Upset:my friend is still holding 3 schools

greenlover

對學校產生歸屬感，對老師敬愛，與朋友建立友誼，不是一兩星期匆忙去做的事。

loveDD

greenlover 發表於 13-7-15 12:36
這裡有幾個觀點：
第一，小朋友叻同家長自唔自私無關。早一日放位就早一日有另一個家庭開心放暑假。
第二， ...

同意第一點，小朋友叻同家長自私係兩回事，我都贊成!
至於第二，當然學校有權選擇等或唔等，我亦知有學校用你說的方法都處理，我只是說當學校選擇等，理由可能會是唔想只因為一個月而白白放走個好學生!

第三，可能是，亦可能不是，但總好過只是聽了簡介會或其他人的意見而去作決定吧!   不過，請不要誤會我是幫那些家長說好說話!

ramuza

SORRY if this post has offended anybody. my intention of this post, is to tell those including me who still has no offer, we need to wait a bit longer.  i am as frustrated as you all!! that they are holding the seats. i am not in the position to persuade this parent, as i am waiting list for spcc as well. i am sure that those who still holding the seats have their different concerns, and they shouold know that lots of us are still waiting for news.... add oil everyone!!!!

loveDD

ramuza 發表於 13-7-15 14:15
SORRY if this post has offended anybody. my intention of this post, is to tell those including me wh ...

if your child is in the waiting list of spcc, then your child must be very smart, and i think you must be a smart parent too.   don't be so upset, if you cannot achieve your target at this moment, then try to lower your expectation, enjoy your daily happy life, enjoy the summer holiday with your kid!
life is hard, play hard!  add oil!

baekdoosan

我聽說過幾年前某A名幼有6名學生同時hold住B名小和C名小, 至9月開學後才一齊放C名小. 結果往後C名小不再取錄A名幼學生(舊生家長除外).

以上純屬傳聞, 不會開名, 不會PM, 恕不回覆, 不喜請刪.

只想說出重點是: 在這個小一競爭艱難的時代, 雖然家長有權hold多間名小, 但當積德, 希望大家早日放位, 不要損人不利己(特別是有機會影響幼稚園師弟師妹日後入讀名小的機會.)

gatochat

selfish and crazy people!  

ramuza

He is smart boy. Daddy is old boys . Both parents are professors in medicine.

giselemama

原帖由 ramuza 於 13-07-15 發表
He is smart boy. Daddy is old boys . Both parents are professors in medicine.

i think i know who you are talking about, the boy goes to bremar hill, right?

Tsundis

原帖由 smellycat 於 13-07-14 發表
去年的確聽過有家長頭一個月隔日俾小朋友返DBS和St.Paul Co-ed

係，真人真事

chan_wingyee

Don't be upset. Stay positive and believe in your child.

小乖豬

greenlover 發表於 13-7-15 12:36
這裡有幾個觀點：
第一，小朋友叻同家長自唔自私無關。早一日放位就早一日有另一個家庭開心放暑假。
第二， ...

絕對同意你的說法! LoveDD似乎將論點扭曲了! 第一, 莫講話有3,4間頂級學校有offer, 就算只係1間呢D級數學校有offer, 個小朋友已經係叻! 個問題絕對唔係話佢地叻與唔叻. lovedd似乎就認為因為他們叻, 所以他們有rights去hold住咁多位慢慢左諗右諗, 他說的是自己的權利! 不在乎等緊位的大眾!

小乖豬

ramuza 發表於 13-7-15 15:59
He is smart boy. Daddy is old boys . Both parents are professors in medicine.

大家看看人地什麼背景? Daddy is old boys, both parents are medical professors! 我地唔係, 所以我地慢慢比多D心機等到9月是應該的! omg!

Isaacmommy

原帖由 小乖豬 於 13-07-15 發表
大家看看人地什麼背景? Daddy is old boys, both parents are medical professors! 我地唔係, 所以我地慢慢 ...

我覺得家長要時間考慮和搜集資料是可以理解的，但最多去到七月尾八月頭都應决定了。

pandabonita

好心快D放啦！施比受更為有福，何況他們係醫生！

loveDD

小乖豬 發表於 13-7-15 21:27
絕對同意你的說法! LoveDD似乎將論點扭曲了! 第一, 莫講話有3,4間頂級學校有offer, 就算只係1間呢D級數學校 ...

看來大家是有點誤會了我的意思!  如果大家可以再看看我#62和#64所說的話，便知我是不認同那位家長的做法，另外， 我意思是說學校或許會因為小朋友真的很出眾而願意等下果位家長用一個月嘅時間去作決定，我是嘗試站在校方角度去睇，當然大家都可以說咁做校方同果位家長都很自私，但我說出觀點並不等於話認同小朋友叻，家長便就乘勢可以迫學校去等或屈服!

greenlover

說實話，dbs 同 co-ed 都是頂級，是但入一間都吾會衰得去边。再講考得入呢2間都係叻仔，入到边間都會讀得好。一D都吾需要考慮甘耐。

loveDD

greenlover 發表於 13-7-16 14:37
說實話，dbs 同 co-ed 都是頂級，是但入一間都吾會衰得去边。再講考得入呢2間都係叻仔，入到边間都會讀得好 ...

或許，你同我都覺得咁諗係正確，但人地係醫生，在職業上可能覺得要有"臨床數據"，先可以下結論!

greenlover

moreover, if his daddy is old boy, then he will know very well of one of the school, for the other school, as a medical professor, i believe his network must have colleagues graduated from the other school and can get very detailed info and comments about it.

loveDD

greenlover 發表於 13-7-16 14:42
moreover, if his daddy is old boy, then he will know very well of one of the school, for the other s ...

做得Professor，年紀相信都唔會係十八廿二，正所謂十年人事幾番新，唔知位professor離開左母校又有幾多個十年呢?  而且一家唔知一家事，阿爸係old boy但唔代表係家裡話事果個~~