1st reject letter with broken heart!

milkonline2

I received the 1st reject letter from st paul boys, burst into tears and my heart is broken and getting hurt.  As my son is the top one adn presentable in the class.  He is extremely polite and good boy. Everyone around him said he is so smart and excellent so that's why I believe that's the truth.  And the main point is he loves St Paul Boys so much.  As he passed the school near everyday and he said he wants to study here in his primary school life.  Really depressed and can't stop my tears coming out........   I think I won't tell this cruel truth to him

I hope my lovely son can find a good school finally......

Charlotte_mom

唔好灰住, 如果真係咁鐘意, 又住得近, 俾我會"心口掛個勇字" 日日帶埋個仔去學校門口交叩門信, 你個仔咁謙謙有禮, 門口老師見多幾次都有好印象啦!
記住, 你係佢阿媽, 唔好覺得尷尬, 為左個仔, 幾尷尬既野都唔怕, 我果時個女考小一, 最後WAITLIST, 又係顛左, 之後狂寫信, 叩門, SEND EMAIL俾校長, 由十月叩到7月, 得左

我第一個幫你加油!

原帖由 milkonline2 於 10-10-6 03:26 PM 發表
I received the 1st reject letter from st paul boys, burst into tears and my heart is broken and getting hurt.  As my son is the top one adn presentable in the class.  He is extremely polite and good b ...

goo_littlebb

完全明白你感受, 我都係同你類似既情況, 本來坐定粒六果間只係waiting, 真係好難接受, 我都喊左好多晚.

想做既就去做, 博下囉, 再留意下其他學校, 實會搵到間o岩佢既!

不過恕我多口, 如果你係收到reject, 而唔係waiting, 可能機會都幾微~

milkonline2

THe letter  mentioned "your application form will be kept until september 2011 for possible re-consideration. However, I think it's no hope and it's a kind of fate.  My son has already worked hard and he is proud of his performance on that day.

原帖由 goo_littlebb 於 10-10-6 03:37 PM 發表
完全明白你感受, 我都係同你類似既情況, 本來坐定粒六果間只係waiting, 真係好難接受, 我都喊左好多晚.

想做既就去做, 博下囉, 再留意下其他學校, 實會搵到間o岩佢既!

不過恕我多口, 如果你係收到reject, 而唔係wa ...

panbaby

咁即是話個心還不需要碎至.. 是有希望的, 但你就會辛苦些, 我想BK 的媽咪會好樂意教你怎樣做.  細佬可唔可以唔講至?, 佢問就話仲未知 (沒有講大話, 因真的未到最後日子, 奇蹟往往好後才發生)

面試好講LUCK, 父母的愛及堅持才是勝利之道.  

原帖由 milkonline2 於 10-10-6 15:48 發表
THe letter  mentioned "your application form will be kept until september 2011 for possible re-consideration. However, I think it's no hope and it's a kind of fate.  My son has already worked hard and ...

mscmit

原帖由 milkonline2 於 10-10-6 15:48 發表
THe letter  mentioned "your application form will be kept until september 2011 for possible re-consideration. However, I think it's no hope and it's a kind of fate.  My son has already worked hard and ...

個人覺得，你個仔可能未見過其他更好嘅學校啫，不如努力睇吓考埋餘下嘅學校先，讀一年小一，比心機考個好成績，如果真係仲好想好想入Paul Boys，到小二搏吓插班仲好啦。

littlemelody

原帖由 mscmit 於 10-10-6 16:17 發表


個人覺得，你個仔可能未見過其他更好嘅學校啫，不如努力睇吓考埋餘下嘅學校先，讀一年小一，比心機考個好成績，如果真係仲好想好想入Paul Boys，到小二搏吓插班仲好啦。 ...

