know the naughty kids thinking!

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This is a boring story actually.

He was labelled as a bad kid when he was young as just liked to play and play with bad academic result.  Actually, he was not bad but just playful.  He was not interested in studying as he could not cope with the syllabus.  The local education system is just about quick and quick plus memorise everything.  If the foundation is not good, one cannot build anything on.  The tolerance or assistant provided under the local education system for slow / slower learner is not sufficient.  While his parents are very traditional, i.e. scold and beating him very often because he was playful.

The more he lagged behind, the more he was not interested in studying, go on and so on......  Actually, he has a clear mind that he loves taking pictures and drawing.  His friends were bad guys but he knew that he could not like those guys.

After he failed two times in HKCEE, he moved to San Fran to start all over again from High School (there is another interesting story behind), the teachers and the education system there did provide him help.  He went to US with 26 alphabets and "he is", "she is" and nothing more.  However, due to the caring teachers and the assists provided he picked up all English in just a year!

There are too many stories in between.  Anyway, he is an Architect by now and I would say his English is far better than mine.  Also, his analytical power is very high.

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cstchan Should be "There are 26 letters in the English alphabet.". 發表於 12-10-4 21:22

cstchan There are 26 letters in the English alphabets. 發表於 12-10-4 21:21

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There is one thing he always remind my sisters. Don't keep scolding the kids. The more you scold to the kid, the more the kid will shut their ears. Be consist in all kinds of incidents.