剛四歲, 學鋼琴時, 家長會在旁嗎?還是讓他獨個兒上鋼琴課?

bebebe12345

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最貼身媽咪之一.....
不單學琴、還有練琴、再加音樂會..............!

rinarina

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我地間琴行, 係歡迎家長陪上堂或錄影, 不額外收費的! (因本身得半小時已收$300大元) 所以我才想請教大家怎樣看陪上堂這件事。當然目標係小孩子大些少時能獨自上堂吧。

其實小兒只得四歲，他試過多次不用我陪上堂，也上得開心，都不會怕。只不過我是考慮到成效問題。看完了大家的comment, 我打算會sit in，至少可以在平日與他傾下學琴既野，讓他有機會加深記憶。

至於陪到幾多歲，我也不知道。我相信，老師們會告訴我，也不用我考慮了。

munce

I also sit in. He learns what, I learn what.
At home, when he practices, I also sit in and I can help him whenever he encounters any difficulties.
I never learn piano during my childhood, but I enjoy learning with my son together.
The piano teacher told me, if you help your kid at home with his English, Chinese and Maths. Why not for piano? They are equally difficult for a 4 year old kid.

munce

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Rinarina,

For your information, my elder daughter also learns piano, but at music centre, and I never sit in (not allowed).

As a result, her progress is very slow. She is 3 years older than my son. She learns piano for 2.5 years now and my son learns 1.5 years now. But now they are using the Same piano book !! My son is just 20 pages slower than my daughter !

bebebe12345

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好好開始去陪伴孩子、一星期才三十分鐘、遲些才一小時,這時候的孩子最需要你,對你來說也是難得的樂趣。一段時間或許知道多了,要求也許不同。能一路陪伴越久,得著自是越多,可以預期。就是有何不妥也能早一點作改變。