健康院d姑娘唔比我帶歲半囝囝返playgroup??

阿Be

6月尾囝囝去健康院打一歲半針, 我見囝囝平時唔多講野, 就同姑娘講話諗住比佢返下playgroup, 點知個姑娘一聽到就"吩咐"我不可以!! 佢話囝囝抵抗力仲未夠"應付"室內集體活動, 最起碼要佢夠兩歲先好返!!......仲話d幼兒/幼稚園都係為賺錢先同人宣傳話越早返學越好......

唉~~~而家我老公聽哂個姑娘話, 唔比我帶囝囝去報playgroup呀!! 但又心急囝囝仲係一口BB話, 咩都唔識講 ....好煩呀!!

prettywife

playgroup is not a must

are u a full time mom?

rabbitpiggy

阿Be, 姑娘都唔錯得晒架.  好似我囝囝咁, 係13個月開始返playgroup, 返左2個月, 中間試過一次腸胃炎燒了1 week (返playgroup 時有茶點的), 和一次低燒, 未夠38度, 亦冇病晶.  依家課程完左, 我囝囝都冇再返其他playgroup啦.  

之前, 我囝囝只係打了1 year old 針燒過一次, 從未試過因病而發燒的.

其實你囝囝未識講野, 你可以係屋企多d 同佢講下一樣可以的, 不一定要返playgroup.  playgroup 亦不會教你囝囝講野的, 只係一些集體活動

rabbitpiggy

forster

你囡囡2 year old 先講野, 咁你有冇帶囡囡去做咩特別training 或去健康院比姑娘睇下呢?

forster 寫道:
唔咁要啦,我女2 yr.先開始學講野,依家佢未足2.5yr,都講過不定,有時好想佢停下  

阿Be

Prettywife:

我係在職媽媽，平時淨係得個不太懂廣東話的印印照顧囝囝，所以先會發展得咁慢…….我平時放假都會同囝囝讀圖卡，但永遠都係得我講，好似個傻婆咁!  我試過在囝囝用BB話要求時扮聽唔明，諗住迫佢講出想怎樣，但佢永遠都係發"皮"氣大喊收場….唉……

IP

環境雖然有影響, 但不同的bb都有不同的發展進度(好行?),唔急得, 不要介意自己係咪傻婆, 總之就是不斷同bb玩、唱、講, 仲要精選幾隻故事、朗誦、兒歌之類的cd, 叫印傭日日定時定候播給bb聽, input得多, bb就會慢慢講話啦。我仔仔初時都不肯跟大人講嘢, 但玩玩吓就跟你講最後一個字, 現在仍很難突破講2個字, 不過, 都係要慢慢來啦!

阿Be

Dear IP,

多謝你的建議, 等我去cd舖睇下有咩好聽o既兒歌cd先.....你有無好介紹?!!  thanks in advance.

Be

IP

Dear Be,
不用客氣. 我常給bb聽的little people productions(小人國)出版的「兒歌嘉年華」系列之「乖乖兒歌」(因為另外三隻程度對我bb較深, 而且好聽指數一般)及「唸唐詩學普通話」系列, 他們的製作很不錯。另外還有「小熊維尼的晚安故事」系列(全美文化出版), 是粵普兩語版, 有cd有簡單版故事書, 算不錯, 但對未夠兩歲的bb故事稍長, 但也不要緊。其實坊間都有不少好的製作, 旋律好聽、咬字清楚就不錯。不過我對bb看vcd都較多限制。

阿Be

Dear IP,

多謝你, 介紹好詳細啊! 不過我見坊間的cd舖都係賣vcd多, 淨cd的比較少, 真係要比心機d去搵下先, thank you very much!

loklokc

Dear IP,

You can buy the CDs from Bookstore like 商x, 三 x.  But it is more expensive.  Or you can see if there is any book fair in shopping mall.  It is much cheaper.  小人國出版 is good ar.

Going to playgroup is not a must.  You can bring your son to playground to play with other kids.

About speech ability, everyone development is different.  My son starts single word in 18 months, mainly English.  He can talk more when he is 22 months.  (both English & Cantonese)  Don't push yr son.  Just play with him more, sing with him more, talk with him more, story-telling before bed etc.  

If you have any queries, you can bring your son to do assessment in Child Assessment Centre.

Keep it up.

loklokc

loklokc

Sorry , should be to 阿BE
loklokc 寫道:
Dear IP,

You can buy the CDs from Bookstore like 商x, 三 x.  But it is more expensive.  Or you can see if there is any book fair in shopping mall.  It is much cheaper.  小人國出版 is good ar.

Going to playgroup is not a must.  You can bring your son to playground to play with other kids.

About speech ability, everyone development is different.  My son starts single word in 18 months, mainly English.  He can talk more when he is 22 months.  (both English & Cantonese)  Don't push yr son.  Just play with him more, sing with him more, talk with him more, story-telling before bed etc.  

If you have any queries, you can bring your son to do assessment in Child Assessment Centre.

Keep it up.

loklokc[/quote]

filicity

阿Be,

我個人意見就係你買CD時,要選擇單一語言,如果一下子比佢聽得太多多國語言,咁就會令到佢有語言障礙.要小心呀!

Fili

阿Be

真係多謝哂咁多位o既意見, 我而家relax好多啦 (原來咁多BB都係會比較遲講野).....我諗我而家唯一可以做o既就係搵多d教材比BB, 等佢聽多d.....thank you 哂呀

Be

loklokc

阿Be
要互動的, 等佢聽多d之餘, 妳都要同佢溝通多d!我麵
努力!我都agree Single language first.

loklokc

IP

各位媽咪,
我想討論下, 單一語言是否真的好一些? 我見許多媽咪都是夾雜中文和英文, 尤其喜歡買d英文書或vcd給小朋友, 好似都問題不大喎?

filicity

其實要視乎小朋友既能力,反之,就會令佢地有語言障礙呀!

loklokc

IP

As Filicity said, it depends on the ability of the children.  Some children have speech delay problem, bilingual environment is not good for them.   So, using their mother-tongue language is a better choice.

loklokc

Cynthiasia

其實, 除左聽音樂之外, 都可以每日俾15-30分鐘的電視俾亞b睇, 例如:World Disney或者一d啱bb睇的vcd, 但叫工人千祈唔好俾佢睇太耐時間。 另外, 你可以多d時間同個仔傾解, 但唔需要太刻意, 例如我會趁住同佢在上落樓梯時自己講1,2,3.....日子有功, 佢聽得多, 未必即時見效, 但一講就好快..呢d係我的經驗, 希望幫到你啦。