幾時可放手????

rr

這幾星期因自己工作比較忙, 而且有d唔舒服, 阿囡又正是測驗週, 實在無精神幫佢, 只是提住佢要自己溫習, 每晚回家只能有約1小時時間, 她便要上床了, 但這1小時中, 跟本溫唔到咩野, 因為我我發覺"小姐"跟本完全空白, 完全沒有讀過, 我很激氣,但她自己又好似無所謂.   咩成績亦不介意.

派了兩科, 雖然亦有8x 分, 不太差, 但比之前的已有十多分差距, 我不是要求高分, 而是要她自覺一點, 阿囡可以完全不覺讀書是自己, 成日要我迫佢, 我都好辛苦.  :cry:

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Sindy

唔好咁唔開心啦,我教唔到你,因為我個女都係咁的,我諗大部份細路都係咁的呀   

MonicaY

I totally understand your feeling.  My girl is now in P.3 and her rank is quite high (no. 2 in the p.3 & no. 1 in her class).  But she is not that hard-working as compared to myself when I was at her age.  Sometimes quite absent-minded.  Even my mom asks me not to be so strick to her.  I believe 將勤補拙 but my husband always said that 女兒的腦還未開竅.  But I just can't sit & do nothing.  Or to the point may be I can't accept she got less than 85 marks one day.

didima

rr:
我估是因你忙,所以心情較差,你又倦,耐性就變得無咁好,
你要教識佢自動自覺,真係需要時間,囡囡習慣了你同佢溫,佢一定等你,你不如試下幫佢溫8成,2成耍佢自已溫,唔好一開始就全部,你唔開心佢又會唔開心,你觀察下囡囡玩Й野時最積極,同主動
2成3成5成,你見倒佢進步,你會開心d,8x分很好了,9x就very good,100分就天時地人和至得

didima

didima

求學不是求分數,最重要係佢真的了解幾多,認識的深度和闊度有幾多,大家不是想子女是考試高手,而是解難能力
要去接狗先,再傾
didima

Amyony

Agreed with Rachel & Mavis. Actually my son's kinder required us to let them taking the responsbility.  My son is in P1 and I only go through the things with him every Sat and he will take care of it himself.  

Howwever my son try to make his homework very fast but with very poor handwriting.  The teacher try to complain this.  I don't what should I do.

Amy

rr

阿囡今次test不太好, 佢又lazy, 我又busy, 完全沒有revise 呀
阿囡maths test only got 7X,  
但阿囡都無所謂, 因為她已經覺得唔錯, 沒媽媽幫, 其他亦可以有8x 及 9x
佢話only maths 不好, she thinks o.k. BUT she forgot last test all of the subject she can got 9x  

我並不是要求分數, 本來想借今次忙碌, 阿囡可明白, 成績是她自己的, 媽媽不會一直陪讀的.

又要再諗下點幫佢啦



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