請問如何幫助子女作入學準備(幼稚園及playgroup)

Carmen

想知準備返幼稚園係咪要準備好多o野o架呢???應該點比定心理準備小朋友會好d呢???
我囝囝返左4個月playgroup都仲係好痴我,未能自己主動上堂,連去個廁所都唔比我走...我都唔知應該點同佢去返學好..

HuiTung

How old is he?  Have you considered sending him to nursery instead of playgroup?

Carmen

HuiTung 寫道:
How old is he?  Have you considered sending him to nursery instead of playgroup?

最初我係想先比佢參加playgroup(親子上堂)先,等佢習慣一下同小朋友一齊玩,上左兩個月度佢表現都幾好同好開心,之後我同佢報多個playgroup(自己上堂),諗住比佢試下自己上堂,但係返左一個月仲差左,就連之前佢鍾意上果個playgroup表現都差埋,於是今個月我就停左返第二個playgroup,幸好第一個playgroup個老師好注意佢o既情況,最近佢上堂表現稍為好番d,我都唔知好唔好再同佢報nursery,因為上第二個playgroup果段時間真係好恐怖,佢直頭返到屋企都唔比我離開佢視線範圍之內,一見唔到就喊得好緊要,連訓訓下覺都會喊醒... :-|

HuiTung

Carmen,

Do you mean you accompany with him in the 1st playgroup and leave him alone in the 2nd?  If so, you might be confusing him because he would think you should go with him in the 2nd, too!  He feels happy in the 1st because you are with him.

You did it right - stop the 2nd one.  Try to re-build his sense of security.  My son is shy and sensitive to new environment, too.  He joined some playgroups before going to the nursery.  He cried for a month (3 minutes each morning) in nursery.  Now he is jumpy every morning and will give his teacher a big hug if he's in good mood!   

Carmen

HuiTung,

多謝你咁詳細幫我分析呀...我停左報第二個playgroup最主要係因為我覺得d老師唔係好夠經驗,又覺得個仔好似特別抗拒果個老師咁...
我而家都搵緊d playgroup比佢去玩,希望搵d好少少,起碼老師要有經驗d可以好快緩和到佢o既情緒,第一個老師就做到呢點..