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I am undergoing the same difficult decision these days.
Complicating this problem is that it is not really a black and white decision. I already enrolled my kid to a DSS school and got out of the governmental system. Yet, DSS also have a broad spectrum to pick from.
I told my kid the same thing as you did. I agree parents are important in shaping value. Yet, to my dismay, I also got shaped by the environment too.
My 2 kids are now studying in a more "customer oriented" kindergarten. I see how they mingle with class mates, other parents, I sense something is wrong as they always go to fancy places and learn sports in a "lux" way. Yet, I cannot keep banning them from going and my wife agreed to this kind of activities. To take a step further, 2 yrs ago, I would think sending kids to $400/hr swiming class or English tutor was crazy. Now I got numb and am doing it.
I just hope to say we sometimes cannot overestimate our own firmness. Certain problems if can avoid, better avoid in the first place....
I am still debating on what school to go. Fame/brand can be a hard thing to resist. Being able to get in certain schools does feel good. Yet, is this vanity good enough to just let the kids just go blindly?
This is indeed a true gamble.
I am still confused....
Just sharing.
原帖由 smartmatt 於 09-11-27 12:47 發表
I agree with to some extent what you say. To a certain dilution of standards is inevitable when you have no control of the intake. When placement becomes rig for those connected and remaining are ... |
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