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BELL, thank you for your welcome. 
I can understand the busy thinking, planing situation and stress you have when moving home. Just thinking about what to keep and what not is a headache. Yes, unexpected money spending that also add up your stress. I understand the situation because I have been there many times. My family moved once about every 2 or 3 years. At first, not counting my childhood, only my husband and I. That is the most easiest move. Then, we move with my parents (2 more people to take care of, think about and to communicate with). The communication part with my parents added up a tone of stress on us. Then, we added our first born into our moving and then added in the 2nd born at last time. Now, I do not want to move again especially with a special need nw. After the moving, you still need a period of time to settle down in your new neighborhood comfortably, such as need to think about where to get what often until these become a habit of your routine. Yes, there is a saying like this,"Moving from upper house to lower house, loss a bucket of grain" ma! 
About your ar "nue nue" (Man Kee)'s cavity teeth, did you brushing her teeth regularly? My nw's teeth is almost all there, I think. We just start brushing her teeth every day either in a laying down position or sitting up on a supported high chair. I hope she will not develop any cavity. We have not brought her to see any dentist yet. I don't know how efficient it is when we brush her teeth. She likes to chew on the tooth brush. Anyway, I hope your ar "nue" will not have any more cavity teeth.
SupperFish,
I am sure God will take a good care of Long Long and our cp children too. Even as a parents, we may leave before them but God is good and Just as what He said or promise in the book of Isaiah 46:3b-4 "...
You who have been borne by Me from birth
And have been carried from the womb;
4Even to your old age I will be the same,
And even to your graying years I will bear you!
I have done it, and I will carry you;
And I will bear you and I will deliver you."
以 賽 亞 書 46 : 3-4(Chinese Union Version (Traditional))
3...你 們 自 從 生 下 ， 就 蒙 我 保 抱 ， 自 從 出 胎 ， 便 蒙 我 懷 搋 。
4 直 到 你 們 年 老 ， 我 仍 這 樣 ； 直 到 你 們 髮 白 ， 我 仍 懷 搋 。 我 已 造 作 ， 也 必 保 抱 ； 我 必 懷 抱 ， 也 必 拯 救 。
What you said just like what my husband told me when I am at the moment of worrying about how nw's life would be if both of us are gone to the heavenly home.
Beside, this is one of the reason we do not mind to have one more child after nw. We do not want our oldest daughter bare the full burden on taking care of nw's special need when we may not able to in the future. This way, at least she has a sibling to discuss with this matter and share some load with her. Well, if the next one has cp again, then he/her have nw to company with. I know, it is so ar Q. But since God gave us this 3rd one (we do not actively want one at this time), He must have his good will in it and it will be a wonderful gift from God again.
Take care, all of you.
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發表於 08-1-12 10:10
I hope your ar B will do better soon on whatever that might bother him and cause his long lasting and loud crying. It must be hard on both of you and ... 
HI ALL~~
and a kiss: 
After a few weeks of trying, it just did not work out for us. We moved her back to her bedroom which she shared with her sister. We depends on God to protect her sleep safely through every night. Then, we may also sleep with peace again. 
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But we can not have 2 sisters share with one bedroom any more. Because, when nw cries once a while, that stir up her sister and she cry too. 
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用普通话洴音法也很慢。
