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Re: 英華生打機被責跳樓死
Just watch the movie "小孩不笨2", talking about a 15 year old boy and his younger brother, their parents are typical Chinese, always busy, no time to listen to kids, only ask them to study hard, stop them doing what they like (ICQ, talking on phone), scold them no matter what they do... his school also is typical traditional school, use punishment method, follow rules strictly, punish the kids publicly to make hime feel shameful...the boy finally joins those gangs to steal, rob ...
Have seen so many such stories... and so many kids just "jump" to end this... is it really so difficult to understand and communicate with our teenage kids????
Is it really "沒有教不會的孩子, 只有不會教的父母?" Why parents scold instead of praise the kids more and more when they grow up? I really feel that the relationship with teenage kids is becoming more and more "tense", the kids become more and more "silent" when they grow up, so this leads to so many tragedies ultimately! :cry: |
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