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本帖最後由 jolalee 於 15-3-3 13:32 編輯
bobbycheung 發表於 15-2-27 19:02
如果擔心自己個細路只混埋d Chinese 度玩, 其實都唔駛驚啦, 就算全校一半係 Chinese, 玩得埋嘅咪都只係嗰十個八個, 仲有全校幾佰個外國人選擇. 返過來說, 就算全校只得10個 Chinese, 你個仔係要鍾個頭埋去只同佢地玩, 結果都係死㗎.
You are absolutely correct. Originally my ideal school is one without a dominant ethnic group so that i hope the kids can mix and play together freely. (When a certain group dominates, kids tend to "seek out their own kind" a bit more.) In the end you are right though, it is a matter of choice by the child him/herself.
Anyhow i avoided the very Caucasian schools due to my bad experience as a child, and figuring that if the expats are seeking schools with very little Asian population, they are the type who'd rather not mix with us (although our family speaks native/ near native English) and i don't want my child to be singled out in school. Parents who let their children go to a school with more Chinese in it are usually more open and willing to arrange play dates with all ethnic groups (and i was right: last year in his kindie in DBay he had only one birthday invite from another Chinese boy, but this year he has been going to every male classmates' bday party, of all ethnicity).
Just so happens that this topic is at the back of my mind while i was making some school visits both within my son's current school plus another one, and here's my observation (of junior high & high school students):
After school activity in the visiting school-- (less then 50% Chinese)
- Caucasians dominates the school's track and field, while Asians (Chinese?) dominates the badminton court -- very very distinctively.
During lunch break in my son's current school-- (50-60% Chinese)
- Boys all mixed and play together in the soccer field
- Girls are gathered in their own cliques: the Caucasian gymnastics group, the chatty Chinese girls, and the mixed Asian group.
I am not drawing any conclusion here as i don't have any :) (and probably not sufficient data)
Again, language is not our issue as i have taught my son to speak near native level English & Chinese (thanks to the advice from fellow parents on EK here; big hugs!!) and he is picking up Mando nicely from school & from tuition. I just want my son to have a good childhood with friends from around the world, so that he can adapt well when he is away from home (wherever he'd end up 14 years from now ).
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