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本帖最後由 honeybunny8 於 23-8-28 10:40 編輯
回覆 lyfox 的帖子
"张三丰只有一两个,而到处都是灭绝师太,漫山遍野都是史火龙。"
This is so true, and a good illustration of confirmation bias. In life, people who are like 灭绝师太 are usually not stupid. Actually, many of them are intelligent people, and that's why they're more capable of seeking / cherry-picking information that confirm their biased views.
I think parents on EK, including myself, are at the age that we've all got fully formed views. If we come to the forum just looking to reaffirm / defend our views, then we are actually not gaining anything. Instead of knowing the complete picture, maybe we're only holding pieces of the puzzle. And this forum is for different everyone to share their pieces so together we can form a better, more complete view.
And then I see some people who come to EK forum to attack others, to win debates. They feel superior by proving themselves right or others wrong. Or do they feel that this is the way to contribute to this forum? But, is it really so? Should we discourage people from voicing opinions just because those opinions don't conform to our knowledge / views?
Ultimately, decision-making is based on each individual (family)'s priorities. But being able to hear from different perspectives is key to helping members make more informed decisions. So I hope that instead of resorting to leaving snarky comments to people holding opposite views, we can share and listen with an open mind.
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