也許一切已太遲！？

常樂

媽媽 xx 唔收我呀
…………..

面試前多位校長給予貼士

- 不需參加面試班的                                       
- 學習檔案其實沒有什麼幫助                       
- 一般日常生活的應對、常識就可以了      
-不贊成揠苗助長，造成小朋友很大壓力，面試表現自 然就好                                                            



剛面試後
1 囡囡剛才考乜呀？
  都唔知Ｄ老師講乜
  点解呀？
  講英文，都唔明
  乜唔喺問妳叫乜嘢名，住喺邊，幾多歲咩
  唔喺呀，都唔知講乜

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2囡囡考成点呀？
  ………….
老師問乜呀
老師問我有無學英文、數學同音樂
………….

3 今日老師問乜呀？
  畫畫
  媽媽：爸爸乜我哋有報到美術學院咩

4 爸爸對媽媽講，覺得好大壓力，媽媽問點解？
  呀女已經過咗第一部份面試，第二次面試要in我呀，
  唔收真喺覺得對嗰女唔住

5 慘，嗰女怕羞又無自信，點算
  唔怕，揾間學校主要幫佢建立自信咪得囉

幣！間學校in學生時要學生有自信至收架

媽媽：爸爸又收reject信喇，雖然我哋已避開Ｄ傳統名校但一樣無學校收，其實喺咪真喺要催谷呀女呢
至少報名讀吓面試班或多或少都有Ｄ幫助，現在
也許一切已太遲


爸爸：媽媽，難道已忘記我哋嘅信念？

我們只不過想呀女快快樂樂地生活

點解要由Ｋ2甚至Ｋ１開始催谷呢

人生苦短，童年不是應該開心Ｄ嗎

若果催谷對每個人都可行的話

我想全世界都會實行催谷的

現在我們不是還有大抽獎機會嗎

也許一切沒太遲。



各位家長加油呀！

thomasha

你令我想起，很多有實力的藝人在表現的時候看似自然不過，原來所看到的"自然"其實也是經過悉心舖排的，絕不是真的即興和沒綵排過的。

原帖由 常樂 於 10-10-30 00:31 發表
媽媽 xx 唔收我呀
…………..

面試前多位校長給予貼士

- 不需參加面試班的                                       
- 學習檔案其實沒有什麼幫助                       
- 一般日常生活的應對、常識就可以了    ...

Almond.

我覺得要做到校長講既所謂＂自然＂，係要訓練到小朋友做每一件事都自動做出來，好似條件反射一樣。例如要小朋友面試完成後要將坐椅拉好，我相信呢d小動作好容易忽略，尤其面試時好緊張就更加容易忘記，但如果小朋友已經比人train左一百幾卄次，我相信面試一定唔會忘記。呢d就係事前既準備功夫。

sweetma

好正！

IGLOO

"自然"的背後是很不自然，係要有一輪人工代的改造才可以自然地面對老師的問題。

Ivy.cheung

好有同感, 我都開始自問係咪K1開始應該比多D堂佢上, 例如英文班、普通話班等等. 又或者幼稚園揾間出名D等等 ......

而家好似有D後悔, 但又想囝囝開心過童年, 唔想佢成日上堂做功課.

不過, 相信而家都係時候加緊點, 以備將來考中學.

原帖由 常樂 於 10-10-30 00:31 發表
媽媽 xx 唔收我呀
…………..

面試前多位校長給予貼士

- 不需參加面試班的                                       
- 學習檔案其實沒有什麼幫助                       
- 一般日常生活的應對、常識就可以了    ...

ssdiana

Keep your value, do not be influenced by the "unhealthy" atmosphere, in the long run, your belief will override the "short sighted" training.

I appreciate your value of "keeping your child having a happy childhood""....why this is wrong?? or our education policy should take a look at this "unhealthy" crazy ...

原帖由 Ivy.cheung 於 10-10-30 09:52 發表
好有同感, 我都開始自問係咪K1開始應該比多D堂佢上, 例如英文班、普通話班等等. 又或者幼稚園揾間出名D等等 ......

而家好似有D後悔, 但又想囝囝開心過童年, 唔想佢成日上堂做功課.

不過, 相信而家都係時候加緊點, ...

