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Probbably the arguments come out from two completely different parenting positions and child development, like religion, very different value position.
Discipline/behavioral focused : focused on external stimulation and control, obvious outcome sometimes, quick results sometimes, fit for some kids and parents.
Self-reflective and self-directed motivation: focused on children's choice through the experiene of being respected, growth from within, long term and expect parents to wait, to accommodate, and to give space, rarely get quick fix...fit for some kids and some parents.., especially those who are more self-reflective ones, like to have self-talk, like to have more indepth reflections with self. |
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