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I think stories are good for kids, and you are doing good to him using stories for small kids as long as he is interested and willing to engage with you on the stories. My two kids also enjoy the stories, but they have their own preferences than my choice sometimes, using their stories to teach them emotions, feelings is pretty effective .
Try to get familiar with him on feeling words in children's langague, such as "嬲", "傷心", "唔明", "驚" etc..
Every time in handling "small kid" (not for bigger ones), I will use the following three steps: ABC
1) A-Address feelings = mom see that you are angry, or sad, confused etc...
2) B- The behavior is not allowable= this need to be stop as this will affect other people or hurt other people or destroy .....xx
c) C- Choice for the child: = stop this behavior or facing "punishment" e.g. time out or any other things that will made him stop
If he decided to choose the punishment, then you have to be consistent, the punishment can be time out, can be withdraw something from him..
You can modified with your own words to suit your family culture. I use this for kids below 6, and long term effect is good, don't expect short term outcome.
This has to be persistent and consistent in order to get a long term effect..
Outcome:
1) kids learn about emotions, more easier to verbalize, then as a mom you are able to identify what's happening behind these feelings.
2) kids know he has choice and learn to discipline through choices...
原帖由 萬樂豬 於 11-11-9 00:44 發表
我係用睇圖書講比佢聽....點解要珍惜水呀, 點解可以浪費呀, 點解唔可以蝦人呀....我希望透過圖書令佢明白...不過, 成效不大, 但我會堅持, 因為...佢總有明白一日...
MOTHEROTK 先謝過你的分享 ^^
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[ 本帖最後由 motherotk 於 11-11-9 08:13 編輯 ] |
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