JustAFather

<機會>只會留給有預備的人。

vvwawa

agree

原帖由 JustAFather 於 10-10-30 11:09 發表
只會留給有預備的人。

35C9

一世流流長, 學習有大把時間, 童年得一個, 支持要擁有快樂的童年!

cheng2

You have exactly pointed out what our kids are
facing.  So real but also sad   

原帖由 常樂 於 10-10-30 00:31 發表
媽媽 xx 唔收我呀
…………..

面試前多位校長給予貼士

- 不需參加面試班的                                       
- 學習檔案其實沒有什麼幫助                       
- 一般日常生活的應對、常識就可以了    ...

angeemama

Right! how many kids could present smart naturally?? Parents behind them have done tons and tons of work in order to train up their kids to be smart in front of the examiner.  People always just look at the outcome and forget about the hard work they have done before.

A lot of people also said about to give a kid a happy childhood and stress free environment for them to learn.  I also agreed with that.  However, we can also create an atmosphere which a kid can have initiative to learn.  We make them to go for Eng or Math class because we want them to learn more or just because of the sake of the certificate so we can fill in the application form?  If the kid find learning is fun and interesting, they would not resist.  They won't find it a hard job.  They find it is hard because we, as a parent, give them that kind of impression.

4in1family

your sharing is very true. But I don't think it 100% relate to "training classes". It's also about 身教, family values...etc and it can be very demanding to parents.

If the competition is not be put at P.1 and the competition is not so fierce, the whole thing becomes much more make sense.

Personally, I don't think "happy childhood" surpass everything. In fact, kids' happiness also build on their self confidence and a fruitful life too. As parents, we should train and educate our kids no matter there is P.1 interview or not. The unlucky thing is - now it seems that everything is targeting to the school interviews only and there is no space for child's development. The sadness is we all know that every kid is different and has their own pace but now all of them have to be tested at this stage.

But I believe that education is a long journey and as long as the direction is correct, our kids will arrive their own destination eventually.

I know some parents that they have put lots of 心思 on child's raising, not because they are targeting the 名校, it's because they treat child raising very seriously. I got some friends that they are not enjoy being parents and they don't bother to plan anything for their kids even they are very well educated. They always said - their kids are very happy now.

It's a painful game and it's sad that HK education policy makers do such a lousy job.




quote]原帖由 常樂 於 10-10-30 00:31 發表
媽媽 xx 唔收我呀
…………..

面試前多位校長給予貼士

- 不需參加面試班的                                       
- 學習檔案其實沒有什麼幫助                       
- 一般日常生活的應對、常識就可以了    ... [/quote]

ferrynferry

我覺得身教係最重要 同面試班真係無咩用

mamakitty

原帖由 IGLOO 於 10-10-30 05:18 發表
"自然"的背後是很不自然，係要有一輪人工代的改造才可以自然地面對老師的問題。

Totally Agree

mamakitty

原帖由 JustAFather 於 10-10-30 11:09 發表
只會留給有預備的人。

我非常非常之認同, 雖然快樂的童年係重要, 但係喺非常嘅時期就要有非常嘅"手段"

d2343130

如果已有信念不"催谷"小孩因要為小一入學面試而"準備考試". 那便不用認為太遲=沒為小朋友作好準備, 因這些已不是一般DSS/私校收生的準則. 她們應不會收你的小朋友.

所以她們的學位,真是留如"有有預備"和"有非常手段"培訓的小朋友.

沒有機會也不是你或你小孩的問題.

這是此"遊戲"之規則,並不代表你的小朋友不聰穎.

thomasha

Like Like Like!

原帖由 d2343130 於 10-10-30 18:06 發表
如果已有信念不"催谷"小孩因要為小一入學面試而"準備考試". 那便不用認為太遲=沒為小朋友作好準備, 因這些已不是一般DSS/私校收生的準則. 她們應不會收你的小朋友.

所以她們的學位,真是留如"有有預備"和"有非常手 ...

Queenie_0012

D 校長梗係咁講架喇~
唔通話俾你聽, 我地要D SMART 架~
要WELL TRAINED O既細路咩.

所以, 如果你小朋友平時少接觸外界, 咁就真係要TRAIN 下, 等去面試時, 唔會怯場, 已經好好. TRAIN 係指你自己教都得架喇. 去面試班又唔使O既~

樓主, 唔好咁擔心.
你知依家D 小學啦, 咩古靈精怪O野都會考. 邊預備得咁多!  
有D 鍾意考學術, 有D就考日常應用題.
一定有一間鍾意你個小朋友O既~ 唔好咁擔心.
支持你!