Behaviors change after start N1

chickenwing

My girl starts N1 since beginning of Aug. She was long to go to kinder before she really start school. Always ask me when she can start kinder.

But after she really start N1, the first week was okay, but after that she start to cry at kinder and refuse to go to school. The last word before bed and the first word wake up is ' I don't want go to school anymore'.

Another behaviors change is, she used to quite polite to the others, greet them in the morning, like to play with other kids. But now, she don’t' want to greet anyone in the morning nor play to any kids in the playground. Sometime, some younger kids approach her, she feel so withdraw and tried to hide her head.

I don't really know why her behavior changes in an extreme like this... I tried to talk to her but I couldn't get any idea. She just said she don't want to see so many kids around.... (Actually my girl is quite talkative and can describe herself feeling well most of the time, but she didn't say much about why she doesn't like school and not play with other kids)

chickenwing

any comment/advise?  :cry:

rabbitpiggy

你有冇同你囡囡學校的teacher 傾過呢?  可能佢地會有 idea, 話晒佢地都係比較有experience

ElaineYuen

Guessed maybe some kids in the school hit/scold her that's why she is frighten to go school?

Agreed that should call to the teacher to ask and hope they will pay more attention on your child see if can find out the reason or not.

chickenwing

thanks for your responses. I tried to talk to teacher already, she ake me to wait and see since there's new comer in Sept(my girl start her N1 at Aug), then my girl emotion change again.

I tried to talk to my girl, how she found in kinder, she mentioned she's happy most of the time. But the next day morning,she refuses to go to school.:cry:

I want to change kinder for her for K1, but now her emotion so  unstable, don't know how to go thro' all the interview later  :cry:

rabbitpiggy

你囡囡讀邊間學校呢?

我認為你先不要同囡囡轉校, 既然老師叫你wait and see, 咁你咪試下wait and see, 你一定要對老師有信心先, 否則即使再搵第二間學校結果可能都係一樣.

chickenwing

thanks for your response rabbitpiggy. I won't change kinder for her right away, I was thinking about to change in K1. I'll let her finish N1 first.