Agree.- 如果真係仲好想好想入Paul Boys，到小二搏吓插班仲好啦。

Just say something to comfort the small little boy. Hope he will forget about this school.

milkonline2

好多謝你地嘅安慰，囝囝從K1開始，每次經過佢都話好想讀st Paul boys,每次我都同佢講：你努力就得架喇! 我依家諗起依d片刻就想喊。而佢依兩年都好努力好乖，我有咁好嘅囝囝都好安慰。我只報多咗三間但對依三間完全無期望，惟有隨緣吧！

jeremyphlam

原帖由 milkonline2 於 10-10-6 15:26 發表
I received the 1st reject letter from st paul boys, burst into tears and my heart is broken and getting hurt.  As my son is the top one adn presentable in the class.  He is extremely polite and good b ...

唔使唔開心喎，佢地揀學生的方法咁奇特，走漏眼絕對唔奇。

goo_littlebb

你應該好慶幸有個咁乖既仔, 佢去到邊度讀都會咁優秀.
係間學校唔識欣賞姐, 唔駛咁唔開心!

原帖由 milkonline2 於 10-10-6 17:01 發表
好多謝你地嘅安慰，囝囝從K1開始，每次經過佢都話好想讀st Paul boys,每次我都同佢講：你努力就得架喇! 我依家諗起依d片刻就想喊。而佢依兩年都好努力好乖，我有咁好嘅囝囝都好安慰。我只報多咗三間但對依三間完全無期望，惟有 ...

bobee

yes, St. Paul Boy's was my son's 1st rejection letter last year. I know how you feel. But actually think of it this way, their 1st priority is siblings and those with relationships, what's left for outsiders are less than 2 classes.  So, very tough to get in...  I was even worst, rejection letters one after another...but at the end, got accepted by a DSS school - but just couple of months before P1 starts.

hellojl

原帖由 milkonline2 於 10-10-6 15:26 發表
I received the 1st reject letter from st paul boys, burst into tears and my heart is broken and getting hurt.  As my son is the top one adn presentable in the class.  He is extremely polite and good b ...

add oil la! 睇完你个post, 我都喊出黎, 喊係因為我个仔唔叻,但做父母的心中總會盼望奇績出現, 所以好明白你个仔咁smart而被reject的感受!


努力ar, 希望在明天!

cmchang0927

Don't be upset.  I had the same feeling as yrs last yr.  My girl entered the second interview of DGJS and was turned down for the final...... She was the top student in class, got awards from athletics, maths, putonghua story telling, etc..... Study is life long, since yr boy is good, he ll do well in any school.  So the teachers and classmates ll also love him, dont worry too much!

andrewpapa

To Milkonline 2,

don't give up, if you like paul boys, Keep writing headmistress letter, you never know what will come next.

If you write, there's still a chance, if you give up, no more.  

also, keep your son be possitive on any result, it is a learning process.

Add oil...

Furbabies

There might be more rejection letters to come in the months ahead.  Don't be discouraged and don't show it to your son.  Your son needs only one acceptance letter from the school meant for him.  And it's yet to come.
Blessings.

huba

Sorry to know your situation. Please do address your emotions first. Release it by talking with your husband or good friends or it may overflow and affects your son too.

1. Be persistent - Not to give up. Keep contacting the school principal regularly by letter.

2. Be practical - Trust your son. His future will not be limited by this school's rejection. With your son's good attributes and family support, he can develop well in many schools. Be open and do try others.

原帖由 milkonline2 於 6/10/2010 15:48 發表
THe letter  mentioned "your application form will be kept until september 2011 for possible re-consideration. However, I think it's no hope and it's a kind of fate.  My son has already worked hard and ...

[ 本帖最後由 huba 於 10-10-7 23:33 編輯 ]

IWAT

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cpcog

I hope your son would get good news in other schools! I agree that you can try again for P2! :) if he is that smart and polite, many other schools would welcome him!! Maybe he would enjoy the school life in another school and doesn't want to leave anymore! :)

brian61950

人生往往都係咁,不如意事十常八九.

盡人事,看天命.問心無愧.
塞翁失馬,焉知非福.

求而求不得,煩惱自生. 隨緣吧!