幼稚園挑選學生是否偏向全職媽媽嘅BB？

naanmom

經歷今次K1申請連環敗戰，係要認真諗諗要唔要放自己嘅棄事業同埋唔差嘅收入。。。。當然失敗有好多原因，但禁多07B，以後仲有排爭，輸多喺職業一樣有啲唔抵！

martse

原帖由 naanmom 於 09-12-6 00:12 發表
經歷今次K1申請連環敗戰，係要認真諗諗要唔要放自己嘅棄事業同埋唔差嘅收入。。。。當然失敗有好多原因，但禁多07B，以後仲有排爭，輸多喺職業一樣有啲唔抵！ ...

too early to quit your job.... you need money for the coming years to support your kid.... it just a beginning.  Maybe you try other kinder la...

martse

naanmom

Thank you martse.  Yup, I got one offer + a few in wait lists + a few yet to know result (not to mention those being rejected!).  Hope that more space will space will be released when 1st round of school formal registrations finished.  

In fact, I feel even more tired when being  reminded that it's just the beginning!  Right still have 2x years to go...omg!

ngmyan

naanmom,

I think that the major concern is not whether the child is taken care by a full time mom that the kinder will prefer more, it is a full time mom can have the full effort in taking care of the baby so that the baby can have a better development.

Usually for working mom, the responsibility in taking care of the baby is done by the maid, and we all know that only we are extremely lucky that a maid will help to help both taking care and teaching the baby as well.

During the interview, our baby is being assessed.  For a proper full time mom whom often teaches the baby then these babies should perform better.

原帖由 naanmom 於 09-12-6 00:28 發表
Thank you martse.  Yup, I got one offer + a few in wait lists + a few yet to know result (not to mention those being rejected!).  Hope that more space will space will be released when 1st round of sch ...

Eden_Chit

I'm a full time mom but my small boy still has no offer until now. So sad!

sp3014

其實唔係只為左BB升學，自己take care個BB各方面係會好好多架。我BB係1歲之前，我也是一個全職媽媽，職位屬於經理級，仲要係一個workaholic，但個BB懂性之後，我發覺管教佢時佢好似唔係好理我。同一番說話佢只會聽maid 同婆婆講(因為平日係佢地湊佢)。這令我決定quit左份工做全職媽媽。
我未quit 份工之前，同佢IN 維記PN，最後失敗左，今年IN SC ，成功左。我體會到因為我放多左時間，同個BB有多左默契，我相信呢個應該係一個幾重要的原因。呢D默契係一D有經驗的老師會feel到的。

湊仔其實比做野更加直接，回報更加直接，起碼無人事咁複雜，你放幾多時間，他們就會有幾咁聽你話。其實如果經濟唔係有太大問題，我寧願賺少D，去湊BB。因為當佢地大個，你有時間想同佢地溝通，建立關係時，佢地已經大個有自己的生活，可能已經唔比你加入佢地的生活囉。

我唔係否定所有working媽媽的成功，我相信也有很多成功的例子，這只係我呢兩年深切的感受同轉變想同大家分享。

naanmom

Oh Eden_Chit, don't be so upset, try Standford, I called, they still have openings in pm.  And they have small class size (20 but only 2 teachers).  Native teachers all along, except for 30 mins Cantonese everyday.  For PTH, they have two 15mins sessions every week.

naanmom

Thanks for sharing sp3014 and ngmyan.

I fully understand the benefits of being a full time mom but I also want to provide a more financially secured environment for my kid.  Hence, I have taken a mid way to become a part time consultant.  And I spend a lot of time in teaching BB and building itimacy.  In fact, I am very satisified with his development and he performed really well in some interview but still fair.  Hence, I started to think assuming that two kids perform equally well, the school will tend to select the one with a full time mom.