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Re: 英華生打機被責跳樓死
eviepa 寫道:
1. 從前父母通常有數名子女,注意力分散,要罵的話也沒時間罵那麼久。
2. 從前孩子大都有出街的自由,所以無論中在家受到甚麼的對待,總有街外可作避難所,總有四方友好的認同,總可以暫時忘記痛楚,鬱結的心情也可以藉著遊戲宣泄出來,回家後可以怨氣全消。反觀今日,家家戶戶篷門深鎖,大有為的家長恨鐵不成鋼,對著孩子束手無策訴諸責罵時便有如籠牢困獸鬥,孩子的怨氣難以宣泄,日子久了,悲觀的情緒油然而生,悲劇便比以前容易發生。
Eviepa
Quite agree with pt 1, in our generation, we usually have many brothers and sisters, parents will scold and beat one by one, so we cried together and then play together again after some time. Now most families use all energies to supervise only 1 to 2 kids, so the pressure on the kid is much much higher!!
Besides, kids like to lock themselves in the virtual world more than going out now!
In the past, even we are just F5 graduates, we can survive quite well with a low end job, yet now there is no more such a way out. F5 graduates cannot find a decent job with good aspects. So expectation of parents become higher and higher and pressure on the kids also increase to much higher level. |
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